i wear padded push up bras, will my boyfriend be turned off in bed when he sees?

Question

okay i have really small breasts! so i wear the padded push up bras, so my breasts look bigger than what they really are, when im in bed with my bf and when he taks my bra off and sees how small they really are, will be turned off?? what will he think? are there any natural enhances that have worked? please help!

Answer 1

I wear them too and whenever I am dating someone I always crack a joke and say "oh don't get excited this is the best padded bra I have"

That way I never have to worry about it.



But most important, if he is turned off by that, he isn't worth your time.

Answer 2

Even girls with large breasts wear padding. I am a 36D and I usually wear a push-up with padding.



Don't worry about a thing!! -- You are over analyzing and thinking about this too much. He will not care if you are doing a little "false advertising!" haha... he will think he is the luckiest guy in the world the moment you take your bra off. I remember being insecure about this when I was younger too. =)



Just remember to be safe once things in your relationship progress!!



Good luck with everything!

Answer 3

Sweet Heart if your boyfriend truely loves you... Your breast size will not matter. As a guy I will tell you that you woman worry more about your breast than us guys do. It is the look in your eye... the way you smile and the way you laugh that has attracted him to you. Even if you wear a padded bra... it doesn't bring you from a 34a to a 34d so don't worry... I bet your beautiful just being you and that is why he is with you

Answer 4

My Fiancé personally finds anything that enhances nice but not crucial. He says that it more important that I feel sexy and I'm turned on in bed vs whether or not he is turned on. Being confident and sexual turns him on and if I can do that in granny undies and a t-shirt, the more power to me. And in all honesty, by the time he has you with your bra off, he isn't going to bother to take out a measuring tape to be sure there are up to par. If it something that bothers you, go ahead and discussed it with him. Just ask if he thinks anything about it.

Answer 5

No women's breasts look like the same with the bra on, when the bra is actually off. You'll be fine. He's not going to sit there with an evaluation report and critique you. I'm sure he'll be too close for that. :)

Answer 6

I'm on the same boat... don't worry about what he is thinking.. some guys, and i say some, really don't care the size of your breast if they like or love you. You will begin to get more comfortable the more you are nude around him.. it helps. It's an insecurity that a lot of woman have but you'll get over it. no need for enhancements.

Answer 7

A girls shirt coming off is never a turn off for a guy. If he likes you for your breasts then your dating the wrong guy. There are some enhancement rubs you could try or massaging them works too.

Answer 8

It depends on the guy. You know him better than anybody here will. I would find it hard to believe that small breasts would "turn" him "off". Don't worry about it, you are what you are, there is nothing you can do to change that (short of very expensive and very shallow surgery, that is!).



Good luck.

Answer 9

Why do you wear a Bra to bed??? OMG someone said you are 16..WTF would you be in bed with a guy and does Mommy approve?



Anything over a mouthful is a waste anyway.

Answer 10

Nope. Most guys like real boobs and if it makes em look good then go for it, If a guys gets turned off when he has real boobs righ in front of him ... well he is either not a man or just really shallow :o)

Answer 11

Here's what to do so he will not be turned off.....DON'T GO TO BED WITH HIM!!!!! If he cares about you he will respect you and not expect you to go to bed with him. Save yourself for marriage and you will never have to regret sleeping with other guys. You could be setting yourself up for a lot more than this guy rejecting you because of small breasts. You risk pregnancy...another human life! You risk any of 100 std's. Some of the most common stds have no cure and you will ruin your future sex life because of them. THINK ABOUT IT!

Answer 12

No. Trust me.....most guys are not hung up on breast size like women sometimes think they are. A lot of guys like small breast or breast that are proportionate to your body.



Be proud of your body and thankful that it is healthy and cancer free.

Answer 13

"The closer to the bone, the sweeter the meat". I think that if he likes you for who you are, it wont matter at all. What matters is that you are happy with the way you look. Try not to catch yourself changing for some guy, be yourself and make him love all of you, not just your breasts.

Answer 14

lol Dont be ashamed of them! I too am small but small has its perks. Like no saggage, no stretch marks, no hacky-sack-knee-wacks.

Confience in the mind, makes your body irresistible. And its even more sexy ;) Smalls rare because everyone now has huge boobs or fake ones.

Dont false advertize love, because what you see is what you get. If he's hot for you--its what you have.

Answer 15

No if he dose then he might gay.

WHY?

Because he's about to have hot sex monkey love. So if he stops and says "your bra is padded. Kick him off the team and send his gay @$$ back to the miners...10-4

Answer 16

Well if your bra makes them look allott bigger than they are maybe you shouldn`t wear them, because he may be a little turned of but because you are not being in a natrual .......

Answer 17

All guys have some type of preference ... but no dude is throwing a naked chick outta the bed. Ummkay?

Answer 18

Maybe not. Some people out there don't mind not getting what they thought they were. I wonder if he would get upset if he paid for a new Honda, but instead they gave him a Hyundai?

Answer 19

I would wait if I were you and get this small book on exercises for your breast. They become bigger and plump. Take it from experience, you will feel alot better about yourself more confident and he won't feel cheated. So wait, get the book, do the exercises and within 2 weeks or so, you will look and feel great.

Answer 20

u shouldn't wear push up bras and lie about how you look just don't wear them and if he don't like you because if your small breasts and **** him and find someone who doesn't care about the size of your boobs

Answer 21

If he's a real boy/boy friend,he would love you for who you are,not your breasts,if he does then he's a @ss.Cause that's messed up,you can't help having small breasts.

Just tell him the truth.

Xoxo

Answer 22

I wouldn't suggest any enhancements- if he loves you, he won't care. He should be with you for YOU, not for your breasts.

Answer 23

as long as u hav breast he should be happy, i guess.



u should sleep for at least 8 hours

Answer 24

i think ya boy friend should love u how u r he should make u feel comfortably about ya breats and should not b turnt off

Answer 25

His attention won't be focused above the waist.



But, are you sure you are ready; and if you are convinced, are you prepared in other ways?

Answer 26

no way.. come on its 2008, guys should know that most girls wear them to enhance the size and shape of their tata's

Answer 27

You are only 16! He knows they'll grow bigger. Who says he'll get that far with you anyways, just don't let him take it off and he'll *never* know!

Answer 28

This Is Why I Don't Wear Those Things :D

Answer 29

No... by the time he gets you in bed he won't give a **** WHAT your bra looks like... or what's underneath it !! :)

Answer 30

maby you should not care what the magazines say and love the Body your in

Answer 31

hey use any good body wash anything from Victoria secret and i am sure you know when and how

Answer 32

i personally think smaller breasts are better. Too me, they are absolutely adorable! ^^

Answer 33

uh.... everyone's breasts sooner or later will grow and y are you ashamed of it?



and if he cares about you that much he won't even care about them, just about you!

Answer 34

Most guys like nipples. As long as you've got those you'll be fine.

Answer 35

You should not be haveing sex untill your married or old enough!!...its rong..u could get pregnate or an STD

Answer 36

He'll be turned on by the fact that your shirt is off, yes.

Answer 37

I think he shouldn't care, and love you for who you are.

:)

embrace it girllllll<3!





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Answer 38

i think small boobs are hot he wont be turned off

Answer 39

no. if he loves you for who you are, he won't care at all.

also most guys like girls with natural breasts, not super huge ones.

Answer 40

if he's already in bed with you i doubt he will notice or hell even care

Answer 41

If he is turned off then he is shallow...

Answer 42

NO!!!! I wouldnt care at all....it will be even better!!!!(im a guy)

Answer 43

hahaha just tell him youll be uconforttable with your shirt off! or ummmm dont do it!!!!!

Answer 44

No, he should like you for who you are.

Answer 45

lol i think so. don't fake it girlfriend!

Answer 46

don't worry he will like you

Answer 47

lol no



he will have on thing on his mind, sex.

Answer 48

he probs would be too distracted to notice your boobs dont look quite as big as he remembered

Answer 49

if he luvs u he wont care. if he does care he's not worth it

Answer 50

if he really likes you he shouldn't care.

Answer 51

ull be fine

Answer 52

I don't think so.

Answer 53

Hahahahahaha you got tiny boobies!



Wait...Carly Carmen?



HAHAH

Answer 54

No.

Answer 55

doesn't matter.

Answer 56

sex before marriage is a great sin

Answer 57

then don't have sex!

Answer 58

yes *****..............................loser Im size DD