Ive been afraid to keep up my profile on a online dating site because I don't want anyone I know to see me. Also my ex knows tons of people and had a huge family. I'm afraid I will run into someone he knows.everytime I go out I end running into somebody my ex knows. I just don't want everyone to know my business but I'm so busy with work and my son I.don't have time to meet new people. Plus I was with my ex for 4 years and he was cheatin on me while.i was pregnant. Its nice to get a little ego boost.I feel l will never meet.anyone.because I'm so busy all the time.