This is for the girls out there. Out going guys vs. Go with the flow guys???

Question

Do girls prefer guys who are out going or guys who go with the flow. Please explain if you can on your answer. Thanks for your time.

Answer 1

Go with the flow guys are better if you want a guy who is there for you. They tend to be the good, nice, sweet, smart guys.



Out going guys tend to have way too much testosterone, and get into more confrontations more often than is neccessary. You can find them in the bad-boy or jock section when shopping for guys.

Answer 2

Why can't you have both? Do you mean a guy who takes charge and does what he wants all of the time as opposed to a guy that is flexible and will do whatever you want to do?

A guy can be outgoing and go with the flow at the same time..and I prefer that choice over anything else.

Answer 3

Guys that are so confident that they don't need to be outgoing. Let me explain.....



Sometimes I see guys that are so outwardly open and outgoing that it almost seems like they are performing for an audience. They thrive on attention given to them by others. But there are other guys that don't need that attention. They are content just being themselves with people accepting them for who they are. They have nothing to prove. Therefore, they have no need to outwardly draw attention to themselves. They do go with the flow.....because the flow is how they are comfortable. Existing in life the way they enjoy, not the way other expect them to be. Confidence is so appealing. But it's even more appealing when it is portrayed by an "individual" who is content to be just a little left of center and happy to be so. :)

Answer 4

I personally like the go with the flow guys as I am rather quite out going at times and someone who is rather easy going is a better fit for me ( tends to keep me grounded). So it is kinda like opposites attach. Nice question thou.

Answer 5

I am the type of girl who likes to go out and have a good time. I don't want a guy hanging on my arm waiting for me to decide what to do next. I want a guy who will take me out and show me a good time. He needs to be VERY OUTGOING!

Answer 6

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Answer 7

Go with the flow type of men

Answer 8

I prefer a guy who is kind and not that popular because I don't have to be scared about him cheating on me. I like guys who is out going but not not too much and I like guys who is smart.

Answer 9

Both. It all depends on the other parts of their personality. If they are outgoing but willing to stay home occasionally, that's good. If they are laid back but willing to take a girl out every once in a while, that definately scores points

Answer 10

I'm the type of girl that likes it when guys do S0ME of the talking and stuff. My type of guy has to be able to start and end a good, nice, and smooth conversation-while talking to me or anyone else. In other words. My type of guy needs to be VERY OUTGOING!

Answer 11

I really like both.I like them both because,you could basically do anything with them.Like go to the movies,go out for dinner,go to the arcade and play games,and spend time with both of the kind.I would really like to meet a guy that was like that because I havn't!Most of them were cocky!But guys who are like that,girls really appreciate it.

Answer 12

out going guys

Answer 13

Bi-sexual man answers! Out going guys! They tend to be more daring in the bedroom, and they are easier to pick up in a bar! Try it.

Answer 14

That doesn't matter as much to me as whether he is a jerk or a prick or a liar. But if I had to choose, I guess outgoing, but not too outgoing that it gets in the way of the relationship.

Answer 15

def. outgoing guys way more fun to be around,kinda hard to explain though

Answer 16

i wouldn't care because as long you like her and she likes you it would be OK. but most girls would probably outgoing guys.

Answer 17

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Answer 18

always out going cause they make it fun!!

Answer 19

out going type...for sure.