Question:
Does this girl like me? Girls/guys please help i need your advice! 10pts best answer?
2009-12-05 12:11:08 UTC
OK here's how it went down:
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As you can probably guess, I wrestle. We all had practice today so me and the boys are just chillin in the locker room, talking, messin around. We have 2 female managers. 1 of the managers came up to the locker room with the other and she did the talking, she was like asking if anybody had seen this kid luke (also on the team) because her friend (the other manager) needed her phone back.

I was leaning against the wall talkin with my group when the manager (still outside out of sight) asked that. Me and a couple other people basically said no, i laughed and was like "nopee". Then she pokes her head in the open doorway (in view) and is basically looking around, but keeps looking to me, as she asks if anybody's seen him. I'm like "nope, whos luke? never heard of him" or something like that. Then she's like "yeah right you know him. you probably are just covering for him" or something like that. She said it in like a playfully mean way. Then I start laughing for real now (what can i say, im a funny guy) and then she was like "omg! your laughing! you do know where he is" and then i was like "omg! no i dont! y dont u ask somebody else?" then i look over and i see this tool sitting down and im like "yeah why dont u ask this guy? hes a pretty well known guy" and hes just like "huh what?".

Then she starts to playfully argue again but I turn to my boy and i was like "hey jon, where'd he go?" mimicking her, and then we both were like "that way! that way!" pointing every direction with both hands. everybody cracked up.

Then she starts chasing me! This girl comes INTO the locker room. Now im not in any shape to run right now, you could even say im crippled. my ankle and knee are both healing up (ill be good in a few days probly) so im like laughing and limping away and this crazy b*tch is running INTO the room after me, laughing and pretending to be pissed, and she hits me on the back/arm. i pretend to scream. she laughs. so then i was like "wowww yesss lets all beat up on the cripple" and she was like "haha im sorry" or some BS, so i was like "well guys at least we have a good manager this year. wayyy tighter than last years managers" (everybody basically knows i banged last years manager every dayyy haha).

Then after that, she left, and like 20 minutes later practice starts and we're running around, im with my man mark, and she's like "hey chris!" and i pretend to not hear her so mark nudges me and hes like "yo, shes calling you" so i look over next time i run around the circle, and shes like "hey, is your ankle feeling any better?" and i make an inch sign with my fingers and im like "yeah, a little bit". Then mark is messing with me/us and hes like "oooh chrissss she wants to know if ur ankles better" and nods his head like he's insinuating (but didnt actually say out loud) "oh u gonna hit that?". Then he whispers "omg dude look, the manager is BEET red right now! hahhaha". I believed him pretty much but i didnt look over cuz honestly he kind of outed me and it would look lame of me if i did... lol
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oh, and before this, this same manager had been like asking me questions every now and then- "how come u havent been at practice?" or anything like that. Just whenever she sees me.
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Three questions:

1- Does this girl like me?

2- If she does, how much, and what should i say? I mean, i know pick up routines and all of that and they work sometimes, but what should i do/say to her? Like, should i be upfront about me thinking she likes me... or should i play it casual... how casual should i play it? Stuff like that

andddd...

3- my friend mark jokes now and then about sh*t and makes sh*t up now and then. BUT he told me TWICE- once earlier and once just now on facebook (i just got home)- that she really was blushing. Should I believe him? I mean i probly should, considering i could have looked to see if she was blushing, right? idk

AND CLARIFICATION: The manager i hooked up with last year is an entirely DIFFERENT MANAGER than the one THIS YEAR. The manager last year isn't involved in this story at all, except that i hooked up with her and people knew about it. The manager this year is the 1 that is doing everything i said above- locker room thing, beet red, etc.
Five answers:
Crystal
2009-12-05 12:26:11 UTC
well in answer to question 1- she probley if not definaitly likes you.



2- if she is asking about you everyday she is probley into you a lot. now if you like he then you could tell her straight forward but if u don't or even if you do, u can play it casual and see how she reacts.

3- he was probley telling the truth about her blushing. i mean i blush everytime i like a guy so she probley was. so go for it. and if you just hook up with her then dump her your an *** and i will be sorry i even helped you with this.



and p.s. thanks for the help on my question. im goin over there soon so maybe we can watch a movie in his room. THANK YOU
2016-05-26 15:35:35 UTC
Go ahead and tell her how you feel for her, don't remain in a state of being confused wondering whether she likes you or not, that is mere waste of time. But don't tell her and then expect a reply at that moment itself. If she replies back to you fine, if not give her some time and you can ask her the next day. If you ask why isn't she trying to talk to you, she might have the same question for you? Being shy is not the only reason a girl wouldn't make the first move. If you feel uncomfortable in front of her friends, try some other way (letters, or send her a gift), but I believe speaking and confessing to her upfront is best because it delivers a feeling that you are confident in what you are saying and you really mean it. Maybe not in front of her friends but I would ask you to confess her upfront when the time is right. Good Luck
Anonymous
2009-12-05 12:24:31 UTC
Answers to your questions:



1. Yes, she likes you a lot.



2. Don't use stupid pick-up routines! Just be yourself, but be nice, and just tell her how you think she's cute (if you think she is) and that you like that about her, I don't know, something like that. But yeah, I mean, you should know what to say, she seems to totally like you! And since she likes you, it doesn't really matter what you say as long as you be yourself.



3. She probably DID blush, because she likes you! Girls do that.. You should believe your friend.



I hope this helps you! I think I deserve 10 points, I read your tremendously long paragraphs lol! No, I'm kidding, best answer for the best answer.



I hope it all goes well.
2009-12-05 14:48:34 UTC
th best way to see if a girl like you or if you just confused about is too just talk to her that always works if she says no then it was meant to be ok girls love to talk about that stuff Good luck
loli
2009-12-05 12:29:15 UTC
1) i think that she likes you and is really bad at hiding it. 2) do you really want to be involved with another manager? if so go for it and ask her out. idk how much older is she because this sounds like shes a pedaphile


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