Why are so many black brothers dating or marrying white women?

Question

I am curious to know why is there a growing number of black brothers dating or marrying white women? I am not prejudice at all, because I am myself black and have a brother who has only dated white women, and the white woman he with now they have a 1year old son, and a newborn daughter just born recently. They both are to get married soon, and my family and I like her a whole lot. We also just adore my nephew and neice. The thing is I have noticed a growing trend of black guys and white young women getting together, as though its a new fashion statement. I know all these guys cannot be dating white girls because they like or love them, it seems like a new trend, a in-thing to do.
My sister and I asked my brother once, why now he only dates white girls, he said because white girls don't talk back or argue as much as black girls do. He says black girls always want to be in control of everything, and always want to argue. My question is why is this going on, or is it a trend?

Answer 1

The media is promoting it, and it could be a societal trend as we progress in this post-modern world. Some evolutionary psychologists suggest that at this stage in the game, our DNA wants to mix up the gene pool a bit for the healthy survival of our species. Others say it is simply the result of less racial discrimination, which means more freedom to choose who we can date and marry. Opposites attract in many ways! I find myself more and more attracted to darker skinned races, and less inclined to date a guy who looks just like me.

Answer 2

Probably there would have been a lot of interracial dating before now if it hadn't been so taboo for so long.



Anyway, some people are just more attracted to white people than to other ethnicities. It's no different than being primarily attracted to tall people, or redheads, or people with pale skin or tan skin, or brown eyes, or whatever! If you noticed a bunch of blonde men dating brunette women, you wouldn't think it was some sort of weird trend, after all.



And it's not like the only interracial couples out there are black men/white women. Lots of people are dating outside of their own race. It happens nowadays. No big deal.

Answer 3

Im a mixed guy but I usually prefer white girls because a lot of the black girls I have been with have bad attitudes, aren't very classy, and like your brother said they like to argue.



Black and white relationships aren't really considered as much of a "bad" thing anymore so in the future you will probally see some more black guys with white women and the other way around.

Answer 4

Because white women are THE most attractive women in the world. Followed by Latinas.

Answer 5

"I know all these guys cannot be dating white girls because they like or love them, it seems like a new trend, a in-thing to do."

Wow that is an intelligent statement

Answer 6

did you ever think that maybe it has nothing to do with colour.

Maybe its just that these people get along well and like to see each other. Or maybe its because thats the colour they are most attracted to.



I see nothing wrong with it, and it definitely isnt a trend.

Answer 7

im a black guy and im inlove with a black girl

but i agree wth you bro. alot (not all) of black women are rude.mean to others. or slutty butt thats a turn on for me







what im saying is you cant easly piss a white women.

Answer 8

heres a thought. cause they want to.



my question to you and all the over people who love this topic is what does it matter to you?

Answer 9

cz ther hotter nd skinnier! not 2 b racist, but blk girls usualy r bigger nd hav bigger butts, nd guys lik skinny girls no guy liks a girl whos fat lol!

<3

Answer 10

because the finally have enuff balls to ask em out lol