Call or text?

Question

i like a girl, and want to hint at that fact without making it too obvious. i'm a bit nervous about calling her because i'm not sure i'd be able to keep the conversation rolling. i am just wondering, is it too obvious if i start calling her lots? and would that be coming on a little strong? should i just stick with texts, or is that too informal and won't hint at all??! argh this is all too hard!

Answer 1

Text is the better way.. frnd.



Written words express more meaning than a spoken word...!!!



all d bst.

Answer 2

Texts are the worst thing ever invented for relationships!! You can be totally misunderstood and get your wires crossed!!! Most people do text though but if you like her I would just go for it. Give her a call and if you guys have nothing to talk about then maybe you are not suited anyway!



Yes it will be obvious whether you text or call, and what exactly is wrong with that?? Its a compliment that someone likes someone else not something to be ashamed of!!

Answer 3

Ask her for her msn, or im address. If she adds you start talking to her a once or twice a day, for a week or two. After that time she starts starting the conversations, then you know she likes you. Workes for me with nearly half the girls ive dated in the past couple years.



Iy's also good because it gives yu time to think about what your going to say, so nervousness doesn;t really factor. Be friendly at first but then you can start acting flirty. You can also sort of pick up if she likes you by whether or not she flirts back.

Answer 4

I suggest you text first because writing cute things is so much easier than actually saying them and you could flirt a whole lot easier in writng and yea sometimes it is hard to keep a conversation moving so just think of things to talk about before hand and if the two of you connect right then you won't even need to think anymore the conversation will just flow on it's own

Answer 5

if you txt ........it will be just cold words without any emotions.she wont know the mood in which it was written.



if you call........then choose your words carefully and have a cool opening words. Listning is the key here .only speak when she has finished talking and use some of her own words in your next sentence to keep the conversation rolling.



Keep your call short 2-3 mins or you will lose like a desperate loner.



start will calls and then slowly send shaort txts later in the week ....like goodnite.....have a nice day.......it was good talking to you........



Remember this quote ...........The telephone book is full of facts, but it doesn't contain a single idea





my point is ...txt is too cheap....Call Her

Answer 6

Text her like once every 3 or 4 days, and once that has been happening for about 2 weeks or so, think up some points to talk about and ring her.

Answer 7

start with a few texts then maybe give her a call and just think that she is one of ur mates and have a normal convo

make sure u dont sound 2 nervous though

Answer 8

Any time you contact this girl make sure there is a purpose. Ideally, you want to call her only when you are booking time to hang out with her or to flirt. Either way, keep it short and simple. Remember, less is more...

Answer 9

the best hint is to call the girl 1 hour and a half before she goes to sleep and talk to her, do that every night then she'll see that your trying to talk to her when she's paying full attention to u. and make it seem like you dont want to stop talking even when you guys are silent keep saying hello and she'll think your trying to just hear her breath or something. she'll like it. its a common thing to do GOOD LUCK

Answer 10

Well put yourself in her shoes. If she started calling you a lot all of a sudden wouldn't you suspect something was up? You should stick with texts for now until you guys are better friends, you just have to pace yourself and let things unfold in good time.



Help with my question? https://answersrip.com/question/index?qid=20080406010730AAjHuoE&r=w



Thanks and good luck!

Answer 11

You should wait and text her in the morning like

"Morning beautiful" or something cheesy that will make her smile!





if your not sure you can handle a convo over the phone, better text her something short and sweet, don't make it too long..

Answer 12

Just pump some iron..raise you're confidence and give her a call... texting is for friends and lamos

Answer 13

gah :( i want call, is more fluent and closer, but since ur starting, text would be better

Answer 14

call her yo

dont text belive me dont

Answer 15

simple just ask her if you can call her. then go from there