does she hates me or loves me???????

Question

so i'm the younger one i'm 16 & my sister she is 23.
my b'day was on 24& 23 evening it happend.......i broke my specs and i asked her that would she give that to the shop????she said yes in a not interesting way.again i asked her please give it{she was going out for shopping}she nodded. i knew that she had only one holiday and she took it to complete her needs.without specs i'll go blind that's why i kept asking her for an assurance.but the third time she said that-"i only have 1 off & what do you mean should i spoil my off by wating in the specs shop????"my heart broke out.even if i didn't have time i made her all needs.
i said her u need not to give it or strive for my need?suddenly she slapped me several times shouted & said u spoiled my life.in anger i also began to slap but a really small one.i cried&yelled that no sisters beat there young ones like this suddenly she falled on my legs & started to act &said that -from tday i promise infront of god that i'll never slap u&never talk to u .again i cried &yelled "please sister don't say that the slap u gave me ..............suddenly she ran inside the room & said i'm going to die. i hold her she scratched me beat me again slaped on my face.she started hitting her head on the wall pressed her throat hard by saying i'm going to die u spoiled my life{her face was red she was really violent}.i cried & yelled again&again "don't slap me.i was wrong forgive me."i cried she said stop crying she's afraid to see me crying.i said sorry i hugged her.she said don't tell this to mother or anyone.i didn't told it to my mother but to my best friend&my breath{ he is really nice}they both said my sister has something mental.i don't know after that she always talked to me so rudely or she will hurt me by words or makes mom angry by saying about me&mom shouts at me.
it not only hapend with me but with my mom when mom said something she shouted like this & started beating herself i don't know!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.SHE PAINS ME EVERY MOMENT STRIVES TO DO HER WORK BY ME!!!!!!!!!!I WASHES HER CLOTHES,PLATES WHENEVER SHE ORDERS BUT STILL SHE PAINS ME HURTS ME!!!
PLEEEEEEEEEEESE HELP ME !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AM I THE REASON?DOES SHE HATES ME OR DOES SHE LOVES ME?
ONE THING I KNOW I LOVE MY SISTER A LOT

Answer 1

personally i dont think she hates you or u are the reason..may be sumthing is going on in her own life different from u and ur mother...may be sumthing bad related to office or any guy...sumthing which she cant control and is afraid off and is confused...so that frustration of the whole day is what u r getting as a reward from her...i think u need to be a little more active and find out whats going on with her outside home...r u getting??????....should talk to her and see if sumthing comes out...hope for th best and dont ever blame urself for it..

Answer 2

This question is not clear! What did she mean by saying, " You spoiled her life" ?



as per the conversation, i think you should have refrained from asking her so many times, its like nagging a person. But on the whole she seemed to be angry with ya for something else. Anyways i guess you people need to sit down, look for a calm moment and start debating over whatever is there between you too.

She definitely does not hate you, she is just angry with you. Please don't make hasty decisions in such anger.

Answer 3

well i think she has started to hate you,i think that day she had something imp. with her bf or someone(becoz she said u spolied her life)but u wanted her to go to spec. shop,first time she wanted to deny but she couldn't second time she was a bit enraged but she kept quite bcoz she dint wanted to hurt you,and i think when her something imp. failed she became angry on you?did she recently split from a relationship or something?