Question:
Does this mean I am a man or not?
Cordaniel
2015-06-15 09:45:50 UTC
My fiancee be telling me I'm not a man because I don't stick up for her like the way she want me to.. I am the type to avoid bsullshit because I dislike drama and controversy.. if someone say something to her out of line I be quick to say something back to that person no matter what the situation is.. I tells her a lot I'll give up my life for her, in other words take a bullet or whatever. Someone inbox ed us on Facebook saying they was going to kill us but my first thought was to stay calm about it and tell the person it was a misunderstanding but on her end she wanted me to rage out and that's something I don't do when my life is at risk like co e on ppl we all know Facebook can get out of hand sometimes.. she tells me I'm not a man for not sticking up for her like how she want me to and it's crazy because I do it every time something wrong is being said about her.. do this mean I'm not a man??? Please answer this question and no bullshit thank you
Five answers:
Success
2015-06-15 09:54:35 UTC
Yeah. Your fiancé is a psycho drama queen and she is trying to get you into a fight. Some women just cannot get turned on by a guy who isn't a sort of aggressive Dbag. She's looking fo a knight in shining armor to fight her battles for her.



Believe me when I tell you that if you fall for it and 'fight a battle' the next one will be worse and worse until it escalates into something that could get you killed.



A smart man can figure his way out of a situation in such a way that it actually benefits him. Mindless rage gets people killed, calm and calculated thinking makes people rich.



Perhaps you should have your Fiancé read 'Game of Thrones' to see what happens to those who mindlessly rage. whilst you look about for someone who is more grounded and clearheaded.



Or go in for couples therapy.
Brian Mcilwee
2015-06-15 11:36:22 UTC
Your girlfriend is a drama queen. Are you sure you need that in your life? What happens when the kids come along?
geetarman56
2015-06-15 09:53:37 UTC
No. I think your girlfriend has a misconception about what it takes to be a man. if she expects you to step in everytime and take up a fight for her, then she is mistaken. she could be the one in the wrong or have deserved what she got.
Mircat
2015-06-15 09:54:35 UTC
Why do you know females that need to be protected?! Why do you get involved with people who threaten to kill other people? Dump all of them, close down your facebook page and go find some up town people to hang with!
anonymous
2015-06-15 15:14:25 UTC
yes


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