I'm competing against the girl I love, should I win or lose?

Question

At our school we are having a competition to see who which individual would represent our school at the Science Olympics and currently the only contestants remaining are me and Abbie. I love her and I'm planning on asking her out to a date but she has no idea that I'm interested. Also, this means an incredible amount to her and she has been studying non-stop since September on this subject. Should I win or lose??

Answer 1

Do your best, don't just let her win. =/ This will affect your future..what if you let her win, then she rejects you? Then you'd feel bad..not only because you were rejected, but because you let her win and you wanted it just as much as her.

Answer 2

Try to win. Girls will come and go, and no offense, but high school relationships rarely last too long anyways. This is an amazing opportunity for you and it's too good to pass up. Also, if she later finds out that you let her win, it will mean less to her and she will probably get pissed. Try your best, and if you win or lose, wait a few days after the competition to ask her out.

Answer 3

You should try to win. First of all, what if she is not at all interested in you? Then your crazy reason for losing on purpose was all a waste of your own potential. You've earned this just as much as she has, and you both should try your best. If you don't understand that you are clearly too immature to be even thinking about dating anyone.

Answer 4

Try to win if it mean a lot to you. But if you lose tell her you threw the compitition cause you have feelings for her. That way you tried your best and you impress her by showing you care about her. If you win then tell her your sorry but You do have feelings for her and she might accept them. Good Luck

Answer 5

You should do your best, it's not your job to decide who wins or loses.

Answer 6

If you really care for her, I suggest you lose. If she loses, she might feel really bitter and not want to be around you. So if you're willing to make that sacrifice for her, I think you should do it.

Answer 7

Win or loose, it doesn't matter. It will make up once you ask her out. :)