Ok this guy i love totally is avoiding me... you think he likes me? please answer.... thank you everyone!

Question

so i'm in love with my brother's friend... i really like him alot! I don't know if he likes me though... he is my bros best friend and i have known him for 11 years... (im not eleven tho) he doesnt think of me as his little sis so thats good. I know for a fact that my bro is kinda trying to hook me up w/his friend.i could just tell...whenever his friend came over my brother used to kick me out of the living room now he always telling me i could stay sown there with them... well jack (crush name) is avoiding me... like he will get up to stretch or something and he'll look around sorta and im looking his way and he just wont look at me at all!!! this was yesterday at 2:30 am (he comes over late) ...he just wouldnt look at me at all.. i mean nothing...im not ugly .. i had nothing on my face. We were all watching scrubs and like he would ask some questions bout the show to my 2 brothers ... he asked a few and he wouldnt even ask ..like it was always directed to them... always .. i was scared to answer the damn question..he just avoids me!! does that mean he likes me too?? cuz if a guy avoids u he could be nervous...right... if he was always talking to me (since i have known him 4 ever) wouldnt that mean he doesnt like me cuz that means its just friends.. but if he's avoiding me cud that mean he likes me?

please help!!! he's older than me by the way..

Answer 1

maby he realized that he likes you so hes trying to distance himself from you so it wont be weird with your brother and you. Im kinda in the same situation. Alot different but yeah. good luck.

Answer 2

maybe ur a fat **** and he thinks ur replusive

Answer 3

well first off this is really good ! just having feelings for someone is a good thing, shows your healthy mentally lol. well my best advice is to not over analyze the situation. it sure sounds like he likes you, but its not a definite. i think he does though. first thing is sometimes when guys like you, they might act a little mean-ish or jerk-ish lol. hes trying to show hes a "macho" guy by not saying bye or whatever but we all know better. also, your brother is hinting things, and their best friends so thats another thing that makes it soudns like he likes you! i would just ask your brother straightfoward if jack likes you...come on, dont be scared. if he ends up with another girl or if its ever too late you'll be so pissed at yourself for letting the chance go by. whats the worse that can happen? first check things out with your brother and see what he says about jack and then you decide...btw, if you have a pretty big age difference, maybe he acts like he does because he sees you as a kid but i really doubt this! good luck hun, i hope it all turns out well.

Answer 4

why dont you ask your bro

Answer 5

Guys like when you act like you dont need them.Since it is pretty obvious that he knows you like him it would be absolutely best if you avoid him now. If he like s you and is just shy he will wonder why you dont talk to him. If he is not interested then he will continue acting the way he is now so just ignore and do the same to him and you will know if he likes you ok. Why dont you ask your brother if he said something about you, they are friends ,your brother should know.

Answer 6

If he's got a lot on his mind (death or work.. or death) then he may b shooken up y it and not able to talk to ppl of th oposite sex or his crush.



very person is different. I don't personally know him so I can't tell if he's avoiding you bcause you his crush or if he doesn't like you or what.

Right.. he may be a nervous kind of person. or its something else. We do not personally know this lad so it is hard to judge howhe feels about you.



And maybe he's weird or a jerkish type loser. One of my friends was my best bud for like 7 years. When we went to a new school in a different city he didn't even respond to a nod. Like wtf FU too!

Is he distracted? Is he weird? Is he a jerk? Does he like you? Or not? Its hard to say.

Answer 7

he might like u...

the best thing u can do-

do this

next time u c him try to make casual conversation. then say "i think ur a great guy" try not to go into it too fast. but try to make him feel comfortable about talking to u.





or u can have some1 else ask him what he thinks about u

Answer 8

you need to tell him so you will not be driving youself insane anymore

Answer 9

soemtiems streigh forward asking helps dont be shy

Answer 10

taco bell might be something and just tell him how you feel or make it really really obvious that you like him so then he will figure out and you'll see his reaction if he just avoids you maybe he isnt worth it and duhh guyz are confusing

Answer 11

It's kinda confusing, but for a bit of clarification you can simply tell him that you've grown to like him very much.

Let me know his response then and I can be more specific in my reply

Answer 12

The first and foremost thing one should realise is that we cannot force anyone to love anyone.. Love is true, genuine and everlasting only if it comes from the inside of the heart..

If you love that person, it is not important that the other person should love you too.. And you cant make him do either.

Can you love a person whom you dont feel like loving?

THe answer should be a big NO.. so we should either understand his situation and leave him alone.. if he is not interested and does not like your company then how can you live the entire life with each other?

So you are now in a situation to rethink wat u feel..Never feel dejected..All people are not like us.Understand that its all for your own good. Life does not end if this person does not love you. Accompany your friensd and try to talk with them..Try not seeing this person again..Because if he doesnt want you then why should you be particular?

Love is complete only if the same comes from both the persons hearts.. Else there wil be a problem in the connection between the souls..

Bye n tc :-)

Answer 13

If your brother is trying to set you two up, he's probably feeling a little uncomfortable about the situation. Try and see it from his point of view - he probably feels a bit weird about being flirty with you when his best friend/your big brother is in the room. He might be worrying that if he slips up he'd upset you in some way, and then lose you and your brother as friends.

Try spending time with him alone and away from your house, so he can get to know you apart from your brother. And give him time. The group dynamics are changing in a pretty massive way, and it'll take some getting used to.

Answer 14

He likes you but is not used to you being around him so much , and he does not know how your brother might react to him liking you so he is afraid to take that step, you need to (A) find out what your brother would think) (B) get some alone time with him (C) let him know you are interested without making him feel pressured,flatter him a bit call him good looking or smart in a casual context,i.e. ask how his life would be different if he were not good looking , or your very smart whats your opinion on... He will warm up to you soon after knowing that you are approachable, or he is an idiot and you might have to force him into getting to know you better.

Answer 15

Well maybe he is just comfortable around you he doesnt feel like he has to turn around to say goodbye. I mean i know when someone in my house is leaving we just say bye to eachother we dont make a big deal out of it. I think If he doesnt look at you then he might feel nervous or he knows you like him and he's just soaking it up. If he never says anything else to you, you might have a problem cuz i mean unless he's REALLY shy he would atleast talk to yo i'm mean he has known you for 11 years.

Answer 16

I think its very possible that he likes you but is very shy. Im extremely shy and just get very nervous around pretty girls. I have acted the same way around girls I like. Sometimes I have a hard time thinking of the right thing to say and come up with one word answers. If your close with your brother I would ask whats up with him. Its possible that he doesn't like you but I just can't think of any reason why.

Answer 17

I'm pretty sure he's interested, or just starting to be. give it time, i think he will come around. He might just be nervous or (dont be offended) embarrassed becuz you're younger. Just kind of let him know you think more of him than just your brothers friend. It might scare him a little at first since you've known eachother for so long and he's finally seeing you in this new light. Give it time, and let you're brother help you get to him.

Answer 18

It doesn't sound like he's interested. It may be for a number of reasons, including but not limited to: he doesn't want to get involved with you because if the relationship goes south, he'd lose you and his long time friend. Also, he could just not see you that way. Maybe he is just not attracted to you, or perhaps the way you type with no capitalization, and overuse ellipses annoys him.

You didn't say how much older he is, are you jail bait?

Answer 19

First, learn to speak proper English. Your spelling and punctuation errors caused a headache.



Second, stop obsessing over it. Just be chill and don't like, follow him around or anything. That'd be creepy. Just let things be chill, and it'll be fine.



And finally, the more you freak out about it, the more awkward the whole thing will become.

Answer 20

He might like you but a lot of guys have a sort of rule to keep away from each others sisters especially the younger ones. So maybe he just doesn't want to piss your bro off.

Answer 21

umm he either is trying to say he's not interested but tht wouldj mean he avoided you alll the time which he isn't doing so maybe he does like you and is shy or playing hard to get. keep talking to him and try and flirt. see how he reacts. if you still don't know where u stand just ask him straight.



thanks for answering mine:)

Answer 22

wow, so the real deal seems that he is just not that into you. He ignores you so you don't get any ideas that he does. If someone really liked you then they would show you in their actions and treat you like they did. Trust this....do yourself a favor and hold out for meeting someone that will totally show you that you are worth their attention.

Answer 23

ok first of all calm down! Stop leaving extra tidbits. He may like you and that he is just nervous. Confront him and see how he reacts. But stop being so paranoid. Not everyone acts the way you want them to. Calm down and be patient.

Answer 24

my suggestion to you is to step it up

when he asks them questions about scrubs

you answer it with a reply that you know will be informative yet funny



he knows you like him

but doesnt want to hurt your feelings

but he cares about you cuz your his friend's sis

that's why he sez hi and gets you food



I think you have to be yourself, don't be shy and just be cool about it all

don't have high hopes or anything

just crack more jokes and be more outgoing but stay true to yourself

don't go to extremes to impress him



He sees you as his friend's sis

I think you should really try to move on

he sees you as a younger person too

Answer 25

Hmmmm.. maby he doesnt think YOUR interested. Or maby simply becuase hes older then you, oor just the fact that your his best friends sister and he doesnt wanna make a move. I would suggest flirting with him, or talking to him more.

Answer 26

Well I like you too!



That's funny your crushes name is my name too haha...



But seriously, get your bro to hook you up with him, tell your bro you like him if you can trust your brother... then maybe ur bro can work some magic.

Answer 27

I don't know its actually weird. Most guys tend to avoid things when they sense that something is going to be awkward or already is. By any chance does he know you like him because that may be why he is avoiding you.

Answer 28

kay, your really worried arnt you ? its okay calm down. =) its gonna be fine. im sure your bro's friend has a thing for you he is just sending you mixed signals. which is totally a normal guy thing. they are trying to test you out, to see if they like you, so talk to him and tell him how your feeling. i mean it cant be that bad, you have known him for 11 years. trust me hell understand!!!!! hope i helped! yah from what i just read he is deff. sending you mixed signals TALK TO HIM!!!!! =)

Answer 29

LOL boys are confusing and maybe hes shy and think since hes ur brothers friend it might hurt your brother. so talk to the guy you like. :) go get him hunny



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Answer 30

He is not that into you. I hate to say this but you need to leave him be and move on.



Dont worry the right man is out there for you

Answer 31

hes shy i use 2 be like that til i met some girl just go up 2 him nd tell him

Answer 32

maybe he is really shy, or he does not like you. Try flirting with him a little. Or ask your bro, and see what he says.

Answer 33

i think he likes youu but hes nervous and doesnt no what to do or say try to get alone time with him just to hang out wiht himm and see how that goes =)

Answer 34

all guys are confusing lol.

hmm. sounds to me like hes nervous or something. maybe he thinks its awkward? he probably doesnt want to hurt you.. best of luck. another guy will definitely come along, have you tired talking to him about it? best of luck :)

Answer 35

i dont really think he's into you cuz if not he'd at least look at you. so no but try talking to him and maybe something could happen. good luck (:

Answer 36

Let it go. Find someone your own age with similar interests. Don't waste your youth and good times on someone who doesn't care and doesn't care that you care.

Answer 37

Ask him if he likes you, just so you get it over with I mean its better to know than to wonder.

Answer 38

maybe he doesn't like you. don't get upset. there are many other guys out there. if your already saying that he's a jerk then it probably wont work out.

Answer 39

go 4 it



sho him hedosent need to be nervos just kinda tak it slo



goodluck

Answer 40

it seems like he doesn't wanna hook up with u around your bro



does jack think that if he went out with you your bro would be mad??



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Answer 41

i think ur brother told him u liked him now your crush fells wierd around you

Answer 42

hes probably scared of you or avoiding you coz u made him mad or something or he could be doing that coz he does not like you

Answer 43

omg! wow! that is a hard one! i think that he likes you but he does not want to ask your bro because he thinks that he will tell you!



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Answer 44

okay, Helena is WRONG! magazine's always say to act coy, as if you're not interested...but then it seems like ur not interested, duh! Guys want you to need them, they always want to have the upper hand. that doesn't necessarily mean you should dumb yourself down for a guy, though.

Answer 45

if you expect people to answer this dont write it soooooooo long

Answer 46

just dont worry about it... just wait it out and see what happens

Answer 47

Tell him about your feelings for him.

Answer 48

he's prolly annoyed with you.

go make him jealous with one of his other friends:)

Answer 49

wow. long story. =]



I think its possible but u shouldn't rush anything. Just let things happen. He will ask u out if u like him. Maybe ask ur brother. idk?

Answer 50

sorry but i dont think hes intersted... keep tryin to talk to him tho...



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Answer 51

He doesn't like you.

Answer 52

ya he is probably just shy!

Answer 53

he is kinda interested

Answer 54

Thats kinda weird. he might like you but is shy, or he could just act awkward around girls. i donno. your situation is freeky, though!

Answer 55

uhhh, he might be....guys are confusing