Do you think my ex bf will ever take me back? I broke up with him a year ago and regret it deeply. Pls help!?

Question

I see my ex bf regularly and we talk/text all the time. I sent him this message this morning after he called me "Thanks for calling me back :) I've missed you the past few days." He replied, "You wanna come over tonight?" Does that sound like he wants me again?

Here's some history if it helps to answer my question (sorry that it's long, I really appreciate your help):

My ex (28) and I (24) broke up for the second time in June last year; I told him over the phone that I love him but can't marry him. After 3.5 years of dating, he had just put down a deposit on a wedding ring for me, even though he hadn't officially proposed as I had found a ring I liked and he offered to get it for me seeing we had an understanding that we would get married in the future. At the time of the break up, I was under a lot of pressure as a result of losing my job and I was feeling very impulsive, which led to my feeling a sense of urgency to break up with my ex as I no longer felt I had the energy to sustain it. There had also been strong family pressure against the relationship from day 1 given he has a different cultural background. We do, however, share the same faith. Things were pretty messy when we broke up. We had sex a few times and it was pretty confusing for both of us. He thought us having sex meant we were getting back together but I was feeling a little messed up and told him I didn't want that. I have no idea why I acted like that, I love him immensely. If he ever takes me back, I will never hurt him like that again.

Nowadays, my ex and I see each other several times a week; just as regularly as we did when we were dating. We do the same things, I spend a great deal of time at his family home and see his parents, brother and extended family on a regular basis. I helped him find a property to buy and I am always there for him. We talk pretty much every day. I still attend his family events, e.g. his great grandfather's funeral and wake yesterday. I'm not sure some of his family realise we are no longer an item, but do I blame them? On the surface it would appear we are still very much a couple.

I have asked my ex if he thinks we might get back together in the future and he says probably not. When I ask why, he says he doesn't want to be in a relationship, maybe not ever again. But I know that he has created an online dating profile since we broke up :/ He is not dating anyone at present. Also, when I tell him I still love him, he tells me he loves me as a friend.

Do you think he will ever want to get back with me? I am deeply in love with him, imagine a life with him, having his children etc. I know he wants children one day too.

Please tell me what I can do/say to try get him back! I know he still loves me, we hang out all the time. In fact, aside from his work friends, I am the only person he hangs out with outside of work. Do you think we have a chance of getting back together??

Do you think him replying "You wanna come over tonight?" to my text "Thanks for calling me back :) I've missed you the past few days" is a good sign that he might take me back?

Answer 1

the guy probably doesnt realise what he is missin...but if u love him that bad...just let go off ur ego...go tell him exactly what is in ur mind...give him a very clear nd true picture...Do this, nd if he still ignores u...

inbox me...i can help..

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Put yourself out of your misery and just ask him!!! Tell him what a mistake you made and that you love him etc