What to talk about on a date or on the phone with boy-friends!(:?

Question

Okay, so there is this guy on my brother's Foot-Ball team. We talk some-times after his Foot-Ball practice, and now we have been talking on my moms phone a-lot. I have my own phone but it got taken away. So yea...My twin brother, The guy I like *Michael* his Best-Friend Dylan ( He also plays Foot-Ball with them ) and I all went to the movies together today, Like 7 hours ago, and Michael and I, I guess are dating, so my brother and Dylan went to the top of the row to sit, to watch the movie, and left me and Michael hanging by our-selves. So right then I started to freak out, because I was so nervous! But then Michael turned toward me and leaded me toward the row we were gonna sit in. We were like 6-7 rows away from my brother and Dylan. So then....Me and Michael were sitting right by each-other and we started to watch the movie for like 2 minutes, the I looked at him right in the eyes and grabbed his hand and we started holding hands. Every-once in a while i would look at him and I just could not help it! But ANY-WAYS, :D We kissed 3 times while at the movies but it was like not just a peck but not making out, and how it happened is that we saw my brother Bryce and Dylan go down the steps and out the door so he was like, You wanna go see where they are going and i said sure. But they just went to get nacho's and a drink, and they took off back in the movie theater, and me and Michael were right behind them and me and Michael were still holding hands and i stopped so he stopped and I watched Bryce and Dylan disappear up the stairs and I told Michael to come here and he followed me back out the movie theater and I was like, I wanna kiss you now!!! So then he was like okay, but it took like 2 minutes for me to tuffin up and do it! But we FINALLY did it and then we ran back up the stairs and started to watch the movie again, and then in the movie Taylor Laughter and some chick started making out, and Then Michael was like, SO what do you wanna do now and I said I wanna kiss you again so we did! ! ! ! ! and i put my hand on his thigh and i was like you gettin' nervous and he said no, then i got closer and asked and he said no and then i was on top of it and i said what about now and he said ha no(: It was such a cute moment. THEN! He put his hand like right where i did to him but he skipped the other part and just went straight to it, and i laughed and he moved his hand back to beside us(:
But the thing is, is that i could tell he was trying to start a conversation because he was asking me stuff every-once-in-a-while and i would answer him but that would be it. It's just I don't know what to talk about when I am with him! Also when I am talking on the phone there is absolutely nothing to talk about! That is the main problem!! Help-Me-Please!!!!
I'm 13 and a girl! And my brother and Dylan are not gay! haahaa! But just give me some things to talk about on the phone when were talking together. I don't really like the idea of asking him how his day was and stuff, like i personally think that is lame and weird, like .....I want to turn him on when I am talking to him! We have talked about us making out and stuff like that and thats the type of stuff we like to talk about! Just please help me!

Answer 1

I'm 13 too, and I'm an expertise at making my boyfriend horny on the phone! Hahaa, and no I'm not a slut, still a virgin. But if you do wanna make him horny 1)If you want too make him Horny, You have too use a slutty/cutsie type voice when your on the phone with him or in Public.(Don't Be Akward, and be like over slutty when your in Public) That will make you look bad, and embaress the both of you. 2)Talk about how his day went, guys like when you take interest. No, don't be silly, your not wierd for asking, your wierd for thinking thats wierd. 3) Don't be insecure.. You sound like pretty socially awkward at times. But thats only because your over thinking things. 4) Be yourself. Don't act badass if your not, don't act like you like golf if you don't. Sometimes girls think when you constantly agree with guys their going too like you better. In all reality, they like a girl who does her own thing, it show's she's independent, and not desperate. This will lead him too like you more. 5) Don't say "I wanna make out with you now.. That's creepy. Just Do It. If you want it too be like a "dayum, she's awesome kiss" Kiss him while he's talking. For example: He's going on about the basketball game, and your getting bored. Be like "Oh, just shut up" and Kiss him. He's gonna be like "woah, she's confident" Guy's love that, especially football players. 6)Don't over think, if he notices he's gonna think your wierd, and desperate, 7) Flirt with other guy's infront of him, this will make him think he needs you or one of these guys will take his place. If he does it too you, don't worry, he's doing it for revenge not cause he likes her. Then talk too her too, and be like "Oh, well I gottah go my friend just texted me or you have too meet up with someone. (Don't say who) Make your Boyfriend wonder) He'll get jealous.





I know I awnsered more then I needed but I have nothing better too do right now, but I'm always with differnt guys and I've never gotten broken up with. Legit. Actually I have guys crying on the phone.. Their either Jocks Or Potheads.. Hahaha, Well Hope I Helped! Good Luck!

Answer 2

woah chill out girl, just take it easy and relax. talk about whatever is on your mind it doesnt matter what it is, its better than it being an awkward silence

Answer 3

if you can only talk about making out, the relationship isnt going to work. figure it out yourself honey

Answer 4

I don't want to read that long *** ****. So i read the title, talk about SEX. They like that(:. Sorry just sayin'.

Answer 5

talk about interests, tell funny stories that have happened to you.

get him to laugh

Answer 6

Talk about sex.