i really do like him but...! please help! easy 10 points.?

Question

I like this guy a whole bunch and everyone seems to think he likes me alot too. He always seems to notice me but we dont talk, ever! We are both very shy but he smiles and stares ALOT! (yes I return them) But I'm still not sure he likes me. Once I was in church and I was doing the twist with some little kid and he was watching me with this big grin on his face. Him and his friend both stare and smile once I notice they are staring. And once his friend even tapped his shoulder and pointed at me and the guy looked at me and smiled and starting blushing.He has girls falling all over him and he never pays any attention to them but he's usually looking at me when they are hanging all around him. He's even came up and stood right besdie me (like less than six inches away). He's He's looked at me once and tried to play a drum solo when he had already unplugged his drums and once he actually did a drum solo when I walked in the room and then smiled at me. He's also three years older if that means anything. But I just sent him a message today and he read it and got offline. (all it said was hey!) He got back online later and he still didnt reply. I know I should talk to him but I have a huge fear of rejection which I think is what is gonna happen. So what do you think? Does he like me? Why didnt he reply? What should I do?

Thanks for all answers :)

Answer 1

I think he's interested, and know you are too, but doesn't know how to make the first move. As for the not replying, he might have not been on and his computer signs him off and reconnects (I know this cuz mine does it too). Just try talking to him and getting to know him better, if it was meant to be it will work out!

Good Luck and I hope this helps! =)

Answer 2

Whats up. Well let me tell you something about guys!

You said that he is hot and many girls try to have him. right?

Thats the secret of an attractive guy! it works for me too.

He uses the method ignore to get your attention and create a strong bound, so that when he finally talks to you, you will be bursting of love!



A guy who smiles to you and again kind of ignores you is playing a typical hide and seek game! (WHICH I LEARNT GIRLS FIND DEADLY ATTRACTIVE)



what you have to do now is, stay cool, be attractive, i dont mean change your cloth or be someone else!



I mean kind of give him signs! Dont be shy. And if you can talk to him and tease him in a nice way! make him feel somehow ignored too! but please in a sensitive way. the two elements should be balanced (attraction and a bit rejection).



You will see. he will meet you and love you.! But remember you are a girl. so dont make him feel that he is so hot that girls beg him.

iT WILL GIVE YOU A BDA IMAGE AND MAYBE IF YOU GET IN A RELATIONSHIP. HE WOULD MISHANDLE YOUR FEELINGS.



cheers. if you have questions just email.

Answer 3

I dont think that he is going to reject you so take the chance and try to just be his friend cause if he like you then he will show it. Just say hi or find a dumb question like has he seen someone the both of you no and see what he says. Ask his name and see if he talks back. the email thing he might not have looked at the email.

Answer 4

it sounds like you both are crushing hard, but neither of you know how the other feels so your just leaving it alone!! maybe you should just go and talk to him. nothing about hey i like you or anything, but start off with some normal conversation and go from there..it cant hurt. and the whole messaging thing. maybe he didnt realize it was you...or its possible he doesnt nkow what to say to you. im not sure.....dont know if i was any help. but i hope i was at least a little!!! GOOD LUCK with this guys!

Answer 5

Okay well, I'm not going to say he likes you because who the hell knows with guys? Anyways, I think you should talk to him. Dont just go up to him and say Oh hey you, I like you. But since you've never talked to him at all I suggest you become friends with one of his freinds so if happen to be hanging out with his friends they'll introduce you to him. And maybe if his friends tell him that they're hanging out with you, he'll get jealous and make a move :] Or maybe just do something like, "accidentally" bump into him. I know it sounds corny, but it really does work. Just dont make it obvious :] Let me know what happens.

Answer 6

Trust me the guy is always waiting for the first move from the girl just go talk to him ! try sth like "Hi , wuts up ? i notice you around my name is , hope we could be friends " i kept waiting for my boy to make the first move as i was too shy and he did it after 2 years of staring you dont want to go through that trust me

Good luck

Answer 7

He's shy....go up and start a conversation with him. It sounds like you two have alot in common...ie...in the same areas at the same time. You may be suprized how your conversation goes..It may just be the beginning of something cool..U will never know unless you try...

Answer 8

a simialiar thing happened to me;;



i know he's acting weird when you try to talk to him but i strongly say to become friends with him first. do you two go to the same school? pair up with him when the teacher tells you to pick partners. [[ask nicely!]] try to be friends with his friends. he will be more comfortable with you. and try a little flirting too! let him know you and know him before you try asking him out. find an exuse to talk to him at church or something. i think he likes u;; so confidence and love!



cause the thing that happened to me-people said i he liked me and i thought he knew and we held hands so i told him i liked him and it was all over. ..so take it slow!

let him know your interested.

hope everything works out perfectly!

xoxo

Answer 9

Just come open to him and say hey i think i like you alittle bit its ok if you dont feel the same way but i just wanted to know how you felt about me.

Answer 10

hes either really shy

or knows you like him and is a bit freaked out

guys are just like that though



just wait it out and see if anything happens cuz from the position you are in now, its hard to tell

Answer 11

Does he like you? I couldn't answer that because I don't know him. It sounds like he does. Grab your fear by the horns and go. Ask him so that all of your questions can be answered.

Answer 12

yeah! he likes you



i think he is just trying to play the game

but you got to have to talk in person to



good luck<33

Answer 13

hummmm well it seems he does really like u mayb he didnt get the message or forgot....... but i think that u should keep trying to talk to him in church again

Answer 14

i think he likes you but he's proably shy get a friend to ask him to go out with you or something like that or get the friend to see if he like u then take it from there

Answer 15

well just talk to him now as friends and let him make the first move, if you are that scared.

Answer 16

it seems to me like he likes you:) i think you should just wait and see if he replies, sometimes people just read it and get off and just write back later. goodluck!(:

Answer 17

you oughta be more confident

i'm 100% he likes you.

go for him!

Answer 18

why are you trying to hook up in church? you should be praying! wow, your silly