dating older man. what is people opinion on that subject?

Question

I love dating older men there experience in life, love and everything else. What do other people think of dating an older man?

Answer 1

Aaron, there is always a reason a woman or girl, doesn't mention those things. In this case, as in most, it's a high school issue ... every high school girl who gets attention from an older man, see's this as true love, for life, it's never about sex with girl much younger and although it may be the first older guy to give her attention you hear the same remark " i like dating older men." It's just to bad women have such little interest in studies, save them a dam lot of heartache, right from the mouthes of men themselves, who use these foolish girls at will. Statistics are scarily accurate, the reason we keep and do them is that they predict the future almost perfectly, they show where and how societies change and we keep statistics on everything, older men may date or use younger women ... but marrying them is at an all time low and even those marriages don't work out long term.

Answer 2

Without playing games, don’t be available 100% of the time or let your life be an open book. A man that comes on too strong or doesn’t have outside interests will scare a woman away just as much as it would if the circumstances were reversed. Read here https://tr.im/MoBrp



Women don’t want to feel as though they are completely responsible for your happiness and that is what it feels like when the other person has no outside interests. Men who are overeager or jump when the woman says jump are the ones who are more likely to end up in the friend zone. This doesn’t mean that you should play the game of not calling for a few days; it means that you should set healthy boundaries until you both naturally find a spot for the other in your lives.

Answer 3

Although, it's true that older men are more experienced with life and love, it doesn't always mean that they will treat you right. As with any man or woman, the relationship could range from dismal and abusive to fulfilling and loving. Another thing you might want to look at is the age. If you are 21 and he is 31, your life priorities might not be the same and that might cause a clash. But, if you are 28 and he is 38, you two might click well, despite the age same difference. So, quite contrary to common opinion, the ages of the involved people matter more than the age difference.

Also, you might want to be sure whether or not you are dating them for the money or for the stability and level-headedness they bring into a relationship.

Answer 4

As long as the relationship isn't abusive, I believe ages can just add more depth to a relationship. Maybe dating an older man will teach you that they're less magically intelligent and charming than you thought and such. In any case, every relationship is an opportunity to learn something, and that's all that matters. You'll probably break up, but you leave having learned something about yourself or the world.

Answer 5

Dating an older man surely has many positive sides, since first and most important he is much more experienced from life, rather than a young boy. And secondly if you are interested in a serious relationship, a younger boy will only look at you for sex, instead an older man will consider many other aspects that a life has other than only sex.

Answer 6

I'm happily married to a man 28 years older than me. We're in love and that's all that matters. People are so brainwashed these days though that they instantly start thinking there's something wrong with it, or we're together for wrong reasons.. It's BS.. if two people are in love and want to be together, they should be :)

Answer 7

There is nothing wrong with that. If you want to be with an older man, its pretty normal. Older men have experienced many things in their lives, they have seen a lot of things through their eyes and are not like children. They are able to love women like other younger boys do. They can be the best partners, because they dont want to play and just to have fun, they look for a serious relationship. In my opinion, you can learn quite a few things from older men, they can be your friends and good partners, at the same time. They are intelligent, they have already found themselves in their lives, where they wanna be, what they wanna do, what they enjoy doing and are ready to form a very serious relationship If they fall for someone and I think that being right beside an older man, of course, If you truly love that person, and want to be with him for the rest of your life, you should go for it, just stick at it and you`ll get there.Its your life honey and you have to make a decision, you have to make a choice, of course you must consider the advices that are given to you by your family members and your close friends, because they only want all the best for you and they may help you, when you find it difficult to decide something. You must be with the man who you are in love with, you must consider and think over before taking a serious step in your life, you know that every now and then, some people say that being with an older man is not normal, but they are wrong, because it doesn`t make a huge difference when it comes to love, there`s no a problem like,, and the age''? If you love, you love it completely and thats all, of course, through my view-point, the only one thing you may think about is the age difference, and how about other things, there`s nothing wrong with that. You should be with someone who you respect and love. I think this is pretty normal. Always be careful before making decisions, and listen to your heart, dont get me wrong, but If you wanna be with older men, just to have fun, you must do what you think is right. I have told you about true love and feelings. Wish you the best of luck honey

Answer 8

U dont hv to worry about people opinion, think about what u feel. But i hv advice for u. make sure u both know what u want and your plan.



I was in a relationship with a guy 7 years older than me. It was perfect at the beginning but it turned into a problem because of the age gap. He was focusing to hv his own child and he thinks I'm still fooling around when I'm already serious about him. The reason for that is because I'm still young and he's older. after that things are not the same anymore because he always think I'm young and I still want to hv fun.

Answer 9

I think to each his/her own. Be with whoever is going to make you happy and in return you make happy. Now with that said for my own personal relationships I have a cut off age or about 13-15 years. This is for one very simple reason, if you are old enough to be my parent I just can't do the relationship thing. It's a mental block I have. Now this last point is just an observation and not a one size fits all response. People who are in different life stages are often faced with obstacles that may not face a more closely aged couple. For example lets say she is 56 and he is 32, so a 24 age gap, he wants kids she can't have kids. Yes I know there are ways to overcome this kind of situation, but my point is that often this difference in life stages leads to wanting different things and the eventual unhappiness/parting of ways.

Answer 10

Age doesn't matter. You can fall in love whenever you want (or even when don't expect it!). Basically, the age doesn't make the weather. It's just a convention. We're free people in modern world. Open and globilized. Age? Are you kidding me? A guy in his early 40s was so rude and stupid to me today in a cafe that I lost my speach for an instant. And you talk about age. If he's an idiot - he can never grow up of it. Person is the main point. Many meet in 50 in the Internet in http://kovla.com Many young people cannot find a proper person, we should just search better. Good luck!

Answer 11

I love older men! I think it's partly because, when i was 18 i took a job as a secretary at a car dealership with a lot of older men salesman, and i really found myself attracted to them. I was dating a guy in college at the time on and off and he was really treating me bad. Anyways when i saw how mature and polite older men can be, it really got my attention. I have never dated one yet, but i hope to find a guy maybe late 50's. Im 24 btw.

Answer 12

older men are no big deal. Keep the old men but also try the ones that are close to your age. Remember, sex and life are not same. Sex is part of life. you dont want to hangout with someone who wont run with you or hike with you or spend life with you. You dont even know how great it is to have sex with a young dude. I have 5-6 times sex a day with my gf and i am 24 and she is 23. We both have a lot of energy.



Remember, if you have daddy issue, dont stretch it. Your dad may have saved your life several times but your dad is not your partner. Even though your dad understands you more than any other dude but he cannot be your sexual fantasy. Same goes for old men. Try young dudes, you will love it. Be active, dont be a couch potato. Be active, go for travel and swim in the ocean.

Answer 13

George Clooney is hot

Fck the age difference

If he's hot (or you love him) why should anyone cares? Why should you care?

Now, get out of here and go have a good sex with him until he dies of a heart attack

(take a look she's talking about dating and not spending the rest of her life with a older men, but in my opinion dating or spending the rest of your life with older mens is quite ok)

Answer 14

depends is he 5 years older? 10 years older? 30 years older? if its up to 5 years is fine 10 years depends i mean if your 16 and date a 26 y/o its pretty suspicious :D but if your 26 date a 36 its fine 20+ years older i dont know about that but its your choice :D

Answer 15

I go for the slightly older ones because they are more mature, and as they are older they can look slightly sexier and more manly. However, not when a huge age gap is noticeable because you want to look cute together too. I tend to say try out a relationship and if it doesn't work, at least you have had a go.

Answer 16

I have dated 2 men who were both 20 years older than me. It takes men longer to mature than women so it is natural to like older men because they have the same mentality as you. Age is just a number. As long as it isn't for the money or security and is for love then there is nothing wrong with it. Live your life honey bun and stop caring too much what the world thinks is socially acceptable.

Answer 17

For me It's o.k to date an older man as long as the older man I am dating with is matured enough.

He doesn't talk like a child, act like a child, think like a child and wants attention like a child.

Answer 18

Dating if for enjoying some fine time away from otherwise boring ordinary routine life, I suggest to date with a matured and elderly man. It will definitely a thrill and u will like to prolong as long as possible. Elder man entertains u in a better ways that too as per your needs. Evem his touching you will take u to joy and your touching him will be more pleasure for u and indeed thrilling. Of course the person should be known to you and smart looking and good manners. Even married women can enjoy such thrilling moments in life often.

Answer 19

When I was 19 I dated a guy that was 32. It was incredible. I say, do what your heart tells you so long is it is legal. :) And have fun. But be prepared. A lot of times guys go out with women much younger than them because they only want to have fun. So, be open about your expectations and don't take any crap. If you want something serious and he just wants fun you have a right to say no and vice versa.

Answer 20

I tend to date older men, too. Older doesn't always mean mature/faithful though. Just saying.

Do what you like.

Answer 21

too me I think it isn't a big deal because they know some stuff that I wouldn't probably know. but any way I was 18 and dating a 24 year old I like guys who are about 6 years older that is not a problem too me.

Answer 22

Lots of young women are dating older guys. They don't want the drama and immaturity guys thier own age bring to a relationship. As long as you're comfortable dating older guys, go for it, but try to stay within 10 yhears qage gap unless you're more mature and match up well in maturity levels with them.

Answer 23

Age difference is not a big thing.



But, there are some young women who date men who are over seven years older and the men end up harming the lives of the ladies even more than younger men.



Just be careful..

Answer 24

My daughter's ( who is 28 years old mother of two ) father remarried recently less then a year after the death of his wife of 19 years ( they have a 17 year old daughter ) the new wife is 22 years old ( he is 44 years old ) and he and his deceased wife were her youth group teachers in church ( he is also a Deacon in this church). Come to find out she is now pregnant as well. My daughter refuses to speak to him and has told him to his face that he is a pervert and wants nothing to do with him. She will not let him see her sons either. I personally think its more slimy that he and the other wife were her youth group leaders when she was a child/teenager and that their 17 year old daughter was her friend and their nephew had dated the young lady as well. I think this "church" is a bit odd as they and the parents of this girl support this. So as for your question I guess for me it depends on the situation and the people. The age thing may not be the worst part of it lol.

Answer 25

Dating older men is just a age to me . I thank u love that person then u should be with that person who u love and don't worry bout what people thank about it bc its what u want in your life.

Answer 26

Well as an older man, it's encouraging to hear that! I'm 40 and love dating younger women but naturally most younger women are only interested in dating young men.

Answer 27

Nothing wrong with it, as long as the older man isn't married and you're not under age. If he is and you are, both you and he don't have much scruples.

Answer 28

Bad idea if:

They take Viagra so the can pee on the front of their shoes..

If having sex is like putting a raw oyster in a slot machine.

Only income source is social security.

Disregard all of the above if he has no wife of ever had children worth millions and you always *** first!.

Answer 29

The biggest age gap I've had was 16 years. This guy didn't act 16 years older. He was very down to earth and real, and I loved him. I still love him, but we did break up due to personal reasons, which weren't related to his age. We remain friends though

Answer 30

As a much older married male who has enjoyed the company of more than a few 20 somethings I think it is fantastic.

Answer 31

It would be good if you date with a older man like Edward Cullen from "The Twilight Saga" movie. Just joking :)

Answer 32

I think some girls find it better to go for a guy who is older. I have two female friends with whom I sometimes go for lunch with but don't date. They are both mid 20s and I find they enjoy my company and as they know I'm older and hopefully wiser they turn to me if they need advice on various things. They even discuss sexual matters with me without feeling uneasy. When I was in my 30s I dated a couple of much younger girls, one was 14years younger and the other was 12 years younger and they were both great relationships. Follow your instincts and try it.

Answer 33

Though frowned upon in the public setting, I am also one of these women who like to date older men! I happen to enjoy their warmish withered members. Also, they submit easily in the bedroom!

Answer 34

As an older man , I myself love hearing that. I personally think that nothing is wrong with it as long as he treats you with love and respect.

Wish I was close to you .

Answer 35

It does depend on how much older we are talking. First of all we have to be rational, as if you are really serious about a person, remember they will only get older quicker than you. But if your heart is satisfied then I suppose nothing else really matters

Answer 36

I'm an older man and I am all for it. Just be careful and watch out for the deceitful any lying ones.

Answer 37

If You Both Love And Respect Each Other Then Age Is Regardless... Love Is Love!! :) xx

Answer 38

Yassssss , date older men . I like that too. I'm with one now like .. What ever makes you happy should be the thing its for you and not what other people think. You see Beyonce and jay z. And how Mariah And nick cannon went out and r Kelly and aailyah went out. Your fine trust me.

Answer 39

As an older man, I support your preferance.

Answer 40

it's the norm for women to date older men

Answer 41

Depends on how much older, if he's old enough to be your daddy i would say no but who cares...

Answer 42

Well if all of you younger women love dating older men then why am I still single? lol

Answer 43

It's not something I would be interested in. You will certainly be judged by society.

Answer 44

If so many girls date older men but rarely an older women date younger guys, this means the age becomes important.. I don't understand why people say the age is just a number, the age is not important etc... if this applies in most cases only when the woman is younger than the man.

Personally, I think the psychological maturity doesn't depend on the person's gender, it depends on the experiences and the life style and other factors, but not the gender...

Answer 45

I see nothing wrong about it--well, unless it is like a 20 year old with a 40-50 year old, then yeah that is clearly not okay in my book. I can see why dating older men, like someone 10-15 years older, for multiple reasons: maturity; financially supports self; career; family orientated; wanting to settle down, both, marriage and/or children.

Answer 46

There is no way I would date an older man.. An older woman? Possibly, but I'd much rather date a younger woman who's looking for an older man (appointment not necessary).

Answer 47

love is love

Answer 48

My man is 50. I'm 28, and we started dating when I was 23 (you do the math). I love him so much and he is so good to me.

Answer 49

As long as you two are happy then it should be no ones business

Answer 50

Well I am 18 and I am dating a 53 year old guy. He is great and very kind and understanding. He is great in bed, but sex is not why I love him. I love him because he is caring and a very intelligent man. We have many great discussions and he is the most caring person I know. He is not just caring for me, but he is very caring to others as well. He has a high flying job and is highly educated. He gives a lot of money to charities, which I think sums him up, he is very selfless. We are madly in love with each other. I think that dating an older guy is fine as long as he genuinely treats his girl well and is genuinely in love with her. I couldn't of wished for a better partner than my man. My parents love him as well, because he is so kind and interesting. We both love each other and the age difference is just a number.

Answer 51

It's good, I would date you.

Answer 52

you have your whole life to date old fellas, you should get some young meat while you can, cause all those old dudes will still be there in a few years but you might be to old for them then.

Answer 53

If it's legal, WHO CARES what anyone else thinks! In my humble opinion, if the two people are happy and the marriage is consensual and both truly want to be in it and are of legal age, then it is what it is.

Answer 54

I've often thought that if two people both have a mutual attraction to each other then age is somewhat irrelevent. Or perhaps it should be.

Answer 55

I personally think it is great. They usually treat you better, and they are experienced. You can earn a lot from them, and I think it is good. They know what they want, and they know how to wine and dine you, and everything else. Good Luck

Answer 56

i feel it's to each and their own* whatever makes YOU Happy*...an older man doesn't usually play games like the younger ones do*..by this age, they know what they want/like*..but my opinion, is to each and their own* :)

Answer 57

hey as long as your over 18 then your fine

Answer 58

I'm 26...My so called boyfriend is 59. go figure. Take a look at my current question. enjoy it and realize...

Answer 59

you didn't mention your age or how much older the men are

Answer 60

If you love doing it, it doesn't matter what other people think.

Answer 61

if you are 15 and he is 84 then . . . . you will be very happy together.

Answer 62

who cares?! it's your life

Answer 63

date who ever you want.

Answer 64

i don't think age matters and honestly i think older men are hotter than people my age ;)

Answer 65

I am a old man (58) and I am all for it.

Answer 66

It doesn't matter.

Answer 67

depends how much older?

Answer 68

too find a sugar daddy hons$$$$$

Answer 69

Just follow your heart no one can tell you otherwise!

Answer 70

if its true love then , no limit for age. but if it is infactuation then i would say it is on funny side.

Answer 71

think it depends on the age difference between you both

Answer 72

Good for you? Is sex the challenge?

Answer 73

depends on how old the guy is

Answer 74

better experience,

Answer 75

nothing is wrong with this

Answer 76

be cautious

Answer 77

inbox me

Answer 78

creepy- dont do it