my boyfriend was angry with me,and he did some really hurtful things,like going away and never calling?

Question

now he expects everything to be normal again,because he is no longer angry,why dont i feel the same anymore,i am even thinking of calling it quits,help me!

Answer 1

Whenever a guy did that to my mother when I was little, it was never the same once he came back. On the other hand, when my boyfriend has something happen, he needs about a week to himself for thinking it over and whatnot, then we talk again just like normal. The difference is me and my boyfriend talked about this the first day we started going out, so I was aware this was going to happen. My mom's boyfriends never said anything, they just left for awhile.

Another thing, it depends on what made him mad. Was it you? If it was, do you think he found some one else to comfort him while he was gone?

If you feel things aren't the same, that it probably won't be the same, it would probably be a good idea to call it quits.

Answer 2

ok hey



im 18 and ive done it to my girl too and thats not how it should be ur right





men get mad, and ive been tought, when that happens go find a wall or a pillow, ne thing else, not a person, people hurt..



but ive done it somtimes it is u that makes them a little mad,



relationships are about up and downs,



and remember when i say this that this is commin from a guy k



PUT HIM IN THE DOG HOUSE





not long, ok but atleast a good 6 hrs if u guys are CLOSE CLOSE CLOSE



if this is a like a 6 - 3 month relationship make it a day or two



let him know u aint no peice of meat, let him no their is other options,



but then again by doing this u let him know ur not willing to give up because thiers somthing worth somthing their...



if he has ne wits about him he will realize the worst thing u can do is be angry with a women, no offense but they think to much (like me) women dont let things ride like guys, and they make sure u know u did somthing bad.





hope u guys r ok





Zack

Answer 3

my boyfriend did the same once: he called me "*****". After that I quit him, but 2 weeks after we started dating again. To be honest, pride can ruin relationships and LOVE especially. But that doesn't mean you should forgive him! if you were really hurt, why should you supress your feelings and start dating again??? Do what you want to. But think carefully before taking any decision: you may regret very much after... (so did I)

Answer 4

every relationship has it's ups and downs. There could be times to where they seem very overwhelming. But always think, why do we fall? to learn to pick ourselves back up again... It's your choice on if you want to give him another chance. If anything, advise him of what you're almost about to do and perhaps he'll learn. Did he apologize for what he did??

Answer 5

It depends on what you did to make him so angry. If he was overreacting, then you should leave him.