Though we both knew there was no future because of the religion issue,we still used to hang out.We were not dating,as i did not want him to be pressurized for any promises,i was solely happy in the comfort of his company.I was the first woman he happened to get physically intimate as well,Then suddenly he tells me that a girl he knew before me and had an attraction for,has proposed to him and he has accepted,whereas,even though there was no commitment between me and him,he very clearly told me that i was the only one he was pursuing.I was heartbroken,chased him for few days,but wen i got no response 2 my texts and calls, i stopped .Then on new years,post 15 days of no contact,he contacts me again to confess that he misses me alot,for about 3 or 4 days he kept caling me,i called him back but our timings never matched so was not able to speak to him.But then again without even speaking to me once,starts to ignore me again.He has always been in military school with zero interaction with females since childhood.why is he doing so? i feel he is trying hard to get over me,,what do u think guys>