do girls like to test on guys?

Question

I'm a nice person, and even people at school think that I am a innocent and nice person. But only one person is the exception. That person thinks I'm disgusting, ugly, and dumb!

She even said that I was the ugliest person in the world! Plus, I asked her about my guitar playing, and she was like "you're bad at that too; you're pretty much bad at everything."

Also, she said that if I go to jail, she thinks that I'm too ugly to get rape.



Lol, what is wrong with Elena? Is she testing me or what?



pictures of me:

http://i153.photobucket.com/albums/s221/drpatrick3/m_a2d4d82db341fe3c0b7d674cf24dda64.jpg

http://i153.photobucket.com/albums/s221/drpatrick3/face7.jpg

http://i153.photobucket.com/albums/s221/drpatrick3/l_f8e1a4e8d60ebfbb90815d819e952cdc.jpg


This is me playing guitar:

http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=BkT-S5-z668

http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=JJh8QOFYGI0

Answer 1

Girls test all the time, whether they realise it or not. They test because they want to separate the many losers they meet from the few good catches. They test to see if you are confident etc. If you pass these tests the girl will likely feel a growing attraction to you but if you fail she won't like you. Tests like these are one way men end up in the 'friend zone.' When she says 'you're bad everything etc' just respond as if it doesn't effect you at all. The easiest way is simply 'yeah' with a smile or you could say something like 'please you couldn't keep up with me lady' just make sure you're unaffected but whats she's saying that's what she's looking for. Hope this helps bro

Answer 2

Tested? Why use such harsh terms... No, we hang out with the guy to see if he's someone that the relationship can last with. If not, they move on. Not a test, really.

Answer 3

Maybe she is being mean because she secretly likes you. That or she's a b*tch and I wouldn't worry about one person thinks. If the general population thinks you are a genuinely nice and good guy then don't get yourself down over one girl.

Answer 4

Fact: Girls like to insult/compete with guys they like.



Hang in there, and maybe insult her back a few times. (Not too harsh though). You're probably on the path of something here.



Btw, you're cute.

Answer 5

wow!!! thats not nice....well im a girl and i wouldnt test a guy by insulting them.even if the guy is truly a nuthead. i would never call them that. thats harsh!to be frank with you...i dont think she is the right girl for you. get a girl who respects you for the way you are. im sure you will find a better girl than her =)

Answer 6

and no your not ugly at all

she might like you or something - or she is saying all that crap to make her feel better coz she got problems!



Your not the only one i get all that crap dished at me lol.



Yea your pretty good at the guitar.

Answer 7

wow lol

if you're being serious, i'd get some help from a therapist

Answer 8

she is an idiot...why are you still after her after what she said to you...girls are always like this..never respected a nice guy!

Answer 9

Its cuz she likes you your hot and can play guitar aks her out :)

Answer 10

She sounds pissed off about something only you would know.

Answer 11

She likes you foo!

Answer 12

hahahahh!! wow thats hilarious!!!!!!!!



that chick is wackkk!!

Answer 13

pimp slap her and show her who is boss

Answer 14

She sounds like a B*tch. Why you would keep her around idk. I would ignore her and move on with my life.