Who agrees with me on this one?

Question

People who get heartbroken feel very insecure and bitter. Then they start thinking they don't want to take relationships seriously and start dating around and break hearts. And they end up being what they call 'players'. Not all heartbroken people do this. But these players are people who are insecure and feel the need of constant feed of affection. Hm.. Do you agree with me? =D

Answer 1

No. I've been heartbroken--I think we all have or almost all have.



I think "players" were that way to begin with--it's an attitude or personality many guys seem to be born with (as opposed to being caused by bad or broken relationships).

Answer 2

Between your opinion and another poster's, half are assholes and half are insecure. Which is completely untrue and anyone can see that. Some guys are assholes, some are insecure, and some are the kind that can attract a girl but can't make it work out in the long term, some are the kind that would be good for the long term but can't attract a girl, some are those blessed beings from heaven, some are strait outta hell, and some are just regular guys..... ect. There are lots and lots of categories for people. Players are not about breaking hearts as soooo many girls tend to believe; they are about bettering themselves and becoming more confident in themselves to be able to seek out girls, and almost all the time the girls they find become their girlfriends, its just that the asshole players stand out more. So that's what girls see.

Answer 3

A definite no, we get heartbroken, but the purpose isn't to spread the heartbroken feeling, but to find the true relationship. They date around due to the fact that they are trying to find someone. Guys are called players because they have game and they get a reputation for that and I will agree that they are usually insecure and need that attention. However, relationships are like a romantic comedy, we do get heartbroken, but there are always highs and lows...

Answer 4

i have to agree in a way, i have been threw this alot. I am insecure and don't trust men. I haven't had a boyfriend in six years. I just didn't want to get in a relationship,because i don't want to get hurt. But when i deal with different guys, without being in a relationship. I still get hurt. So, i still have issues. But everyone is not like that. Most people are and some just keep trying until they find the right one who won't break their hearts.

Answer 5

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Answer 6

that's not necessarily true. although some people who have had their heart broken may result in what some may call "players", all "players" are not people who have had their heart broken. some of these people are simply imitating what they may have seen while growing up. some of them simply are not at a point in their life where they want to commit to a relationship, they may prefer casual dating (sometimes this may involve sex). you also have to consider the idea that the other person may have been taking things too fast. so i do agree that some heartbroken people to result in them numbing theirs hearts in an attempt not to have their hearts broken again, but i don't believe that that's how all "players" come to be.

Answer 7

Don't buy that crap. Women invent these things to make themselves feel better about getting dumped. They try to justify a man's infidelity. Players act out like this because they like vagina and think more of themselves than the women they lay. They are narcissists. If they truly felt insecure then it would be difficult for them to cheat because women tend to prefer a man with confidence. So it's not insecurity.

Answer 8

i personally was in that position last summer.. i got my heart broken twice in a row. after that i was like screw this and started dating for a week or two and then i broke up with them before they could break up with me.. it gave me a feeling of power. i couldn't help it after a while no one was into my little games.. i started thinking positive and i am now in a relationship of 7 months.. i mean i agree. but don't be to tuff on people like this.. but just think how you would feel in there position

Answer 9

theoretically, yes. but some players are just people who were born jerks...nothing traumatic happened to make them that way.

but yes, some people never recover from being wrongly cheated and deal those same cards to the people they try to have a relationship thereafter

Answer 10

I think you are influenced by the movies you watch. Players are simply people with bad characters and kinda psychological defect that leads to enjoy others' pain and suffering.

Answer 11

Because of True love people change, for better or worst. If he or she changed for better that's good, it's a happily ever after story. But if he or she changed for worst, will they can fix it back, only with love. I think love is the answer and the cure to every thing.

Answer 12

I don't know. I would have to say no. I haven't personally met a lot of players.

Answer 13

I agree completely. I was one of em. I know, what I did was wrong though.

Answer 14

about 50% of them YES!

Answer 15

Not for me. Yes for some.

Answer 16

actually yes. thats true half the time. the other half are assholes though

Answer 17

i agree... i actually AM one of those people...

Answer 18

never been in love.

Answer 19

no i dont agree

Answer 20

for sure