Women, do you ask permission to go to the bathroom when on a date?

Question

Ladies, when you're on a date, and you have to go to the bathroom, do you ask your date for permission to go? Or do you go without asking permission? Or do you just 'hold it in' until you get home?

[I have dated several girls who, when we were on a date and they needed to use the ladies room, would ask me for permission to go to the bathroom. Do a lot of other women do this, or were those women just weird?]

Answer 1

Ask permission????? Are you nuts? No, you politely excuse yourself. Anyone that insecure that has to ask for permission to go to the bathroom is in need of some help!

Answer 2

I'm pretty sure that I would not ask permission. I'm sure I would say something like, "I'll be right back. I'm going to the bathroom." or something like that. If I was at a guy's house I would probably ask something like, "Where is your bathroom?" Or something like that. Either way I wouldn't read too much in to it. I'm sure whoever the girls were were just trying to be polite. I can't say that I have ever asked permission though.

Answer 3

I politely say "excuse me" and go to the bathroom. I don't ask permission for much on a date, I figure I'm old enough to make up my own mind.

Answer 4

No, just excuse myself. I've never heard of anyone asking permission to go take care of their business!! :P

Gosh what else would they ask permission for

Answer 5

LOL....ask permission, that's so funny.



I would excuse myself from the table, but that is certainly not the same as asking for permission.



Those women are a bit weird...sorry.

Answer 6

I make it more of a statement than a question. I dont phrase it like "Is it ok if I go to the ladies room?". If its said like "Im going to the ladies room, ok?" I dont take that as asking permission, but a consideration of letting you know where she is going so you dont think she is ditching you.

Answer 7

I'm not asking anyone's permission to go to the restroom. I will excuse myself and just go. Polite, but not subservient.

Answer 8

Jesus, I hope you're joking, it's one thing to excuse yourself for this need but another to ask this permission. Can I ask, where these dates mail order? With coupon?

Answer 9

No i just say : excuse me i need to go to the Ladies room , I'll be right back ! That's all

Answer 10

Do you mind if use the loo is not really a question, more like a stament that I need to go but, in a polite manner. We don't expect you to say "you do mind"...who would stop someone from going pee???



We're chicks some of us are a bit complicated.

Answer 11

I don't ask for permission because its not required, i just politely say "will you excuse me for a second, i have to use the restroom" and if he doesn't like it then tough on him cuz i'm going! ha. (When nature calls i must answer!!!)

Answer 12

No I dont ask permission I just say "hold on for five mins, brb" and if they dont like it too bad, lol I dont see guys saying "oh can I please go to the bathroom before my bladder busts?" lol how stupid...

Answer 13

I don't need anyone's permission for anything I'm grown

Answer 14

I don't ask for permission. I say I need to...or 'excuse me, I need to use the restroom'...

Answer 15

NO, I do not ask permission! Be right back is all you get.

Answer 16

I think you may be misinterpreting this. Are they saying, "May I use the restroom"? or is it something more like "will you excuse me while I go to the restroom'? Its just a courtesy thing, rather than just getting up and walking away.

Answer 17

I think women should ask for permission for a lot more, don't encourage them to do things w/o asking. C-Mon Man.

Answer 18

Yes and no...no if we're in a public place, ill simply excuse myself. If we're at his home and i've NEVER been there ill ask "may i use your restroom, where is it?" But once i know where it is ill never ask again...agian i'd simply excuse myself.

Answer 19

maybe your so hot that they feel unworthy of you.........and must ask your permission to go to the bathroom......the next time a chick asks your permission tell her no.........and see what she does.......if she holds it...........she's a keeper.

Answer 20

weirdo's. ive never asked permission to do anything. not even in a serious relationship.

Answer 21

I excuse and go . That is the easiest way . Just say ill brb .

Answer 22

permission to smoke

Answer 23

well i usually say " i need to go to the ladies room. ok, i'll be right back" and thats it, and it is not weird that we do that

Answer 24

most dates just want to be courteous and say oh i have to use the Lady's room

Answer 25

Weird. I just say "Excuse me for a minute. I'll be right back."

Answer 26

boyfriends often take on the masculine role in women's lives. That role was fulfilled previously by a father. Now do you get why we ask to go? We don't want you to feel uncomfortable sitting alone. Perhaps you needed to go too?



Thoughts

Answer 27

a polite woman will ask if she has to potty it is just the way we got taught if your on a date to ask but if a guy tells me no then i still go how polite is that. yes i have guys tell me no you cant go potty but they where usually joking

Answer 28

No, lol, you just tell your date that that's where you're going so they don't wonder where you're going.

Answer 29

I just say "EXCUSE ME BUT I HAVE TO GO TEE TEE" just kidding ! I would just say im going to powder my nose.

Answer 30

Um they are fricken weird, if I have to go I GO, or would you rather me pee in your car?

Answer 31

of course not you just tell your date that you have to go and leave well that at least hat i do

Answer 32

no i dont i go before i go on the date

Answer 33

No, that's ridiculous.

Answer 34

Weird girls............

Answer 35

yes and there is nothing wrong about that.

Answer 36

No.