Question:
a women hitting a man.?
nora d
2008-04-15 16:41:50 UTC
earlier a question was asked about whether or not a man should defend himself if a woman hits him. I have to say I have seen women beat men down. I am not saying just a slap. I am saying straight up beating a man. So, when a man defends himself against that I feel he is justified to knock the crap out of her. It is after all self defense. Men can be bigger and stronger. Woman are not as helpless and weak as they seem.. My question is.... Why would you not defend yourself from a woman doing this?
Six answers:
anonymous
2008-04-15 16:49:26 UTC
There is a difference between defending and beating the crap out of. I think if someone hits you, be it man or woman, it shows a big lack of respect for you. And why would you want to stay with that? If a woman is beating you, then you have the right to defend yourself, men are usually much stronger so are able to do this without causing great harm. There is no excuse for turning around and beating her back, 2 wrongs and all that.....

I do think though the best move is to remove yourself from the situation entirely. Just leave.
Mr. Taco
2008-04-15 16:47:13 UTC
Rather than self defense, I recommend calling the cops. Assault and battery is assault and battery, no matter what the gender of the perpetrator is. Rather than fighting back and confusing the matter, it is best to retreat and let the proper authorities handle the situation. As soon as the guy hits the girl back, the statistics come into play: the fact is that a significant amount of guys abuse women more so than women abuse men. So who is the policeman supposed to believe? For a man to fight back is just plain stupid. Let her commit the crime, and the evidence will take care of the rest. People who beat on other people all deserve to go to jail.



I'll tell you one thing: if my woman ever hits me, she's going to be one sad and lonely person. I'm out of here. She would say the same thing about me. Neither of us married a dummy!
Anil S
2008-04-15 18:04:14 UTC
In my opinion, one should not reach to that level and depart before extreme mental agony. Obviously, either man or woman, feel cheated or betrayed, if the trust reposed on , is breached. Of course its a very painful process and generate high amount of anger, but expressing it on an assult will not be serving the purpose. Though difficult but one should find out means and medias to overcome. Besides, I found, it becomes public and others are trying to take advantage of this situation so better to forgive and forget , although its not so easy or possible, when one has reached to second span of carrier i.e. cross fourties, but have to adjust and prey almighty to provide enough power to bear this jolt.



Nothing is indispensable, if tried , better individual can come in the life to resolve, but to be taken care of , before entering into a serious relationship.
anonymous
2008-04-15 16:47:32 UTC
Lets put it this way I will not stand there and take a beating. But if a woman would not stop hitting as much as I tried to restrain her I would have no choice but to slap her and that would either enrage her or wake her up. But I would not beat a woman down I would try my best to stop/calm her.
anonymous
2008-04-15 16:57:34 UTC
The answer from " Mr Taco " is silly. How are you gonna call the cops if a woman is wailin' away on you and may have already rendered you unconscious or incapacitated...? C'mon, gimme a break...
anonymous
2008-04-15 16:47:23 UTC
I would hit her if I feel I'm in danger.


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