Does he really love me? Can you tell by this...?

Question

Ive been going out with this guy for almost 3 months now. We went to the movies together for the first time. He was so sweet. we were the first ones in the theater and all we did was talk and laugh.
When the movie commercials were coming on he said i never got a kiss and we just did a little thing. The whole movie he had his arm around me and our heads leaned together. During the beginning of the movie, he slowly reached for my hand and the rest of the movie he'd rub my hand or my arm. He's so sweet he was making me smile the whole time. At one point he apologized for messing up my hair lol, and he ran his fingers through my hair, down my arm and to my hand so he could hold it again. and then he randomly said "I love you" and kissed my cheek. We didn't make out the whole movie which makes me feel like that's not all hes into or at least cares enough not to do anything he not sure i want to do. Am i right? We didn't make out until after the movie when we were waiting for my mom to pick me up. I really feel like he loves me and my mom likes him too. and when were in school, we have every class together and he never leaves my side. im 14 and hes 13 in case you were wondering. Is it love? it feels like it.

Answer 1

Child please...thats just puppy love...its cute now but eventually it may fade over time.Young people like yourself always think you are in love the minute some lil boy shows u some attention.

Answer 2

Because you posted your age you're going to get a bunch of "You're too young to know wat luv is, herpa derp I heard this from a movie,"



that statement may or may not be true, in my opinion no one knows what love is, they're just a bunch of stupid apes bumbling around, especially with above 50% divorce rates.



that being said, you'll never be able to tell, honestly. People who say they "just know" have feeling personality types (its a real thing, I didn't make it up), they interpret and solve problems via emotions. Meaning they have no idea what they're talking about.



Anyway, its not important whether its love or not. DO YOU LIKE HIM? Yes? Then stick with him until you don't. We can't tell you, you can't tell. You just have to solve it on your own. You may or may not go through a lot of relationships.



Good luck.

Answer 3

Well, I guess it could be love. I truly believe young adult from 12-15 don't truly know what romantic love is, they just know they are suppose to feel it at some point and so they think they do but I guess just enjoy what you have.

Answer 4

I don't think he'd say he loved you if he didn't, that's SO CUTE! :D

14 & 13 aww, ignore ANYONE who tells you 'you're too young to be in love' its bullshit.

Answer 5

If you believe he love you, you should offer your love to him

Answer 6

the very quick and easy answer is NO. its about 99.9999999999% a sure fact that it is NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO. but its clear that he likes you a lot, just don't get hung up.