Help im stuck between 3 guys?

Question

im stuck between 3 guys i really love...guy number one is cute,funny,and really cocky.... he's a really prone to violence and he has 2 personality's one guy is the loving awesome guy we all look for... and the other is a really bad bipolar disorder...one minute he's nice two me and the other he hates my guts and he wants me to die..;.Guy 2 is a nice fit guy who is nice and not really all that prone to violence... he's loving and affectionate...he means everything he says and he told me he loves me...the problem is that he is going out with someone he said he's never gonna break up with...he knows some of my deepest secrets and he's almost like my brother... he's my crying shoulder and he gets what im going through...Guy 3 was my first boyfriend in the 3rd grade... he's tall skinny and ....emo... i love him cuz like guy 2 he is like a brother to me... i try to tell him my problems because i think he'll listen...but then he gets mad depending on the subject...my question is what guy is best for me???who should i get over??? and who should i keep a close friendship with??

Answer 1

Since there is so much going on between the 3 guys. I suggest you fall in love with someone else. You can keep guy # 2 as a friend. It would be pointless to pursue a man who already told you that he will never break up with someone. Be carefully in what you say to a guy, because what you say can turn around and bite you in the but.

Answer 2

You know; you're not going to like my answer, but i think *none* of them are best for you. If you'd like, of course you can be friends with them. But let me tell you why i don't think you should date any of them.



Guy #1 - you do NOT want to deal with someone who's Bipolar. You do NOT want to be in a relationship with someone who's Bipolar. Unless they are getting help, or are doing the right things to get help, i PROMISE you he will take you down with him; even though it's unintentional on his part. He will take away your life, your energy, your everything because of what he has to deal with. Trust me, i know from a LOT of unintentional experience. One moment, you're their everything and you feel so wonderful and loved. The next, you're absolute trash and are expendable to them. It will just destroy your mentality no matter how strong you think you are. He will hurt you mentally and physically. He will abuse you in all ways possible. i am telling you, you may think you know him, but you could not be more wrong.



Guy #2: If he's not going to break up with the girl he's already going out with, do you think he's going to truly pursue a relationship with you? If he truly loved you, he'd break up with the girl he's dating and go out with you. When he says he loves you, he might mean it in a different way. There are many different meanings to love; more than just the way you might be thinking of.



Guy #3: If he's not patient enough to be there for you and listen to you, no matter what might be on your mind and what you want to talk to him about, do you really think that's boyfriend material? Do you want someone to ignore you when you need someone to go to / to talk to?



Out of them all, i would say keep the closest friendship with Guy# 2. He sounds the most normal. Even though he's in a relationship, doesn't mean you can't be good friends with him. The other two guys i would say get over. The Bipolar guy, even as a friend, is going to end up hurting you. The other guy who gets mad at some of the things you tell him, in my opinion, isn't even good enough to be a friend.



Don't fret though...don't give up. You sound like a great person, there is a great person out there for you. You just have to look in the right places.

Answer 3

To be frank...you're just torn between what you want and what you don't...



All guys have their strengths and deficiency...Some guys might have some of the traits you want and as well you don't...



You are trap with these three guys because of their individual traits which you fall in-love with but the problem is they also have those you don't like...



Guy 2 is definitely out...he's dating someone else...



You might pick between guy 1 & 3...but just be careful with them. You know, guy 1 is prone to violence. You might be caught between his trouble. Guy 3 is only thinking of himself rather than yours. I think those 3 should learn to love you not because of who they are, but because of what is really best for you both...



If you can't, just give them up...just wait for that right person that will fits you... Just pray for it, that is, if you believe in prayers.



Remember...it's their lost not yours...They seems not to see you the way they should...



Every girl must be treated as a princess for they are raised to be one...

Hope i answer your question...

Answer 4

Forget about guy #1 that is just crazy to be around someone like that. Guy #2 is more of a friend and guy #3 got some issues as well. So I would advise you to stay away from him. Look to be honest you are attracting so dangerous and unpredictable guys. I think you need to sit back and think about what you want from a guy before you date. It looks like your putting yourself up to get hurt mentally and Physically.

Answer 5

Well, I wouldn't date 1 or 3 because neither of them sound like they'll be much good for you. Which leaves you with....2. The taken guy. You can either do the b**** thing and try to force him and his current girlfriend to break up or you can sit and try to wait it out.

Answer 6

ha you dont love them. you cant love(in a relationship way) three people so much that you cant choose between them. theres always a number one. you love none of the three. the way you talked about him, it sounds like you dont even like one. it sounds like you like two, but hes a little whore. and three, you didnt talk about him much either...



it just sounds to me like you dont know what you want. we cant tell you whats best for you. only you can.



i dont want to get messages telling me im insensitive, so im not saying this in a bitchy way, but you sound like you need to mature a little more before a relationship.

Answer 7

weigh your options, who do you have the most fun with, which is the best to you? Which is a good influence to you, who do your friends think treats you good? who has a better personality, which one is funner? Which one seems to never get old and you cant get enough of :)

Answer 8

get away from the bipolar one and the violent one.



u dont need to be treated like crap in any situation.



bi-polar disorder is scary my ex of 2 yrs had it and it sucked balls.

Answer 9

go fo the number 2

Answer 10

the guy who is more realistic, kind ,honest and foremost he have patience for you.

Answer 11

None of them sound good for you!

Answer 12

easy on the 4somes

Answer 13

pick the one with the least emotional baggage

Answer 14

have sex with all of them see which ones better :)

Answer 15

wooooow,

i think you need to talk to someone