can i get in trouble.10 POINTS.?

Question

Ok.
Well im 15.
and me and my ex are in love but
his mom said he cant be with me
or she will kick him out.
and my mom said i cant be with him.
he is 18.
dont start talking about our age.
cause i know.
and im about to turn 16 in june.
but his cousin is getting a 2 bed room apartment.
him and his cousin are going to live together.
his cousin likes my best friend who is 17.
they want us to move in with them,
so me and my bestfriend are going to run away
and go live with them.
IM NOT ASKING YOU IF I SHOULD DO IT OR NOT.
but i just want to knoe if i can get in trouble or can they get in trouble?

Answer 1

It's not the best answer to tell you but I was in the same situation at 15. And I was really in love!! I am 22 now, with the same guy, married, and we now have a 7 week old. People on here are saying he will get jail time but only if u admit it to the police that u guys are intimate. Deny it if u really love him.

You can get emancipated at your local court house which basically means your parents are no longer responsible for you.

Answer 2

Honey you are so young! Why runaway and leave your parents, the people that gave you life, for some guy that is only an infatuation. There are many other guys out there for you, you can't be narrow minded.



1st: If you runaway whoever gives you a place to stay/hide will be convicted of a crime. It's considered kidnap.



2nd: You WILL be found don't be so stupid about this. You are probably thinking this is all just a big dream to go live with your boyfriend, but soon hun you are going to regret everything...EVERYTHING about this is pretty much illegal.



3rd: Even without you moving in with him, this is already illegal. He can go to jail for dating a minor. You are so young and you have a long life ahead of you, dont screw it over for one guy.



4: For the first few months (if a miracle happens and you dont get caught) you will be happy and jolly being able to do whatever you want with him. But when the economic problems start coming you two are going to be fighting with your friends and you know what? You are going to wish you never made that mistake, i tell you from personal experience. Not me a close friend.



5. I am not going to say anything else but i do want to ask you to please think this over there are 10000 bad things that could happen, 100 bad things that WILL happen. and like 10 good things. It won't be all fn and games hun, WELCOME TO REALITY

Answer 3

depends on the state you in which you live. colorado, the age of consent is 16, 15 if you're emancipated. but still might not be legal to move in with them if you're not emancipated anyway. until you're 18, in most states as far as i know, your parents make the rules and he could get in trouble, not nec just you. check social services in your area. also, 3 years isn't that bad, but once again, your state may have statutory laws regulating an adult and a minor. some states, it's a 4 year diff, some states it doesn't matter, if 1 is over 18 and the other is under, it's statutory rape, he goes to jail.

Answer 4

Unless you get emancipated and prove that you can fend for yourself either by yourself and through him you will have a very hard time living. As long as you are under 18 your parents still have to sign off on everything for you and you wont be able to go to school anymore or go anywhere without their permission. And yes it is illegal for you to be in this relationship. You must be no more than 2 years of age younger than him which means that if at anypoint before you are 18 he is two more than two years older than you like 15 and 18 even if its just for one day it is illegal for him to touch you in any way shape or form and so he even cant be your significant other unless somehow you two get married and that is also illegal until you become 16 and that is only in some states. Trust me honey there are plenty of guys out there and i know it will hurt to let go of this one or any one for that matter but sometimes you should let go. Chances are very good you will get in trouble. and that is by the cops not just your furious parents as well as his and his cousins and that friend of yours. Really think about it if it is worth putting him in jail.

Answer 5

Ur not 18 your parents still have control over you you most definitely can get in trouble . I do not know the extent and yes so can the two boys i believe. I am sorry but i think you would save yourself a lot of trouble if you just tell your parents your going to a movie with your friend and visit them instead or have them meet you some place.

Answer 6

Yes, he can get into big trouble, even though it is legal they can still be put up for trial and most judges don't tolerate any of this so all you will end up in a juve

have a nice life=)



i would advise you not to do it but since you have already made up ure mind and ure an idiotic fool have fun because one say ull regret and he'll leave you and you wont have anything but garbage in ur elife because u will uneducated and a loser.

byebye.

Answer 7

If they're 18, they can get in trouble for abducting a minor IF your parents press charges.



Not telling you what to do, just sharing what I know:



My friend did that just for a few days when we were your age. We were all worried sick.



Keep in mind that the economy is really down right now. You'll have trouble finding a job, so it would probably be a good idea to stay in school.



The Center for Disease Control has a good page of information on STDs that you and your friend should read. http://www.cdc.gov/std/STDFact-STDs&Pregnancy.htm

Answer 8

Yes you can get into trouble. Just think about it you both run away and then what? What will you both do life is not about just living together its about keeping each other happy and here it no matter you like it or not its the worst idea.

Just have a secret relationship and don't tell anyone about it. In out for dates and know each other better but don't go for this idea its gonna be cheap. Just know each other and plan your life in a better way and don't take any stupid step.

Answer 9

I'd say your too young.. but you probably heard this a thousand times. ask yourself if this is really what YOU want! Love is strong at any age.. Laws prohibit this I'M sure your aware of.. he could get in serious trouble, you are a minor under 18 Listen to your MOM!!! And YES to answer your question you would all be in TROUBLE and mess up your life, not a good ideal..slow down and enjoy your youth, and prepare yourself for a great future.. God Bless You.

Answer 10

1) Wait until you are 16.

2) Get your parents to kick you out. Then you can blame it on them.

3) Run to his apartment.

4) If you havent already slept with him, say that you havnt then he cant be arrested for rape.

5) Im not sure if this is a good idea, but you may want to go to school so you dont get in trouble for that, but then you may be caught and/or followed to his aparment.

6) You may want to think about money...



P.s. Probably not love though. I was in 'love' with someone but it just faded and now I know its not love.

P.p.s how are you going to get enough money and what happens if he dumps you?

Answer 11

Running away is illegal, if your parents decide to call the cops they'll come and get you. So yes you can get in trouble.

If you really want to be with him, and if you find it's worth choosing him over your family, then get emancipated and make moving in with him legal.

But I would think it over carefully, what if he breaks up with you? What if you get pregnant? And think how badly you'll hurt your mom.

I think you should sit down and talk to your bf, your mom, and his mom and tell them straight up you love him and want to date him, and they have to accept that, and just date him from home.

Also think about college, are you planning on having your mom help you pay? If you move out will she still help you pay? Would she let you move back in if you left her? Choose your decisions wisely, for while living with your bf and best friend in your own place may not be the dream you think it will be...



edit: i read this https://answersrip.com/question/index?qid=20090206085819AAoIl8e and have changed my mind. you had sex with this boy, got pregnant, all while being on and off, at 15. slut. sorry i had to say that it's so true. if you had any morals or self-respect you'd end it, no matter how much "in love" you are with him. he's a loser. and i hope you aren't a lost cause. your mom must be so disapointed in you, you should start fixing your life now.

Answer 12

how bout you call the police and ask them...DUH you're goen to get in a heck of a lot of trouble with your parents and the law and so is your creepy molester of a boyfriend. sorry to be so harsh itz just ive seen plenty of situations go down like this and end up sooooooooo horrible. Think first sweetie you have a whole life ahead of you. Dont let this be the end of it...stay at home and follow your parents rules you disobedient underaged wanna be grown little teeny bopper!! lol jp but seriously dont do it unless you want him or you to go to jail and then you'll relly never get to see him again. now tell me how smart that is... ♥

Answer 13

You'll both get in huge trouble.

Are you sure you are completely in love with him? Running away is huge. This will probably make your parents really upset, and could really change your life. What if you find after moving in with him that you don't love him? What are you going to do then? Move in back home? Have fun with that.

When you do this, your life is going to change dramatically from how it is now. Before you have this happen, take a step back, breathe deeply, and just think this through completely.



Ask yourself, is this really love?

Answer 14

you can legally get in trouble, and so can they.



1. he is an adult, which means that would be on the charges of kidnapping (even though you voulintarialy left, i know, weird.)

2. you would also be reported as a missing child, and once you are found, you would have to be reported to your parents, and they'd get prettttty pissed.

3. if you love him (i know how hard this is, i'm going through the waiting), you can wait two more years. i know how hard it is, but just talk to him on the phone, text him, and keep him in your heart. time is the ultimate relationship holder. see if you guys can really last that long separated but together.

Answer 15

either he kidnapped u or their going to look at it as if he did. ur a minor- it's called satchatory rape and he can go to jail. u runnig away to go live with some else will take away ur trust from ur mom and ur freedom.

so if i were ur id stay put, unless u plan on getting pragnant. but if u do and end up homeless just call this number 561-547-0884 and mention that u've been abused by ur mom or something cuz thats one of the ways u could get in.

Answer 16

Because they are both over 18 and you and your friend are under 18, they can be charged with kidnapping. The police would most likely find you and bring you back to your parents. Since you are under 18, your parents still have the final say until you are 18 or you become legally emancipated, which is pretty expensive and time consuming.

Answer 17

No sh.. you will get in trouble, you are under 18.



If the police do catches you, chances of the judge (when you go to court for your hearing) putting you in probation is 50%, and chances of your probation officer (after the judge says 1 year probation or something like that) giving you a curfew(be home at a certain time) is 100%

Answer 18

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Answer 19

Wow! Well we are the same age. Well he can get in trouble it depend on what state you are in. In one case there been a 15 year and 18year old get together and now he in jail. Hey if you want to stand with him and stuff can you just wait until you are 18. Then he wouldn't get in trouble. And if you are in love you could wait. Because one of my best friend boyfriend in jail bc of there age. Also you would get in trouble by your parent. I donyt like the idea of you running away but please thinl about waiting.

Answer 20

i am only 14 but i ran away before and if you get cought you can go to jail and the people you are liveing with can also go to jail for harboring a run away and 16 is also the age in my state but you can move in if you get emansapated but that requiers that you have a job are in school and have a house or aparment

Answer 21

i know your not asking for our opinion about u staying or not but think about it... you're family raised you, and they don't say NO because they want to torture you...they do it because they love you and they don't want anything like THIS to happen.. im not saying your mom is going to think that you betrayed her.. but she MIGHT think she did something wrong.. and she will never go on with her life because shes going to be too worried were you are or if you're okay..



(my cousin did almost the same thing.. hers was just A WHOOOOLE LOT worse)



like i said they love you and they aren't saying no to torture you.

and your not supposed to leave till your 21 so the police will find you and press them charges for "kidnapping" you even though you're running away.





think before youre actions.. sorry for this being so long

Answer 22

Since you're under the age of 18 your parents are still responsible for you. I'm sure at some point someone would get in trouble somewhere along the line. It's inevitable.

Answer 23

Yes you can get in trouble. Your mom could accuse him of kidnapping you, you could get in trouble for dropping out of school (which i'm assuming you will) and overall it is a stupid idea becuase if he decides that he doesn't like you anymore then what are you going to do? I highly doubt your parents would let you back into the house after.

Answer 24

If your mom chooses to (which I'm almost assuming she will), you could be arrested for running away. You'll be put into a juvenile detention center for a few days, have a hearing with a judge, and you could be put on probation among other punishments such as community service.



Also, the guys could get arrested for harboring runaways. They could also be charged with kidnapping, rape, molestation, and various other sex related charges.

Answer 25

not to be mean or anything but i think you and your friend should hold off on moving in with him and his cousin. at least wait till you turn sixteen in june and talk to your mom about it.but i really think you should wait a while. i mean your mom will be really mad at you and you and your boyfriend would get in big time trouble. but its your choice. Good Luck. i hope everything turns out ok.

Answer 26

If your mom pushes it they can do prison time. It would be foolish to put someone you care about in that position. I know sometimes it seems that parents are out of touch but you may learn that THEY are your best friend and have your best interest at heart.

Answer 27

ahh yeah you can get in a lot of trouble.

not just your mom will get you in trouble but C.P.S. will definitely get involved.

If i were you i wouldn't do it, but you two can be together secretly 'till you turn 18.

then you both can be happy with having to deal with all of this mess. But if you think its right then go ahead and give it a shot.

Answer 28

umm yes hes too old its illegalto have sex if theres a two year age difference if under 18 or some one over 16 and under 16 . . . and if your not going to have sex your just stupid theres no point in living together.

Answer 29

of course they can get in trouble.

and you can too.

you dont need to go to all this trouble for this boy



chill out.

you're 16.

you'll look back on this later and you'll think of how stupid you were.

dont do it.



your 16 you have a lot of years ahead of you.

and you can find someone new, hes not the only guy on this planet.



chill out.

Answer 30

hmm...i don't think he can get in trouble if you are consenting. I have no idea though. Maybe just stay living where you are and quietly date him, like secretly go over to his place till you're 18

Answer 31

it technically isn't kidnapping

you are going willing

but on the other hand there is still the justice system



it depends on which state you are in

you can get in trouble but it is what ya do for love right?



good luck

Answer 32

yes u can get in trouble.. ur parents will go haywire and freak out and stuff if they are so strict.. why dont u ask permission.. unless ur planning to have an argument with ur parents and leave, move out to another place..u know that they can even tell the police right?

Answer 33

Will if u really love him u probably do it. but yeah he can get in trouble if your moms find out where u at and she could turn him in seen that where your livin with. but thing can reallyy get twised after a bit. cop will be lookin for you and every one else and ****.

Answer 34

it doesnt matter if your running away, in court your parents can say u are young and he controlled your mind and what not. even if u say u did it by choice he will get in trouble. and on a side note, your an idiot you know that.

Answer 35

you're jail bait honey.

so do it if you like, but if you really love the guy and don't want him to go to jail, then make the right frickin choice. think hard this isn't like a at the second thing.

Good Luck!

Answer 36

i dont think its legal, because ur only 16 and ur can parents a file a case that ur missing and can bring u back home, unless ur parents dont like u and dont care about. if u can wait until ur 18, that way nobody can stop u.

Answer 37

YES you, and everyone can get in a lot of trouble since you are underage!!!! what are you? a sophmore?? the reason your parents dont want you together is not because they want to make you mad, but because they love you! they care about you!! they know that all this guy wants from you is sex sex sex. i bet everyone around you knows it 2! tell yourself whatever you want, and listen to his sweet talk but this could ruin your life forever. whatever. your probably doing drugs already anyway.

Answer 38

Its your life, you decide what you have to do.



But let me tell you one thing dear, it is a wrong path. Am not your dad to persuade you not to go. But what if the boy deserts you or impregnates you, then leave you. And as far as problems are concerned, there will be lots of problems in this path, i guarantee you that..

Answer 39

You won't get in trouble, those 2 guys will go to jail for Statutory rape, housing a runaway, child molestation, it all depends on your state. They will get in a hell of a lot of trouble none the less.



That's all there is to it.

Answer 40

first of all that's an idiotic idea.

second of all yes you can get in trouble. (your parents will report it to the police and since your under 16 they will take you back home)

third of all you will get him in trouble since your 15 and it would be considered statutory rape.

Answer 41

Yes you all can get in trouble. Dont worry this puppy luv pass.

Answer 42

u can get arrested or put in foster care for running away in some states

Answer 43

they can get introuble if they hide you or if you hide from your parents there.

however if your parents are fine with it, or if they hate it but kicked you out then its aloud so don't worry about it. just remember that you will probley not be aloud back so if you leave, thats it you only have that one place to go if your in trouble because your parents will be mad at you.

Answer 44

oh well i think you can get in trouble since hes 18 and you are a "minor"

and i know that you asked ot to mention if you should do it or not but i want to tell you that if you guys are in love then you should do anything to be with each other

mmmkayy!!

hoppe i helpedd hunn!=)

Answer 45

yea u can get in trouble cus u followed but listen take a moment to think bout it ur parents had u without them you wuldnt be here and now u r betraying them disobidient im not changin ur mind but just pray okay

Answer 46

first of all love has no age.. girl dont let anyone take your happiness away. they dont know wht you feel. do what your heart tell you not your head. and i believe you cannot get introuble

Answer 47

Yes.. you will get him sent to jail.. dont do that!! just wait until u turn 18

Answer 48

He can be arrested just for dating you, its a risky situation if you really like your boyfriend you shouldnt do it legally he can't see you

Answer 49

yeah. im serious when i say this. Last year i knew this guy who ran away and his parents called the police. And then he went on some sort of probation.

Answer 50

Trouble with your parents? yes.



Trouble Legally? most likely no.



Trouble financially? Most likely yes.

Answer 51

UMM...hello, of course you can get in trouble...he is a grown man and ur a little peanut head!!!

Answer 52

I don't think it's kidnapping but assuming you and your boyfriend are sleeping together that's rape.

Answer 53

if you have second thoughts about doing anything chances are you going to get in trouble for it

Answer 54

BOTH! u could get in huge trouble for runnign off! n they could get in trouble for letting u stay ther wit out permission

Answer 55

WAIT TILL URE 16



DEN URE FREE TO FY LIKE A BIRD

Answer 56

hahaha if you get caught then youll get in trouble. lmao

Answer 57

you can get in trouble CUX you could go to juvve cuz your under eighteen ,, so if you get caught you can go to juvve

Answer 58

look up Runaway Laws + your state.

If you're 16, legally you probably won't get into any trouble,

but ALWAYS check with your state laws.

Answer 59

the cops can come to his appartment and drag you out to take you back home

Answer 60

Yes, you can. Your parents still have consent.

Answer 61

trouble is written all over . . .

Answer 62

Yes they can, and he can be jailed for statutory rape.

Answer 63

o da Police gone take all yall straight to jail for runnin away n not kidnapping i 4got wat dat other thing called but they goin to jail for helpin you

Answer 64

yup its kidnapping.



and ew dont do it. your too young to know what real love is its probably just infatuation.

Answer 65

Yea stupid its called statutory rape

Answer 66

THEY can.

Good luck.

Don't be stupid though.

Answer 67

Yeah, you can, so don't do it.

Answer 68

duh idiot!!!!!

he can be arrested for milesting you