Question:
he stares but never approaches me. 10 pts to best answer?
Music
2012-09-15 12:44:52 UTC
ok so there's this guy i liked from the moment i saw him. we are both hs seniors now and hes a popular player who plays varsity football where every girl thinks hes cute and im the nerd whos in the play.in the beginning, last year when i was a hs junior, he kinda looked at me but not much. but then after thanksgiving he started staring at me to the point where my friends would notice. so my friend and i talked to him and he was as shy as hell. i asked him what his name was and he told me "jacob" and as i told him my name he repeated it. we shook hands and i thought he would talk to me...but no, he would just stare and follow me around like a lost puppy. he then started saying hi to my friends, who barely know him...but then he gave up. slowly he would start nodding at me, but i kinda nodded back. there was this one time when it was just the two of us saying nothing. i couldnt open my mouth. i was just shy...and he wouldnt say anything. it was just so awkward and painful. november, december, january, february, march came by and this thing just went on. then i noticed his friends started recognizing me. his bestfriend whom i had a class with for a year started saying hi to me eventhough he wouldnt even look at me one before. on april i was in the hallways when his best friend yelled "its your girl, its your girl" meaning me. so i said. thats it he likes me and i told a friend to tell his friend that i thought he was cute. i then heard that he told his friend i wasnt his type. then i said ok im giving up and i ignored him. i kinda got mad at him. he would stare and follow me around and his friends would pay extra attention to me. then this year he wouldnt even look at me. if i go into a class where he is in, hed say lets go to his friends and leave. when my friend mentioned me in a class that she had with him, he immediately looked down and started wiggling his feet. sometimes hed steal glances at me when he thinks no one is watching, but thats about it.
so what should i do? please help. ive never had a bf before and i dont know what to do.
Three answers:
thechosenone_2003
2012-09-15 12:51:44 UTC
The following thing? Lil bit creepy. But ask him on a date!!!
?
2012-09-18 10:54:50 UTC
Ahhh... I remember feeling like this when I was in high school! It's very frustrating but trust me, as you grow up things should become a lot more straight forward. I'm not really sure about this guy... it sure sounds like he's showing mixed signals with the following you around and staring at you all the time, but then telling his friend that you're not his type.



If I was you, I would probably ask him to hang out sometime... chat online, something to get to talk to him one on one to get to know each other a little better and really feel him out to see what his deal is. Good luck!
Louise
2012-09-15 12:47:38 UTC
Yes I think he likes you

and you should get to know him more first.


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