What will you do when your beautiful dream comes out to be a nightmare?

Question

A simple, average, fat boy loved a girl. She wasn't ordinary, she was real pretty and innocence could be seen on her face. The way he loved her could not be explained in words. He changed himself to become a person whom that girl would like, from his hairstyle to his shoes. But what did not changed in him was his kind, loving, caring nature. The girl he loved was not a virgin, but he hardly cared coz he never loved her for sexual desires, his love was true. Well, after changing himself, he met the girl for the first time and spoke to her. For him, it was like a dream come true. But soon his dream became a nightmare, when he found out the truth that she used every good looking guy to make her ex-boyfriends jealous coz Love was just a game she played with everyone. And he was going to be her next victim. What should he have done?
As for today nothing is the same as it used to be earlier. He have changed his place and very importantly his inside him. And no longer trusts anyone..........

Answer 1

Wow. That's very sad. I'm sorry, if that was you, I'm assuming. What can I say...Love is blind. I hope you have your eyes open now and learn to trust again.

Answer 2

First of all, never let the kind, loving, caring nature become jaded by this harlot - yes, that is exactly what I call this player: a harlot, *****, trollop, scuzzy-beotch that used you. These traits that you have within you will be appreciated by the woman that can see this about you and love you for who you are.



Second, loving someone means taking chances and trusting someone - regardless of whether you meet the right person now or in the future, or how many times you might get burned before you find her. It is easy to just shut down and not trust someone again. Never get to that point because it sucks to be alone because you can't trust someone. I know!



Third, let the changes that you made be genuine for that special lady that you will eventually meet. It will come one day. Just give it time, but know that you will be a bit more wiser because of the unfortunate experience with this scuzball wench that you found out about before you became her victim. You won't be suckered by another.

Answer 3

Why would she use a "simple little fat boy" to make her ex jealous? I have very little empathy for people who self-pity over such relationships because they deluded themselves into thinking there was a relationship in the first place. Maybe you were her one redeeming quality. Maybe she was seeing you because you were "without sexual desire" and the relationship was a true friendship--which is far more lasting than a sexual relationship. As far as you changing yourself goes, good for you! Do you like the new you? You created it. If you dont like the new you change it. You'll chage many times over in your lifetime. It's not a big deal. In fact, change is a good thing. We are not meant to stay the same.

Answer 4

guys are always yelling that there players

these are the one's that treat there gf's like crap and use them and cheat on them

she was propably like now im not going to be one of the stupid weak girls ill be a player too

things change with time if u really like this girl then talk to her

she propably never had real love in her life

it is time to face your fears maybe this nightmare isnt so scary after all..

Answer 5

dear , it is a sad story. try to learn some positive lessons to see your real friends and never forget to be brave enough to be yourself not an easilly changing in all moods.I am agirl saying so.

Answer 6

She is a hunting flirt women. Keep ur money and body intact from her

Answer 7

Wake Up!

Answer 8

wow, sad story, but grow up man, find others !

Answer 9

divorce