Why do men seem lose interest after 6 month into a relationship?

Question

Seems like the last few relationships I've had six month seems to be the limit.

Answer 1

Because when you first meet someone and hit it off there is an infatuation stage. That slowly wears off and either grows into real love, or just friendship, or a bad relationship headed for some kind of break-up.



You don't get to choose who you fall in love with, and you can't make someone fall in love with you. You can only bring your best self to a relationship and hope it works, then try again.

Answer 2

There are two parts to any relationship. Whatever it is with guys, its something you can't control and must learn to live with. However, have you examined your behavior? Do you ...



... stop wearing makeup/lipstick when you are with him?

... stop being as passionate/ardorous/interested in sex as you were in the first month?

... start nagging more about socks on the floor ...

... taking the trash out ...

... watching too much sports on TV?

... start being more interested in what he's "feeling"? ...

... and stop being simply turned on by being with him?

... dress more like a schlub? ...

... and less like a hot little sl*ut?

... stop giving him at least an hour a day of your SMILE?



The only way you can improve your situation is to focus on the things you can control. Think about your own behavior. So many women today are so busy blaming guys that they never stop to realize how much power they have to bring sugar and sweetness into the relationship.



Wear less underwear, wag your bottom and SMILE! Use the power you have.



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Answer 3

After 6 months, they may become comfort with you, and they want that excitement of a new relationship or new person just like us women want. So if you want it to last keep it exciting...find new and different things that you guys can do together. If that doesn't work, then maybe it isn't meant to be. Remember everyone isn't right for you. You have to go through a couple of wrong one to find the right one.

Answer 4

not all men are like that. maybe the ones you've had are but trust me that is not the case for all men. i've never been in a relationship that was shorter than a year. and in most cases the guy doesn't lose interest, he just finds another interest. yep, thats right, he finds someone else that he likes. a lot of guys are players and cheaters but there are the ones out there like myself who know how to treat a girl and who would never do anything to hurt them.

Answer 5

The same can go for women. It takes about six months to get to know each other and decide if that's what you are looking for in a companion. It is never easy telling someone there not your type when they have done nothing wrong to deserve a break up.

Answer 6

The VAST majority, of so called "Men" out there are simply ..."boyzzzz" in disquise.



STOP giving them ALL THE CREDIT you silly women do, JUST because they're gorgeous,muscular,hot, tall buff looking guy's who kno how to pleeezzzee ya dumb ***'s.



If ya all would transform yrselves, which is the truth & really what's needed, you would get what you deserve!



Y'r never gonna find true, honest lifelong romance, thats permanent enough to go the distance because you ladies every single one of you..."Compromise yr standards for BullS--t!"



And -



don't think the so called guys out there don't kno it...just cuz ya may be pretty, or sexy, get-the Fuc- out of here, cuz there's another pretty sexy momma (jst like You) on the next corner...do YOU get that??? YES indeedy, its SURE ENUF the truth !Honey.wise-up,.., every corner ya man passes down he's eyeballing another sweet dish just like You, & he's runnin her the identical BullShT rap you fell for cuz she's looking as fine as you were (past tense) !



So WaKE-the-Fuc- Up already missy!



Amen to ya all!



God Bless.

Answer 7

It's against men's chemistry to stay with only one woman for a lifetime; it's a scientific fact, but some men can defy thier DNA some can't, every LOVE has expiration date on it, most of them end before one of the partners die, rarely lasts for soo many years that even though one of them die, other's still longing for it...statistical&scientific fact...........women get pregnant everything in their body change; so they have to find a good, reliable, handsome, clever, genes to mix with theirs; men dont give a d*mn about who gets the genes, as long as they are capable, they'll water the surrounding; as I said, rarely men defy their genes and "stay put"............cant fight the nature

Answer 8

because it is at about 6 months that most women , stop wanting to have sex every day,, all day , and stop doing what ever the guy wants to do , once that stops , whats the point in going on with the relationship

Answer 9

I'm going to disagree with a couple things that people have said before me. I really don't think you should have to change for a person like that. If you wanted to, then go ahead, but if you're changing your whole appearance for a guy just so he won't leave you, then he's obviously not the one for you.

Answer 10

that is a damn good question. I believe men lose intersted not after 6 months but when they are bored. If you give a man too much in the begining than he has nothing to look forward to later. u dig?

Answer 11

Because that initial high is gone by then and you're left with a relationship. If there's nothing there of any substance, you have nothing to base a relationship on.

Answer 12

Because you gave them what they wanted and now there is no need to stay around long enough to fall in love with you and marry you. Don't be so willing to give them what they want. Make they fall in love with you, give you a ring, and marry you. Then you won't have that problem.

Answer 13

routine, lack of spontaneity. Start taking her for granted. Seems like noone is satisfied anymore though, not just the men.

The world is changing. I weep for our future. :P

Answer 14

Wow, I usually lose interest after two months.



I hope you're not being stupid and talking about kids, marriage, living together and other commitment **** like that. If you are, that could be your problem.

Answer 15

because they lose ur attraction after a while, u should perk up ur looks and buy some attractive and sexy clothes and do a makeover or something to make him feel the need to be with u.

Answer 16

not all of them do, sound like your not the person they are looking for, so rather than stay in the relationship to keep you happy and lead you on, they do the right thing and leave you to get on with your life........

Answer 17

after 6 months u are no longer new

Answer 18

Men are just plain idiots well at least most of them and it's true if he doesn't love you then he did you a favor. Good Luck

Answer 19

What of interest is going on between you two?

Answer 20

We like u girls to do the work for change jeez! Man ill be tired too if i spend all my energy and she just laid there and smile!

Answer 21

It might be because when females find some1 that they really want... they tend2 slack off..... Now that I have him, I don't need work on keeping him... Thats my 2Cents and I'm sticking 2it.....

Answer 22

IT DEPENDS ON BOTH, MAYBE SHE´S BORING, AND SURELY HE IS NOT IN LOVE WITH HER.

A RELATIONSHIP BUILD WITH LOVE, CARE AND A LOT OF IMAGINATION CAN LAST FOR A LONG TIME.

WISH YOU CAN HAVE ONE OF THIS.

Answer 23

men do not wont to settle down they are always thinking there is some thing better round the corner

Answer 24

then obviously not the right one for you , they re probably doing u a favor in a long run

Answer 25

There scum and piggs.And they only want one thing from us women and then if there bilogical clocks are ticking then they will settle down with there new gf.

Answer 26

cuz that's about the time women start nagging and using sex as a bargaining chip to get what they want...

Answer 27

maybe is because yuo gave him to much sex or never and he need another one, not always the same thing it will get bored

Answer 28

Not to be mean but, maybe you're just not that interesting?

Answer 29

Have you ever considered that it might be something you're doing wrong?

Answer 30

that's usually when things are getting too close.......they don't like emotions....now that you know this ..look for another type of guy...

Answer 31

Boredom..........



Mr Happy

:o)

Answer 32

Cus you just dunno u lost Your interest too...(they get boring after a few months)...we get to know how small their ***** are,,,lol

Answer 33

they just arent the right one for you.

Answer 34

they dont seem to, they DO. so spice it up somehow

Answer 35

It just you.

Answer 36

it's all about the nooky

Answer 37

thats when the sex ...... falls off

Answer 38

boring ....next

Answer 39

THey are pigs.

Answer 40

Cuz they know wat the vagina feels like, so now they're bored.