I'm so in love with this boy, but he treats me like i'm nothing?

Question

Ok so i'm 17 years old, and i've had this thing with this boy named tim for about 3 years, i took his virginity a few days ago, and saw him the next day and he texted me and told me to "quit fuckin stalking him" so now i think he hates me, but for some reason he only acts like that in front of his friends.. I mean I love him so much, and he acts like he likes me to sometimes, just not in front of his friends, i get depressed when I think about him, and he likes ugly girls to which i don't understand... and everyone says i'm pretty cute-[not to be cocky or anything] but i just dont understand... can anyone help me on what I should do?

Answer 1

Dear Taylor Kuykendall,



Tim doesn't sound like he is manning up to be your boyfriend. You should tell Tim how you feel and if he doesn't like it i think that you should leave him. As much as you may love Tim it could be the best thing to do for you to do as there is someone who loves you and cares about you out there who will treat you with the love, respect and loyalty that you deserve. You should never blame yourself for what has happened between the two of you. Someone who likes you should not treat you like you are the one in the wrong when you have done nothing wrong.



Hope i have helped,



Meekz :)

Answer 2

He treats you like sh-t because you let him. However I bet if you ignor'd him altogether he'd want you all of a sudden... Stop wasting your time on him. I think it's a classic case of guy gets what he wants (meaning the sex), therefore guy can now ignore girl. So if that's the case, f-ck him because if you really look'd at the situation without love struck glasses you'd see he's really not worth it.



But it's a lesson learn'd, love. Don't give so much of yourself to someone who hasn't given anything to you. Meaning, don't have sex or put yourself in such situations until that guy has prov'd his worth to you. && this can be avoid'd in the future.

Answer 3

all girls are beautiful except bitches. You need to move on!

Answer 4

he doesnt really care about you, and he just used you for sex. sorry.