Do you think there mite be something to this?and ppl say guys are easy to read?

Question

There's this guy,we're both friends.Once we had a chat over on MSN. He had sent me a link to a website (it was a link to our university blog page),expecting me to open the link and read it. And so i asked him before clicking on the link : what's it about? this is what his reply was : you could trick youself by thinking that it's me confessing my feelings to you
via the world wide web! OMG!! whyyyy did he just had to say that??is he trying to indicate something to me??=p And then,we were talking about random stuff online..like some childhood movie he used to like..so,i asked him like heyy,why are we talking about this again?=p and he answered back by saying ; because we've reached the level of friendship where we can talk about anything:)

Then,we crossed paths today,we were both walking, He said hey and i said hey back :) then,all of a sudden he brushed his shoulder lightly against mine on purpose, and had a smile on his face as continued walking past me. I couldnt help but smile too:P

Once..we were talking on the phone about some stuff and i told him ill call him back cause i had to end the conversation as i was busy. Then,i did not call him back. He called me back at 12.30 am! asking me why didnt i call him back?:P

Then, he replied to my facebook status yesterday saying : You never fail to amuse me.
Then,his fb status was : my heart aches. and i commented back and he says that its all my fault that his heart is aching :O

There was once me and my friend was having lunch..he came over to join us and ordered the same food as me!:P my friend asked him though why he did that..and his reply was she's so attractive,i want to follow her:)

When im with him sometimes,or when we both are with friends..he doesnt talk that much.silent but he looks at me..and its intense sometimes and i will look away:P and sometimes he ignores me when he's with other people.like when im sitting in a table with my friends,he does not come and talk and prefers to ignore me.im confused.

He has asked me out for dinner a few times..with my close girlfriend as well.But,there always seems to be obstacles and im usually not free.the other day he asked if we could hang out.He asked my friend as well.then i said i could not make it.

He saw me before the exam(we both had exams that day) he just looked at me, and walked past me without saying a word.The next day,he called and asked me if i wanted to go out for lunch?He did not ask my friend this time though,just me.I told him i couldnt go.

Then now,it seems like he's trying to avoid me or something? it just seems like he's finding it difficult to face me.He talks to my friend but not me,he doesnt even look at me.but,according to my friend,he does look at me sometimes and has that smile on his face.

Then,just yesterday, i was standing and talking to my friends,he walked past me,didnt say a word but poked me on my shoulder?!?

Its like we talk on msn,but sometimes when we see each other,he doesnt say a word to me!
so,what do u guys think?What is going on?:)

Answer 1

I think that he thinks you're giving him the cold shoulder. In his mind, he's probably saying, "You know I like you, so why do you act so ignorant at my advances?



He's confused - angry and depressed all at the same time because he doesn't know where he stands with you. He's silent probably to keep from talking about how much he adores you over and over and over again. He only acts like he's ignoring you to keep himself from going crazy for not knowing the right thing to say to you whenever you two meet. It's a million times easier to talk to your crush on the over the internet or on the phone because you're not intimidated my their presence and it gives you a chance to think about what you're gonna say before you say it without there being a long period of silence as it would be in person.You make him a some kind of speechless.



He's angry because it was clear that he liked you from that link he wanted you to open, but you're asking yourself why did he say that. Honestly, that was a stupid question. He just told you that he could be confessing his feelings toward you via the world wide web, and you ask why did he say that?!?!?!?! BECAUSE HE WANTS TO BE WITH YOU!!! How obvious did he need to be? YES he's trying to indicate something to you.



Judging from your post, you don't like this dude at all, but you like the attention so you smile and flirt leading him on making him think that he's in there when he's far from even getting a hug from you. You should let him know whether you like him or whether you don't, and is a relationship possible between the two of you - will it happen? That's what he's wanting to know. Sorry for being so blunt, I wasn't trying to be rude.

Answer 2

i think of if he particularly needs 2 make palns with u each or purely approximately each weekend, then u could take administration and ask him out. additionally if he talks to u alot doesnt consistently recommend that he likes u. I refer to this woman alot that i loathe and he or she thinks i like her yet i surely purely desire 2 b acquaintances

Answer 3

He probably feels rejected because you always say no when he asks you out !