Is sending nude photos to someone else cheating?

Question

Hi. I have been talking to this 50 year old married man for several weeks now, he is looking to get laid his wife hasn’t had sex in three years since she went through the change. (Menopause) they have a family together and he works long hours he lives an hour away from me. We talk daily we fantasize about being with each other i send him nude photos of my private area and chest he send one of him. He wants to meet up to have sex but i’m in a relationship. is sending nudes to someone else cheating?

Answer 1

You have already traveled quite a distance on the road to cheating.

Answer 2

Yah it's cheating

Answer 3

I don't see it as cheating. It is rather a good idea to cheer up a person you talk to for a while with some nice pictures. So don't worry about it too much - sending photos and having sex attire is different. Just make sure you get photos in return as well. Cheers

Answer 4

If you are in a relationship with someone else then yes, it is cheating

Answer 5

Yes

Answer 6

how would you feel if your boyfriend did it

Answer 7

Not if he doesnt have a wife

Answer 8

Yes, it is cheating, but this happens in more relationships than you might think. A large percentage of married people cheat, but love their spouses, yet the excitement of variety is out there and not going to change. I think you and he will soon find a way to get together for some hot sex together. Just enjoy it. I know you will.

Answer 9

Just make sure he pays you cash . Don't give it to him for free.

Answer 10

Yes it is

Answer 11

its cheating to have a connect with someone else your thinking about having sex with.

Answer 12

Yes.

Answer 13

It's a form of emotional cheating. Supposedly little things lead to big things.

Answer 14

Yes it is. Plus never send nudes! I'm a girl and I did it with a guy when I was 16. Just 2 years later I realize how stupid, and nasty it is. Plus how would you feel if he was sending nudes to girls? Yesss it's cheating. Can he go through your phone without you being scared?

Answer 15

I'm going to assume you're trolling because surely nobody could be that stupid AND have such low standards?

Answer 16

He'll yes it is cheating big time.

Answer 17

I think you know the answer to that. How shameful - both your partners deserve better.

Answer 18

Yes

Answer 19

Its still pretty mean and shitty even if you have not had sex! Are you some kind of amoral idiot? Besides even if you don’t look at it that bad it leads to “real cheating”

Answer 20

If I punch you with my left hand even though I’m right handed, am I still punching you?

Answer 21

Yes, it's wrong and you're disrespecting your partner by sending someone else nude pictures, especially a married man. He's also disrespecting his wife as well by looking for a fling with someone outside of marriage.

Answer 22

Yes it’s cheating.

Answer 23

Why would you want to be with a married man? Especially when you yourself are in a relationship? I think your both idiots. And yes sending naked pics is a form of cheating bc your not being truthful to your part partners and it’s headed in that direction anyway.

Answer 24

It is deliberately attempting to initiate cheating.

It is in your mind, which is a betrayal of your relationship.

Thetecisxnomressin to stop sex after the menopause.

He just wants you as a bit of spare! Sorry, but face it.

Answer 25

i think the concept of what is cheating and what isn’t is extremely subjective, varying between the relationship you’re in, just as the concept of what is sex and losing your virginity is depending on the relationship.

Answer 26

I can think of situations where sending such photos would not be cheating, but this isn't one of them.

Answer 27

No, what you're doing is flirting. A penis has to go into a vagina for it to be cheating. 2/3 of married people have sex with other people. It isn't a big deal.

Answer 28

Personally, I love talking about sex anytime, anywhere and I am older as well. So feel free to leave your email. But to answer your question, yes this is emotional cheating.

Answer 29

hes married,yes u is cheating.homewrecker.if u break it off he will have ur nudes all over the place.u is just his side piece.Easter he will be with his family.how your life can change when you enter this dark world.,dial up ur self esteem and self respect,dignity,pride and get urself an available man.Of all the relationships you can get into as a girl, dating a married man is one of the worst kinds,, You’re the “other woman” who’s dating a married man. He’d love you physically, but his emotions still stay with his real family. u should feel terribly used. when you’re the “other woman” there are no weekends together, no family parties, no meeting friends, nothing.



You are just a mysterious part of a married man’s life that surfaces when he packs his bag and tells his wife he’s travelling to another city. It’s insulting, especially when he says you mean so much to him, but that’s the life you have to accept.

Answer 30

It's at the very least an attempt at cheating. There are many kinds of cheating. Put it this way if it is done with the knowledge and consent of his partner then it is not "cheating" in my opinion. Otherwise, well, you can figure it out...

Answer 31

Are there single men out there instead of messing with someone else's husband?

Answer 32

Seems like the intent has already crossed the line of loyalty and cheating. If your mind isn’t on the person you are with when sending pics, it’s cheating. It’s an affair no matter which way you look at it

Answer 33

Stay away from that man, do you really want to be known as a disgusting homewrecker (I mean you piratically already are one!)



No **** its cheating! You say you're dating somebody right now, would you want them to receive nude pictures from some other slut? Of course not!



Oh you've never cheated before, bullshit you're cheating right now. Stop your contact with this man immediately if you have any self respect. Do your boyfriend a favor and break up with him too, he deserves a better girl.

Answer 34

Yes it is

Answer 35

If your partner would not be okay with it, then yes. Some people are into that sort of thing, but if you hide bc you think theyll be upset, then yes.

Answer 36

Just looking at someone isn’t cheating but if you lust after them you have cheated

Answer 37

DISGUSTING!!!!! YOU DONT DESERVE A HUSBAND FOR ALL YOU KNOW THIS MAN COULD BE A FRIEND OF YOURS? have you met him in real life or facetimed ? NO

if so yes your a cheat/slag

Answer 38

For sure cheating. If you were/are in a relationship how would you feel if you found out that your partner was sending someone else nudes while you were asleep. Or while you were at work? It is cheating because that is not loyalty or honesty because I’m sure the other partner does not know.

Answer 39

yes even thinking about it is like doing it

Answer 40

YES. End of.

Answer 41

Technically yes.

Answer 42

did you really have to ask?

Answer 43

Yes. It's a form of cheating

Answer 44

That is not cheating

Considering the circumstances you should give him all the pvssy he wants

Answer 45

As soon as you engage in any kind of sexual behavior (including sending nude photos) with someone that is NOT your spouse or partner you ARE cheating. End this now before you physically end up in bed. Both of you are cheating on your partners/spouse right now.

Answer 46

Yeah, that pretty much counts as cheating. At the very least, it proves an intention to cheat. Maybe even attempted cheating, if you want to get technical.



Long before I got married, I worked as a male stripper for a couple of months. And I played in a locally famous rock band (and not for the money, if you know what I mean), which means more than a few dozen people have seen me completely naked. But that wasn't cheating, because I was free and single when it happened.



But I'm not single now, I'm legally married. If I took a pic of my Fidel Castro (aka The Little General, the pork sword, Darth Helmet, etc.) and sent it to another woman, my wife would get really mad for some silly reason. She might even file for a divorce, because sending photos of Major Woody and Private Parts is forbidden in the Laws Of Relationships.



If you have a significant whatever (husband, fiancé, boyfriend, girlfriend, etc.) and you're sending pics of The Twins or The Happy Valley to someone else, that counts as cheating in just about everyone's book.

Answer 47

If you can't do it in front of your partner and your partner is not a psychopath from the Lifetime "women in peril" type movies, then yes, it is cheating. If u hide your phone from your partner and/or look for a private space to text someone other than your partner, then yes, it is cheating. If you are sending photos of the body parts your partner gets tickled by you with, then yes, it is cheating. However, if ya'll are swingers, then its all in good fun! It depends on the parameters and guidelines set forth by you and your partner. If you have to ask, then you most likely know the answer, but are hoping on little orphan Annie's heart locket that we say its not cheating, so u can have fun! Live! If you or he can do it w/o guilt, then dont let us make u feel guilty. Everyone has a different threshhold and we're all gonna die anyway. Might as well die having done all the **** we wanted to do!

Answer 48

100% cheating



Cheating involves doing anything sexual or emotionally inapproriate while IN a relationship! You not only sent this man nudes, but you also confessed you want to have sex with him, just because you haven't had intercourse with him it doesn't mean its not cheating!



Look at this way, how would you feel if your boyfriend was sending dik picks to another girl and telling her he wanted to bang her? Would you be ok with it? Clearly not! So, put your self in his shoes and learn some god damn empathy.

Answer 49

Yes its cheating how would you like it if your partner did that to you? You would be mad won't you?

Answer 50

Adultry is what it's called.

Answer 51

Um do you not have common sense..? OF COURSE ITS CHEATING 🤦🏻‍♀️

Answer 52

But is u bout it bout it

Answer 53

Have you ever heard of emotionally cheating? Im gathering alot is missing from your relationship and you think you will get this from others. You won't my dear. It is an illusion of what you desire, its fun right now but heart ache is soon to come. You will eventually do the act 100% going down this road. You have set yourself up to cheat, and you will. Why put this temptation in front of you? You know its wrong. Does your spouse know? Do you want them to know? Of course not because its cheating... emotionally now but physically later. Right now you are dating the idea and crossing boundaries... You must be unhappy. You are addressing the wrong issues and lying to yourself. Talk to your spouse, resolve the real issues or get out.

Answer 54

females send me nude pictures of themselves all the time, i dont mind and its certainly not cheating lol



its their choice lol

Answer 55

I don't think it's cheating, but is sure is foolish. Why on Earth would you send ANYONE nude pics, let alone this married guy? What do you expect will happen if you do? Here's what could happen: he could post them online, he could show his friends, he could send them to your place of employment. Oh, and he'll stay with his wife. How does all that sound???

Answer 56

Yes it is. It’s not the picture itself, it’s the context behind it. Anybody can pull a nude pic off google and send it, is it cheating? No.



If you’re sending nudes, it means you’re trying to get intimate. Otherwise, why send a nude and not just a selfie? If you only send nudes and do nothing else, then no it’s not “cheating”. But the chances of that happening are zero to none.

Answer 57

Not if they are photos of naked mole rats.

Answer 58

Yes, its being unfaithful to your partner

Answer 59

Yes

Answer 60

No.

Answer 61

Yes ..you are cheating and he is super cheating because he is married and so you are lame for doing this. It will come back to you . If you find out one is married ...run the other way dummy.

Answer 62

HE’S MARRIED. YES it’s cheating. How would YOU feel if you were happily married and your partner was trading nudes and flirting over text?

Answer 63

You said you're already in a relationship with someone else. So, sending nude photos of your private area and your chest to a 50-year-old married man and meeting up with him to have sex would definitely be cheating.



I suppose you know that he's already shared those nude photos with all his male friends, and he's posted them all over the internet..

Answer 64

Yes.

Answer 65

Think of it this way; are you going to be hiding these photos and conversations from your partner? Will this married man be hiding them from his wife? (You bet). If you answered yes, then yes it is cheating. Speaking from experience, nothing is more sabotaging to your self-worth than being an old married man's side chick.

Answer 66

Some people say it is then yes.

Answer 67

You've never cheated before but you're thinking about doing it since you are asking this question

Answer 68

It most definitely is cheating and I think you know it is, but you are trying to justify your actions.

Answer 69

Sometimes cheating is a matter of the heart and not the reproductive system. Is YA truly your morale ground. If yes, you're already lost.

Answer 70

Of course it is. It's a direct and purposeful sexual action. And then there is the chance that he's being dishonest about absolutely everything. Except the wanting to meet up and have sex. That might be true. Your behavior seems, to me, to be direct and purposeful cheating in your relationship as well.

Answer 71

Only intimate couples do nude pic exchange to keep the spark alive and seeing one guy and sending pics to another guy is definitely cheating.

Answer 72

Yes, leave the woman’s husband alone. Doesn’t matter if she hasn’t had sex in three years. He could be lying or she could be sick. Either way, it’s their marriage.

Answer 73

it's not cheating unless you get caught

Answer 74

Yes it is.

Answer 75

yes its all cheating

Answer 76

Yes,it is cheating absolutely，what would you react if you know your boyfriend send her nude to a women?

Answer 77

Definitely, your present partner would likely ditch you if he found out, if he has normal pride.

Answer 78

Yes, you wouldn’t want you’re partner doing that would you?

Answer 79

No, what you're doing is flirting.

Answer 80

Yes it’s cheatin

Answer 81

If you're in a relationship or married to someone else entirely, then yes, definitely!

Answer 82

It isn't cheating until there is prolonged PIV penetration. Until then, it's flirting, fun, and friendship.

Answer 83

Yep. Ask your partner how they see it. Oh, you can't tell them because of how they'd react? Cheating.