Question:
Can I fix this my relationship?
anonymous
2011-06-20 15:08:25 UTC
Well my girlfriend just broke up with me recently after she got back from vacation in Korea. I felt that she was the right girl for me, and I am really surprised about the break up. I asked her to be my girlfriend about 3 weeks before she left to go there. Before she left, we spent a lot of time together. I was thinking that her going on this vacation would make our relationship a lot better because we were going to miss each other while she was away.
So after a 3 week stay in Korea, she finally came home, but I sensed that something was wrong. She wouldn't reply to any of my texts or phone calls at and then 3 days later she calls me and breaks up with me on the phone. This caught me off guard and I was speechless. She said that she only sees me as a friend and that she 'lost' her feelings for me while she was over there. This totally devastated me, I can't get her off of my mind. I asked her if we could meet up for coffee and talk about what happened but she said no.

So I was wondering what went wrong in our relationship? Did I do anything wrong? Is there any way for us to hopefully become a couple again?
Three answers:
David
2011-06-20 15:33:38 UTC
There is only one way in this world that works in this type of situations. Accept and agree. Yes agree with everything she says, feels or does. Tell her that you think it is great that she wants to be friends because friendship is the greatest part of any relationship anyway. And most important- date others. yes you heard well date other girls. This will make her jealous and perhaps she will start persuing you. Enjoy your friends your hobbies and your time. Under no circumstences show her that you want her back!!! In this way you will lose her forever-she wants a man not a boy. An independant, happy man. Give it to her and date other women and she may consider getting back to you. Do that and it will show her that you are a man-and thats what she wants. She wants a man!!! If you understand womens way of thinking you will have many of them around you. If you want to find more about what I'm talking about read "STOP YOUR DIVORCE" book by Homer Mc Donald which ideas helped many people like you get his mate back. I leave a link to the Homers page in the source box. Good Luck in getting your ex girlfriend back!!!
?
2016-11-11 09:00:01 UTC
journey-do no longer end Believing basically a small city female, livin in a lonely worldwide she took the hour of darkness practice goin everywhere basically a city boy, born and raised in south detroit he took the hour of darkness practice goin everywhere a singer in a smokey room a scent of wine and occasional priced fragrance For a grin they might share the night It is going on and on and on and on strangers waiting, up and down the street their shadows finding interior the night streetlight human beings, residing basically to locate emotion hiding, someplace interior the night working no longer uncomplicated to get my fill, all of us needs a thrill payin something to roll the cube, basically one extra time some will win, some will lose some have been born to sing the blues Oh, the action picture on no account ends It is going on and on and on and on dont end believin carry directly to the feelin streetlight human beings
?
2011-06-20 15:13:15 UTC
You didnt do anything wrong.


This content was originally posted on Y! Answers, a Q&A website that shut down in 2021.
Loading...