Question:
How Would You Start A Conversation With A Girl You've Never Talked To?
Billy
2010-03-24 10:46:40 UTC
I really like her and i think she likes me, i am very shy and i want to know the perfect way to start a conversation with her, i only see her a couple of times a day and the only time she is alone is when she waits at the bus stop, (she doesn't catch the same bus as me though) :-( i really like her and don't want to get off on the wrong foot with her. help
Three answers:
Chris
2010-03-24 11:34:22 UTC
If you think she likes you, then you're halfway there.

Just relax and be yourself. Don't forget to breathe!

Keep it light and positive. Ask her about her. What's she up to, isn't it beautiful out today, anything.

Don't take yourself or her too seriously. Make fun of her or yourself. Have fun with her!

If she's receptive, then flirt a little bit, but not too much. Don't be too eager; you have plenty of time to get to know her better. Just establish that talking with you is a fun thing for her.

Don't forget to listen to her answers to your questions, and if there's a way to reference them later in the conversation, do that. Especially if you can do it in a funny way.

Don't let her be the one who has to end the conversation; leave her wanting more. Tell her you gotta go because of... It shows you have a life. But don't make something up. Lies are a dead end road.

Touch her arm every now and then while you are speaking. But be very casual about it, and don't grope her! Keep your eyes off her boobs (for now). Women hate that.
anonymous
2010-03-24 17:55:41 UTC
Yeah just relax and talk to her. She will approve of your confidence and want to talk to you. Also talk to her, not her breasts. If you can manage that then just ask her questions and you could easily keep her going for hours on end. Try not to be nervous remember what you say to her will not matter when you are grown. So just be confident look at her and talk to her you can say anything even a simple "Hi (Her Name)". Then just think up of some random question that might interest her.
anonymous
2010-03-24 17:48:25 UTC
dude,

just relax.

and if you see her in the hallway by her self,

just be like "Hey, so where are you going?"

trust me if youve ever talked to her its going to start out real slow,

but after a while you both will be talking non stop


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