Should I tell her how much I love her?

Question

Ive known this girl for about 7 months now and I'm madly in love with her. We talk everyday and were like best friends. She tells me she loves me everyday and that I make her the happiest person in the world. Although I don't think she knows how much I love her and I know she was hurt in the past and is probably scared to get into a relationship since she hasn't had a boyfriend in 3 years. She told me she loves me but more as a dearest friend, but I get the sense that she likes me more than a friend because why would she spend 7 hours talking to me on Skype and she always cares about me. I love this girl so much I changed for her, for example I was like "god damn this girl is to good for me" and I wasn't gonna go to college but because of her I really looked into finding something i'm interested in and now i'm going to college and I even got a job just to show her that I can be a responsible person. Sometimes shes all I can ever think about and I would absolutely do anything in the world for her and I know if we were to ever be together my life would be complete. I've been in love before but not like this, its just driving me nuts. So what do you guys think? Should I express my feelings and show her how much she means to me or should I let it go.

Answer 1

Tell her.



Congratulations on turning your life around, but you should be doing things like that FOR YOU, not for her. I hope it was all for you and that she was just the inspiration.



Try not to make one person the center of your universe, that will deplete your own personality and put pressure on hers.

Answer 2

Of course you should tell her. This is just my opinion, but when she told you that she loves you as her dearest friend, you should have replied back to her and told her how you felt for her at that time also. Even if you didn't love her "that way" yet. It's always good to be honest and open in a relationship, and not to yell at you but if there is one thing that will hold y'all together it's to remember that COMMUNICATION IS KEY. NEVER hold back telling her exactly how you feel, and whenever she tells you how she feels, listen first and then THINK before you reply.. So for now, tell her how much she means to you and how much you appreciate everything she does for you. Listen when she talks. And enjoy your newfound love.

Answer 3

you should deffinitaly tell her but dont lay it on as hard as in this post because it might take her some getting used to if she thought that you only saw her as a friend. you should ask her a simple question while your talkin like do you think we would ever work out together, if shes asks why say because of how close you are and how much time you spend together and that it has crossed your mind. go from there. Good Luck!

Answer 4

no longer very mainly. my dad used to inform me day-to-day. (however he is lifeless). my mother tells me. my sister tells me. every so often different loved ones participants do ........ or a freind does, however that form of affection is extraordinary than romantic love. And even in that cirumstance, i have no longer heard it mainly. I am no longer informed "I love you" very mainly. I am no longer informed "I admire you" or "Thank You" very mainly both. Hugs are not ordinary both. And regardless that i am the form of man or woman of whom is relatively relaxed and that i do not ought to pay attention it day-to-day, each and every as soon as in a at the same time it's exceptional to understand that i'm cared approximately and preferred. But I suppose the word turns into ordinary after a at the same time and loses it is which means if used TOO so much or within the mistaken context. Like while i man performs the "I love you" card simply to get you to do him OR a buddy or loved ones member performs the "I love you" card simply on the grounds that they wish some thing from you. Not all people is like that, however a few are. And the word does lose it is credibility and which means after a at the same time of getting used improperly in such situations. I attempt to allow the men and women in my existence recognize that i care approximately them mainly. I regularly say "Love You!" or "I Love You!" however that is simply on the grounds that that is the best way that i'm. I've regularly been like that. I like men and women to understand that they're cherished and cared approximately. And that it's precise, as i assume not anything in go back. I am sorry you've gotten had such terrible situations. I recognize the sensation, feel me. I can present you a hug! ---> ?hugs!!? And i am hoping it will get larger. Just on the grounds that SOME men and women on your existence have handled you favor crap doesn't suggest that you're. You deserve as so much love and admire as the following man or woman. Don't accept lower than the high-quality. LOVE YOU!!? ?????

Answer 5

If she loves you but as a friend then that's your answer... I say go ahead and tell her your feelings so at least it's open for discussion later. Besides it's been 3 years maybe she's looking for someone to put themselves out on the line for her for once.

Answer 6

I say go with your heart. If you really care that deeply for her, let her know. If she doesn't feel the same way, at least you will still have her in your life even if it is only as a friend.

Answer 7

i did not read the whole thing but tell her either way before it is too late.!!!!!1i did a mistake like this and now my best friend is going to get married with the guy i feel in love with

Answer 8

You should tell her. She really is important to you so tell her I am sure she feels the same maybe not as much but if you show her how you really feel about her then anything is possible.

Answer 9

I'd say go for it, but be careful. She might think of you as a really good friend? But if you get along so well, maybe she sees you as more too!

Good luck, hope it turns out well,

Karen

Answer 10

OBVIOUSLY YOU SHOULD TELL HER!

I think you'd make her happier if you told her that! And then you can take your relationship to the next level.



But try not to change your life for her... she'll like you for you, you don't have to try to impress her all the time.





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Answer 11

I think you should tell her...but dont do it all at once...show her how much you love her little by little...things you know she will love you know...dont just pounce on her with how much you love her :)

wish you all the best :)

Answer 12

deff tell her... if she talks to you like that she really cares about you.. im in the same situation and my best friend i are in that stage were we dont know what to do about it but tell her how you feel and see where it goes

Answer 13

U only live once go ahead

She seems like she'd love it

Answer 14

get one of your friends who knows her to copy what you just wrote and send it to her but make it seem like you dont know that way if she doesnt wanna say anything about it and if she does she can

Answer 15

i think you should express your feelings:)

i LOVE when a guy says i love you. it gives me butterflies:D



you should deffffffffffffffinately tell her

Answer 16

you should definitely tell her how you feel. if she doesnt feel the same she will tell you and it may hurt but at least you will know.