If a guy with a small dick and a big dick were equally good in bed, equally attractive, and of equal social status, who would you pick? why?

Question

Do you need more information to answer the question?

Also lets pose this different scenario, if the guy with the big dick made you orgasm really well, but the guy with the small dick was better at everything, even just a notch (i.e. foreplay, penetration, grinding, all stimulation) and gave you better, harder, multiple, longer orgasms than the guy with the big dick, who would you pick?

Does this even matter?

If you pick the one with the smaller dick, why?
bigger dick, why?

lets say the small guy was about 5" length and girth
the big guy was about 7" length and 5.5" girth
would you even be able to ballpark estimate his size visually? manually? orally? vagina?

Please let me know the answer the both the Title Question and the Details question. Give me some detail to work with here and valid reasons. Also if you believe that even if the guy with the big dick made you feel more intense sexually, is there anything the other guy can do to make you choose him.

In answering these questions ask yourself if you would be able to sustain a marriage with the guy that you pick... if you want to go in depth about other qualities which are important to you thats fine, but I want to know if the sexual dimension strictly makes that big of an impact to you.

consider everything: visual stimulation, tangible stimulation, long term potential (i.e. sex doesn't care visually or tangibly boring, causing infidelity or thoughts of infidelity)

Serious answers appreciated

Answer 1

That would depend on the size of my vagina and if I had a preference for one size or the other. The girl could always do both and not be limited by having to choose either of them...

Answer 2

Measuring the penis when it isn't erect is pointless, since the length and bulk are affected by various temporary factors, such as the ambient temperature. Even the largest male organ can shrink to virtually nothing if the man goes for a swim in cold water. However, at normal temperatures a non-erect p enis usually measures between 8.5 cm and 10.5 cm (3-4 inches) from tip to base.

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The average figure is about 9.5 cm (3.75 inches). Of course, it's true that some men have big penises and some have smaller ones, just as some men have small feet and some have big feet, but the measurement is not – repeat not – an index of virility.

Answer 3

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Answer 4

To me size dosent matter when love is involved. I would pick the guy I love. If it was fwb or just causual hookups, I'd defs check all three out. And pick the one that gives me most enjoyment. But I don't think I'd cheat on my bf, if it was clearly stated we were bf/gf if not then I guess it's up to the individual.

Answer 5

Reading OP, I had a feeling you're not "secure" with your dick despite you knew the answers big and small ***** contributes to real sexual satisfaction.



Well, let's reinforce the knowledge you had:

1) Only the first inch or so of the vagina is sensitive. So you need only a dick that can penetrate 1 inch to satisfy your woman.



2) Hitting the cervix is painful, not pleasurable. Only guys with big dick has chances to hit it. But this does not mean they're always so careless. Bigger guys who learn to control penetration will do very well.



3) Men normally needs about 1 to 5 minutes to climax through vagina intercourse. Women needs 15 to 20 minutes. So any man who only know how to pump is almost certain to bring no satisfaction to his woman. Everyone, big or small, MUST KNOW how to foreplay (I like to call it love play). This leads to the next point:



4) Man is simple: Penile intercourse guarantees satisfaction. Woman is however, complex. They need emotional, mental, even spiritual stimulation BEFORE physical ones. So spending even 20 minutes just sweet talking, non-sensual massaging, touching apparently non-sensual body parts actually contributes to her climaxing later.



So sorry to intrude this question meant for ladies only, I would encourage you, stop worrying about your dick. Worry about the "full trade" of sexual stimulation and foreplay than just "plumbing" only.

Answer 6

Its all about connection i nees to feel him without him touching me! The look in his eyes i want to be able to look in them and know he wants me. I want the gental stroke of his hand to make me feel as if i just had an orgasum. I want to feel his love. The size of his penis is a non issue with me. Big or small the stuff i just described is what sets me off. Thats why i love making love to my bf he does it all for me and he hasnt even tuched me yet!

Answer 7

For me the size of dick doesnt matter. I feel that you should be with a guy you love and not for the size of his dick. If you love him than sex should always be amazing. So i might not have answered your question about small dick or big dick because the size isnt important for a relationship.