Do I frighten women? Would I frighten you? Be honest.?

Question

I've been told I have a very kind face, I'm considered by others as very attractive, I'm a very kind and giving person.

Girls very rarely approach me despite my looks. I know men shouldn't expect to have women approach them since it's usually the other way around-but don't girls usually have a warm/flirtatious attitude around guys that are really attractive? (I swear to god I'm NOT trying to brag or flatter myself, just figure this out). And when I approach a girl myself, they seem to act strange sometimes, not like scoffing, acting aloof, or showing disinterest-I'd be able to notice if they simply weren't interested...instead they act uncomfortable in a different way, almost as if they're legitimately frightened. Either that or they warm up to me quite well, it's usually one or the other.

The only conclusion I can find is that I FRIGHTEN women...As I said, I'm a very kind and giving person-though I largely keep to myself around those I don't know (so I might appear 'mysterious' or even just cold to those whom I haven't been properly introduced to). Also, I'm big. Huge. I stand at 6'8" and I have a very broad chested-wide shouldered stature. I'm NOT fat, mind you, just REALLY tall with a REALLY large frame. But I'm the most docile person I know, I'm not aggressive at all.

Do I really frighten women? Would I frighten you? Honestly?

Answer 1

You're appearance, no, but I never trust anyone who calls himself "The Schnitz".

Answer 2

Frightening, no. A little intimidating, yes but only because of your height.. Im 5'3" - simply put. Anyway, when you approach someone, try to be aware of what emotion is flashing across your face. If its nervousness, the girl(s) might shy away; if its too cocky, the girl might find that as a turn off. My advice is to watch your body language and facial expressions. That just might be it. Good luck!

Answer 3

From your description I think some females would be frighten. I guess it because you are this tall muscular looking guy that seems to be keeping to yourself about something. I personally not afraid of that at all but I'm sorry that the girls that live near you would be frightened

Answer 4

Well, if a really tall dude approached me in a bar, I'd be slightly frightened....You may not be aggressive, but your height and broad shoulders can give that appearance.

Answer 5

i dont think you frighten them they just are making the moment awkward cause they dont know you that much, you seem like a very nice guy who girls wouldnt have any reason not to like you. just be brave and go up to girls and you will get either people who act awkward and if they do either talk to them more then you can tell if they want to keep talking to you or just want you to go away (trust me with girls youll know, exp. very short words "yeah , cool, oh") or they will like you as a friend or maybe more (:

and no i wouldnt be scared of you

Answer 6

i could actual want her to be somewhat aggressive. As adult adult males, we are each and every so often sluggish to %. up on or understand a woman's subtle tricks or needs. So because i prefer to do each and everything i will to make and shop the girl i'm with happy,(in each and every way) somewhat aggressiveness will help me to appropriate seize her indicators. to boot, somewhat aggressiveness is a demonstration of self esteem and that's under no circumstances a undesirable factor.

Answer 7

go to your mom ask her to hug you if she doesnt three options



-your mother specifically is afraid of you and girls think you abuse your mom



-you are frightening to women because of your height



-you are being conceited and look like horse sh*t

Answer 8

the fact that you ask this question and are so concerned about it frightens me.