Help Lonely virgin girl?

Question

I'm so lonely that I'm on yahoo answers saying this ...lol That's idiotic, I know.

I'm told I'm an attractive, cool chick, by my one bestie, but i also haven't had a date in years, new friend, sex, etc....


People harp on "Oh join clubs/go to bars" etc but that's so hard and intimidating to do by yourself. I've lived away from my hometown (23) for school for the last two years and haven't made any friends, just one girl from school that I'm kind of friendly with, The problem is im just so shy, I often get approached by girls/guys to hang out or dat, but i always find an excuse/stuff it up etc....im just chronically shy!

What the fuck is wrong with me...I haven't dated a boy since i was 16, and I'm just man...sorry having low tonight everyone. Just effed up my chance to hang out with guy tonight cause I over analyzed how it would all play out/what i do....

ahhh!

Thanks for listening, anyway.

Answer 1

Nothing is wrong with you, from the sounds of it you are normal. I also do not go out to bars / clubs that entire scene is pretty low brow in my opinion. I met some people in college when my roommate forced me to go to a house party that his friend was putting on. I was really leery about going because I did not know the guys too well and I do not usually drink. However by the end of the night I was enjoying myself and made a few friends.



I think you should just leap at the next chance you get when you are invited out by classmates.

Answer 2

Chill and get a guy but i would recommend you to wait for the right time. By the way, being virgin, you are going to make most jealous!

Answer 3

it is not idiotic to come on herre and share, it is okay to express yourself, it is much better than keeping it in.



You must wait for the right moment, and time, and most importantly the right person whom you will open up to, and bond with.



When you're ready for true love making, it shall happen.



All the best.

Answer 4

U shud Make new frends nd show them care nd trust them..... slowly they will be attracted towards u.....

if u are so lonely we can be frends

u can also mail me at [e-mail]

Answer 5

Email me at [e-mail] You live in Ohio?

Answer 6

I can help with that !

Answer 7

thanks for listening. when did I listen to you?

I just read it.

but it's ok.

have a good time



thanks in advance for selecting my Answer for Best Answer.