girls: I NEED GUY HELP???

Question

okay, so ive never been with a guy at all. but everyone else i know has. and its really staring to get to me cause im 16!! does anyone know how to get a guy?? im kinda shy, so i need help to be more outgoing around people, espically guys!! and im not very pretty or athletic witch it seems what most guys like. so i really need guy help. how to be more than just myself, because trust me it doesnt work for me, and how to be outgoing and to make myself REALLY pretty...
the only reason that it says in my pro i love talking to cute guys with my friends, is because we do it when were like on vaca. or something. like guys we will never see again.
i dont want a guy just to be like everyone else i know and i dont want a guy just so i can have sex. i just want to have someone to hold hands with and stuff. god you people are sick. i do have good grade, and i do worry about them.. straight a's.

Answer 1

1. find one of those hair styles magazines and look through it to find a person with about the same face shape as you do, then if you like their hair style, take the magazine to the hairdresser and have her do your hair like the model's.

2. Go to Hollister, Aeropostale, Pac Sun, or any other store like that and find some adorable clothes.

3. Start working out. Even if you aren't fat, you still should keep in shape. Then you may become more athletic. Maybe do 100 crunches a day and some pushups or just go for a walk every night.



Trust me, when you look good, you feel better and more confident and you feel like you can do anything. Please tell me if you take my advice and I would like to know the result! This worked for me and I got a boyfriend! Have fun! don't make this all be a chore.

Answer 2

Hello. Take these words to heart b/c I am being very sincere here even though I don't know you. Take your time, sweetie, don't rush. You are only 16. It doesn't matter what your friends are saying or doing. Changing yourself or trying to get a guy just not to be lonely and or to prove something to others is not the way. It is so much better to wait for the right person. Take it from me, I am 25 years old, married. When I met my husband, I had come from a previous relationship with a moron who never deserved me. When my husband told me that I was the fisrt woman he had ever been with it made me regret so much that I didn't wait for the right person. Don't do anything now that you will regret later. These high school friends will most likely dispear from your life after you graduate and you will have to live with the decisions you make now for the rest of your life. Be patient. There is someone special for everyone in this world.

I wish you the best :)

Answer 3

At a school dance. you see a boy that you like and he not with a girl. ask him for a dance. During dance ask him to join you at the table or what ever you were at when not dancing. It my be hard to believe but most nice boys are more scared and shy then you are. You know a boy you like and know he has no girl friend ask him for some help with some school subject. Or maybe ask what kind of car you should get because you want one that works good but cost very little. What I'm saying is even being your shy and don't think your pretty I'm sure a lot of boys think you are. if you talk to them and get them relaxed then they will feel you my say yes not no if asked out. A lot of boys are so scared a girl will say no if he asks her out so u have to help him feel you will say yes. Ask 1 of your girl friends to help you fix your hair put on some make up. don't over do the make up but some is good. If that does not work let me know and i will take you out. i will take you to moves, dancing and things like that not sex. well in time i my try to get you to have sex but that will be up to you not me

Answer 4

do u want to get married as soon as possible?



my suggestion is: if you haven't thought about marriage, don't think too much about having a boyfriend.. (i know it sounds silly for you, but I just don't want other people feel what I felt when I did mistake in my past relationship) that happened when I was 15



What I learn from my mistake is, I chose to be single until the age around 24-25.. (I'm 20 now so I still have 4 years to enjoy my single life) and I really enjoy my time being a single..



well, that's my suggestion.. and you have the power to chose :) good luck...

Answer 5

Just have confidence in ur self and go for the guy of ur choice

Answer 6

read about makeup.angelina jolie is your idol. read about contourign and shadowing and get a lip plumper.

get a awsesom haircut.

jsut think" i only have one life. when im 80 i dont want to regret anything that i didnt do!!

Answer 7

ok..that just totally confused me. umm why dont you wait till your ready and quit trying to be like all your friends, dummy?

Answer 8

for a how to 16 kit send $19.95 and $2.00 to ship it..

Answer 9

flirt like he doesnt know it he will catch on sooner or later

Answer 10

"god you people are sick"



uh what?