Its getting really complicated. Please Help.?

Question

I had a break up few months back (ma bf left because of his family). Since then I've become vary of being in relationships. There's a friend who has proposed me. He really loves me a lot n says that he'll always keep me happy but I don't feel that kinda love for him. Now my parents have started looking for marriage proposals & all. But I don't know if I should go with the friend who proposed me or I should marry someone my parents will select for me.

Answer 1

i think u shud go for the one who loves u rather den to whom u love n u r talkin abt d marriage to a person to whom u havn't met..





i hope u ll take ma advice n think on it..



ALL THE BEST for ur upcomin future..! !



your well wisher

Answer 2

Arranged marriages aren't always a bad idea.. I dont know about you but I grew up in Ahmedabad in Gujarat, India and there we always thought of arranged marriages as our parents finding a date for us N then the marriage decision was on us. My cousins in india had taken as much as 18 months between their engagement and marriage just to know each other very well before marriage. So ya do what feels right. If you don't wanna marry your friend, just tell him up front.. don't linger him around you. N see if you can win ur ex-bf's family's heart to get ur ex back if you still love him. Anywayz, good luck!.. N if you have any questions or just wanna chat, shoot me an email.



Btw, I was in india til I was 17 N then moved with my family to chicago back in 03

Answer 3

IF u really think that your friend who proposed to u really loves you, then first talk to him about your marriage. After that tell your family about him. But u have to do that fast bcoz u have no time since ur family is looking for marriage proposals. Try to convince your parents. If your parents disagree then marry what ur family think is best. But give your friend a chance once. Just think in a long term.

Answer 4

Go for the one selected by your parents.

Answer 5

Neither. Marry someone that YOU meet and fall in love with. Your parents decisions have nothing to do with your life. Sometimes traditions aren't meant to be followed if they don't work out for you.

Answer 6

I think that it should be your decision ...



none can know about the circumstances being there .....



rather i will suggest you to marry the boy your parent choose..



so that u do not blame yourself for any mis-happening ..



all the best. take care & congrates u for marriage in advance.......>>>

Answer 7

go and marry your own friend who propose you

Answer 8

its basic common sense to settle down with a person u know atleast a bit

Answer 9

meet sm guys which your family says, spnd sm tym wid thm n thn decide..

Answer 10

dey say...u shud olways go vid d person who luvs u rather to d one whom u luv......cuz d latter keeps u d happiest.....!!!!!!!!!!

juss tell yo paremts dat u arnt ready yet 4 marriage....n try spndin ym vid dis frn of urs...!!!!!

u'd dfntly luk at him d other way n vil fall in luv vid him....!!!!

n den tell ur parents abt him....!!!!

dey obviously want ur happiness....so plzzzz have it ur way sweety....so dat in future u dun blame anybody else 4 wat u hv.....bt u no dat u're d one whoz responsible 4 watvr u hv.....

ol d best

may god bless u

have a happy lyf

Answer 11

ask this to your heart