She's into me but cancels all dates with me? Honestly need HELP!?

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Honestly need HELP!

We met on internet we've talked a lot exhanged numbers and after 2 cancellations, we finally met each other. All the right signs, she laughed, touch my shoulder, hugged me, texted first after meeting etc...


Two days passed (after we coontinued to talk all the time) and I asked her for a meeting again. She said ok, will confirm time, but now she just texted that she is too tired. I simply said that's bad. text me when you can meet.

By the way she makes it a point to mention she is meeting men she's not interested in, and she can get very jelous when she knows i'm meeting girls.

What is going on here!? I am confused!?

Answer 1

You might be overthinking it. She's only canceled one date on you (right?) since you guys met up the first time. If that's the case, she might actually be interested, and perhaps she was just genuinely tired. With technology, a lot of times people will stay up late on their phones or tv and get tired. It happens.



If she's going on dates with other people though, that's not really acceptable. You need to ask her where she stands and tell her that she has no right to get jealous of you talking to other girls if she is going to talk to other guys. Tell her that double standard **** needs to end right now

Answer 2

You can't take hugging and touching on the shoulder as a sign of interest. Hugging is pretty common these days. Besides, do you really want to be with someone who is jealous you are meeting other girls? You aren't even dating this person. She sounds like a flake and I'd move on from her.

Answer 3

The only thing you are confused about is thinking that she is into you when she clearly isn't

Answer 4

All I can say that if a girl is interested, she will make time. "Sorry I can't make it" vs "Sorry I can make it but how about Saturday....."



You get my point?