My bf gets annoyed very quickly! we are going to get married next year!! what to do?? ?

Question

Thanks for reading...
okk so we are together for one year... he has been like this for ever i mean its not that the love has fade away!
we love each other a lot but i cant say the word 'why?' for the second time! he just gets annoyed! whenever i ask something he answers that thing but if again i ask something related he just gets annoyed! :( now i dont ask anything but it leaves me frustated to just absorb everything that he dislikes!
i am 19 and he is 30 if it helps! we are going to get married next year! please help coz i cant absorb everything!
thanks

Answer 1

Good luck with marrying this dude......you're going to need it.......

Answer 2

Well he is a bit old for you but sometimes age doesn't know numbers. With his age he just might have a less amount of patience and might not tolerate some things as much as you because he's been there done that and wants the nitty gritty details out of the way.

I think if your questioning yourself this badly you maybe need a bit of space and time to think. Marriage is a serious thing and you need to actually be sure of this guy and the relationship before jumping into it. Those concerns are a concern, if your having problems with it now it'll only possibly get worse after marriage. Talk to him about this and maybe ask for some space and extra time to work this out.

Answer 3

You better be VERY careful; a short fuse at this point in your relationship is a huge warning sign. If it doesn't say "Bridge Out Ahead" in comes damned close to it. The lack of patience with someone you truly love simply doesn't fit. How much patience does he show toward others? And I'm not talking about patience when he gets caught behind slow moving traffic or has to stand in a line; I'm talking about others, face-to-face? If he shows more patience to others than he does to you that for me would be a dead give away that you'd better look elsewhere for a husband, because he's already degraded you to a possession, a thing that he owns, rather than wife or companion. Good luck.

Answer 4

First of all as you already know you guys are 11 years apart! When he was 11 you were an infant. You need to break him of that habit, its rude and inconsiderate of your feelings. Tell him how it makes you feel and for him to put himself in your shoes and see how he would like it. If he doesnt care enough to even do that for you than you need to reconsider marrying this man. Marriage is a compromise and if he is already starting to be this way now, just imagine when you guys are married. Good luck

Answer 5

Qtf jajaja tell him to calm his **** down n communicate that's wat is all about! Or act the same way with him n see if he likes it!!! Y really wanna mary someone like that..imagine how he's gona be like once ur married:o heams not even gona talk 2 u I bet!

Answer 6

Get a break girl!

This one is not your type of man!

Really telling you!!

Answer 7

Get yourself to calm down then there you know how to help it.