Should I avoid sex my whole life?

Question

I am 19, and even though I don't exactly hate women, I dislike many women, and not because of any rejection or something like that. On the contrary, many females have told me I am attractive to my face, including at least 3 of my female friends, and according to my friends, I have had girls blatantly check me out on several occasions, but I am oblivious to that kind of stuff and don't think too highly of my looks. My problem is that I can't understand girls as well as I would like, and I can't associate with most of them on a personal level, because I am extremely logical and analytical, and can't form personal connections with them. The problem is that though there are girls who are also logical and analytical, most of them are the geeky girls at engineering schools who act a lot like men because 85% of the school's population is male (I have a buddy who goes to RPI, and he confirmed this for me) or whatever. With every girl that I have had a serious attraction to, there was something there, like a barrier, that made me distant from her personally and eventually, no matter how hard (due to stubbornness) it would be for me to forget about her, I would just push her out of my mind and not ask her out. I have never felt a personal connection before with a girl, even with a platonic female friend. With every female friend I have, I always find something wrong with her with her personality and what not, and keep my distance from her, and the girls I consider friends are in reality more easy going than most girls, typically. On the other hand, I am very close to my male friends, even though I definitely NOT gay, and only hang out with male friends outside of class, unless my female friends come with my other male friends.

I have never asked a girl out, because I always force myself to just give up on the girls I have a serious attraction to, for whatever reason. I am just extremely comfortable in male-dominated environments and am not comfortable around a lot of girls.

Answer 1

The great news is, you're relatively young which is a great thing (I'm 20 myself).



Since you mentioned that you have some female friends that you feel are more easy going, try getting to know them better on a personal level to reach that personal connection you're striving to get.



Start texting them and even having friendly phone calls with them to build a good friendship.





The best thing about girls is that each and every one of them has a different personality to the point that every relationship would be a different experience (Some girls are more goofy and outgoing, while others have a more closed personality).



Try to experiment with some of your friends and see how things go.



Goodluck.

Answer 2

Just wait for the right person to come along. Waiting is worth it.

Answer 3

possibly u r gay, u in simple terms choose time to determine it out. intercourse is a ingredient of a healty existence. i´m not asserting to have irrational intercourse, yet intercourse with an stronger half. u r very youthful, it´s very probable that sooner or later u will meet a particular woman, u adult adult males will circulate out, and finally get married. Then u will rejoice with intercourse cos u 2 will love one yet another. it´s astonishing that u have expert plans for ur destiny. incredibly, i don´t see something unusual. the concern is that media tells us for all time that we could desire to constantly have intercourse for all time with each and every physique so stupid human beings believe it. looks like u r not that stupid. best for you! interior the propose time, rejoice with ur friends and relatives, learn stressful and date surprising women folk, u don´t ought to have intercourse with them, and in the event that they push you, leave them. U could desire to get to grasp women folk so as that when the single looks u can become attentive to her. good success!

Answer 4

Mhmm, maybe you'll find that perfect girl someday.

Answer 5

good luick, you'll find a girl eventually

Answer 6

WTF, Brian, next time you have a crush on an irrational female, DON'T MISS THE OPPORTUNITY! Ask her out. You sound as if you are shy. Practice, practice, practice.