Guy acting a bit odd at work, What are his intentions?

Question

This guy at work whom I fooled around with sometime back, he didn't want a relationship, and I was a virgin so he felt uncomfortable about going a he way, though he offered we didn't, just did other stuff.
We had fallen out as friends I cut off the friendship because he was flaky and other things, but he acted like he didn't care, so I removed him from FB as he had been ignoring my messages (friendly ones) When I saw him at work weeks later we were being civil but he started trying really hard to talk to me again at work.
Sometimes he flirty with me (he is a flirty person in general) and will find excuses to touch me, where as other times he wont pay much attention to me at all, with this new girl he flirts/ hangs around her and talks to her alot. (shes actually engaged though and im pretty sure he knows that, idk if he is just desperate)

There was a few other weird things he has done/said also

.-walked past me once and made some weird breathing noise/whispered something
.-blocked my way so I had to squeeze past/deliberately pushed into me-pretended to throw things at me
-advised me in the past that I should go on anti-depressants, and that he was on them.
-very lightly punched me on the bare area of my back and my cheek

-I have seen him staring at me quite intensely,he doesnt look away when I notice him.

-I was pushing the baskets along the floor (so I was bent over as I pushed them) After I'd pushed them he just was smiling and said "Amazing person" I was a little confused so I said "huh?" but he didn't say anything else.

-when I was leaving once another staff member mentioned he hadn noticed me during the shift, and this guy said to him "Are you blind?"
-said he only wanted to see what wasinmy bag during bag check and didnt care about checking the bags- asked me how my holiday was i hadnt told him id been on
- when he walked past me and put his hands up and said my name,i smiled and walked past, then he pulled a sad face and said "awww no high five"
- Showed me this thing I'd been looking for 5 mins ago, and when I told him I no longer needed it he said "awww I feel so useless"
-During staff meetin I had been doodling on my paper I saw hims start to do the same
-Always tries to argue about anything/contradict any points I make
-Had this powder on his finger and touched my nose with it-Interupting my conversations with others/trying to join in
-Said that he should be allowed to refuse to serve certain people when he was serving me, and said "people like you
-Looked over when I was chatting to this guy from next door, and watched him as he left
- Today I ignored him unless I had to talk to him about work, he approached me when he could get away from the till, and when I was leaving I got served by the other girl at the till, I noticed him looking over while serving a customer and he made sure he said bye to me and waved.

"Why is he acting this way? I just wish he'd be clear with me.

Answer 1

You present a challenge.

Tell him you do not want the flirting or any sexual inuendo. Tell him you do not want to go out with him and want him to stop. Document the day you did this.

Keep records of every time he says something and what it is he said.

Tell your boss that you feel you are being sexually harrassed. Document it.

If he does nothing go to the HR dept if there is one. If not look for a lawyer that specializes in sexual harrassment cases

Answer 2

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Answer 3

he sounds like a very odd guy, i'd stay far away but that is just me



he probably wants to get together tho to answer your question