girl advice!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!!?!?

Question

ok so theres this girl that i have been talking to for about 2 weeks off and on. Im not the smoothest with the girls so i have made a few mistakes, such as trying to keep coversations on fb and aim going for too long or messaging her day after day and not letting her have a break

ive only been talking to her for about three weeks, so is it too late to fix all that?? just make sure i give her the space she needs and dont bug message her one more time especially if she ends the convo right?

I wanna go to lunch with her this coming weekend itll be the first time we actually hang out and at some point it could get pretty awkward so how do i stop that? what can we talk about? topic?

thanks in advance

Answer 1

She probably won't mind the whole annoying her thing and will forget about it if you two get to know each other better. As for the date, if you're young and its' the first I think you should go out with a group of people instead, so if you run out of things to say to each other you can always talk to the person next to you. Then maybe the weekend after you can go out to lunch with her to show her that you like her in more of a girlfriend way than a friendly way.



As for conversation topics for the lunch date, talk about:



Her friends

Her family

Her favourite movies/books/actors



If you have some similar interests you should probably be able to keep a conversation going. In case of awkward silences, talk about the people around you and the place you're eating and when you can go out again. That kind of stuff.

Answer 2

Well honey you could message her once or twice a week and if its a conversation then it can never be to long. Trust me on this if you stop messaging her she will wonder why you stopped let her message you for once and that will let you know if she is interested in you.



As for lunch with her



You could ask her what interest her, what her favorit color is, what kinda gifts she likes and just stuff like that.

Answer 3

No no no its not to late!



& about the awkwardness Maybe invite a few friends.. especially if its the first time! ;) hope it helps!

Answer 4

Ask her out for lunch and just talk to her like you would talk with your best friend. just be calm and try not to over talk. let her talk to and it will all flow. good luck =] answer mine?: https://answersrip.com/question/index?qid=20090921182211AABM0RK

Answer 5

hi!