Should I add her on Facebook?

Question

Sigh……OK So there’s this girl that I like and I want to add her on facebook. The semester just ended (well not really, but I already took my final for that particular class) and I go to a college with roughly 24,000 students. So the chances of me running into her randomly are slim to none. And the class I had with her wasn’t related to my major, so it’s not likely that I’ll ever have a class with her again.

Unfortunately it was a once a week class and it was structured in a way that half of the class would meet at a certain time and the other half of the class would meet at another. So out of the whole 4 month semester I’ve probably only had class with this girl about six times.

Thing is, I know 100% that she likes me (you know, whenever we do have class together we trade glanced a lot etc.) There are even more obvious instances of this that I could write abut but I don’t want to make this too long…..well, basically I ran into her twice outside of campus it was fairly evident that she would have been open to me approaching her, but I wasn’t in a position to do so (working on a project with group members and would’ve been rude to leave just for that).

Anyhoo…I overheard the teacher asking her name (100+ people in the class) and I remembered it found her facebook. I’ve been looking at similar Yahoo questions like this and there seems to be a double standard. If it’s a girl who wants to add a guy she likes most say “go for it” but if it’s a guy trying to do the same most say “don’t do it” and “You may come off as a creep”, like I said I Know she’s interested in me.

So……Should I add her and see where it goes from there?

Answer 1

Based on what your saying about your connection with her... you should absolutely add her on FB. It will not come off as creepy because you seem to have a connection with her... she will like that you took initiative. FB will give you both an opportunity to get to know each other in a different way... as long as you don't have or say crazy or things that offend a lot of people on your FB page you should be okay.



FYI: A woman generally only thinks a guy is creepy if she is not attracted or interested in him. Two guys could take the exact same approach to get a woman's attention... if she's really turned off by one of the guys... then he's creepy... if she thinks one of the guys is really hot... then she's all for it.

Answer 2

Yeah

Answer 3

Yeah, deffinitely request her. Maybe with a little message like, "Hey, I'm so and so from your ____ class :) " . honestly, it's just facebook- what's the worst that could happen?

Answer 4

add her just talk to her explain how you know her (don't say you like her) say you thought she was a nice person or something, and if she thinks your a creep well at least you tried

Answer 5

of course! there's nothing wrong with a friend request! if she accepts it, then you can maybe just post on her wall saying, "aren't you glad _____class is over?!" or somethin simple and just friendly. if she doesn't accept, then you can guess she's not interested.

it's just a friend request, not an invitation to date

good luck!

Answer 6

there is more reasons for you to add her then there is not to so i say go for it, and even if there is more reasons not to still go for it who cares take a chance you only live once hesitate for long and she'll be gone forever.

Answer 7

I think it is okay.

You are both familiar with each other.

And hey if she does add you back, you will know how she feels.

Dont push it though.

Good luck.

Answer 8

Don't add her because she has never talked to you and told her your name...that would be creepy...lol and you DON'T know she likes you she has never even said it lol!!!

Don't...it'll be best. Just ask for her number.



what college do you go to?

Answer 9

as a college mate i dont think there is anything wrong with that

Answer 10

WTF?? Are you serious?? Add her. How old are you people on here? Seriously?!!