Question:
PLEASE HELP! Asked a girl on 2nd date and...?
anonymous
2011-12-16 04:25:46 UTC
So I met this girl online, and it's been a few days after our first date. I didn't think it was a great success, but she texted me when she got home. We keep in touch the next few days, and then today, I decide to ask her for a 2nd date and we have this text exchange which confuses the hell out of me (she's taking her last final tomorrow and will be gone this weekend in Vegas):

Me: Well when you come back, I would like to see you again =).
Her; Ok. Get a number and wait in line. Hahaha. jk jk.
Me: Haha so mean. But I wouldn't be surprised after you telling me all those guys from okcupid who want to see you again =P
(here's where it gets confusing)
Her: Is it hard to find a normal girl online or in life?
Me: Well, not just normal but someone who I feel there would be compatibility with. I guess I'm kind of picky too =P
Her: Yes. U r picky! If you set your standards too high, it is hard to see the compatibility!
Me: Hey you're picky too lol! And besides would you want a guy you were with who would settle for anyone?

And then she hasn't texted me back since. Basically, I'm wondering what that last part was all about and why did she bring up a kind of random tangent? Please help!
Four answers:
Dr Phil Ma Crack
2011-12-16 04:27:09 UTC
she doesn't want you
reinke
2016-10-24 01:13:50 UTC
right here's some issues I note about your textual content verbal replace: you want to provide up looking for thus significantly better rapport than she is. Your messages are longer than hers and also you're employing better emoticons than she is, because of this you care better than her. Make your texts shorter. also: "Haha so recommend. yet i'd not be stunned when you telling me all those men from okcupid who want to make sure you back =P" i don't love that, it makes it sound like she is the prize and also you're in simple terms yet another guy chasing her. attempt teasing her the way she is teasing you, "i do not wait in line except i'm at Disney Land. i am going to could see you back to make positive you're a wide-spread female or secretly a finished dork" or something comparable to that.
anonymous
2011-12-16 04:35:49 UTC
Move on - it's all too easy to give people the brushoff online. She can say things in a text that she'd never have the courage [or rudeness] to say to you face to face. There are plenty more fish in the sea - go catch one!
Abby
2011-12-16 04:29:09 UTC
I think she was just trying to change the subject. Because she didn't want to go on a second date.


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