i might just be confused?

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Please answer this question please am i bi or confused?
I just think that i am just confused because i never had a girl friend and i wanted one for like ever and i don't know because i don't have one i have these thoughts and **** that i might be bi or confused because i really want a girl friend should i just wait until i get a girl friend will that change make my mind right because i don't get it at all i wanted a girl forever know because i likedf girls so much and i am confused and **** because my aunt said i am confused because i never had a girl friend before and i want one so bad and now i think that guys are attractive because i think the only reason i think that they aRE BECAUSE I NEVER HAD A RELATIONSHIP WITH A GIRL AND I AM GOING TO THE OPPSITE DIRECTION ON LIKING GUYS AND ANOTHER THING YOU WILL READ IT WHEN YOU GO DOWN A LITTLE BIT FURTHER I HAVE SEX IN MY DREAMS ABOUT GIRLS ONLY NEVER EVER GUYS I THINK ABOUT ***** IN MY DREAMS SO I STILL LIKE GIRLS BECAUSE IF I WAS HAVING DREAMS ABOUT BOTH THEN I WOULD BE BI OR IF I WAS JUST HAVING SEX WITH A GUY IN MY DREAMS I WOULD BE GAY BUT I AM TELLING THE TRUTH I SWEAR ON MY MOMS LIFE AND EVERYBODY'S LIFE THAT I REALLY HAVING SEX WITH ONLY GIRLS IN MY DREAMS I JUST THINK THAT I AM CONFUSED BECAUSE I NEVER EVER HAD A GIRLFRIEND EVER IN MY LIFE YOU JUST TELL ME IF I AM OR NOT THANKS
Please answer this question please am i bi or confused? ok this is what i want you to rate me a 10 for confused or 1 for bi thanks
Does'nt dream means of what your thinking of so am a confused or not?
Am i bi or just confused only people that is'nt mean?

Answer 1

Hey Christopher, you got to stop ruminating about this. Distract yourself somehow. Go out and do something fun. You're starting to sound kind of panicked about this and you shouldn't be. You really don't have any good reason to think you're bisexual or gay. *But* if you keep on like this you might just make it difficult for yourself to find a good woman to be happy with. Get a relaxation tape or something. You might be surprised how many people out there want the best for you. Please stop obsessing about this.

Answer 2

You're deff confused. Look, relax, okay? Just breathe in and out. Now...if you find some guys attractive then you're not bi you could just find them attractive. I'm straight and I do that with girls too. If you look at a guy and decide you really want him...as in sex then maybe you should consider dating one. if you like how it goes then maybe you're bi, but if not then you're straight and into chick more. Confusing huh? Just try it. It's kinda easy, but worth the effort. And don't focus your life on getting a girlfriend. Girls can sense that kind of thing and get worried. So your interest is kind of a turn-off, but if you just relax and let life take care of it then there you go.

Answer 3

Look, if you find guys attractive, it's possible you're bisexual. If not, then you aren't.

Don't worry about it. Unlike being gay, being bisexual is a lot easier to hide if you feel uncomfortable.

If you don't know or feel scared, just do what you want to. If you want to be straight and you are attracted to girls, then everything is fine.

If you don't find girls sexually attractive, just as friends and stuff, then you could be gay. Don't freak out. There are probably people you trust or know will accept that, other than that don't tell anyone.

Just be careful who you talk to (your aunt might tell your mom for example) and don't feel the need to define yourself right away, because tastes are known to change especially in puberty, and putting a label on it won't actually affect how you feel.

Answer 4

Coming from a stright male I'd say that you're confused. Im going to take a wild guess that you're fairly young so it could just be the hormones. Dreams can be quite real so if girls are what youre dreaming of then Id say thats your answer. I like bonding with the guys but its just bonding. Sometimes me and my best mate sit and play the computer with our tops off (becuase the room gets too hot). Its not gay but its a line that can be crossed where you know its not gay but fun to have manly bonding.



An experiment - try looking for an attractive male in a catalogue and knocking one out, if you liked it then you could be bi, if at the moment of ejaculation you feel disgusted and ashamed of yourself then youre definately straight and im sure at that moment your confusion will be over. Id love to know if that works for you. I am a genius!

Answer 5

First off, sorry to say this but *** what your aunt thinks. Who knows you better than yourself? NO ONE. Your aunt doesn't go into your dreams to see you fuking girls. Now only you can answer that question of whether your bi or confused. I honestly think your confused.



People when you say your bi, and your family says your bi, and so your gonna believe that your bi, stop it with that thinking.



RE-THINK to yourself, I'm not bi, cuz if I was i'd be dreaming about men. And *** that ****, I LOVE titties. Time will come when I get my own girl.

Answer 6

lolz ur just CONFUSED and u got me confused when i was reading it first lolz no dont worry ur just confused...i mean im a girl and i think this girl is attractive but it donesnt mean im bi i mean by attractive is tat she is beatiful and no i dont want to have sex with a girl before never ever think of it and same here didnt have a bf yet but anyway u just need to ask urself if u want to have sex with a guy and if ur answer is yes tat mean ur gay but i think ur jsut confuse and dont worry i dont think their something wrong w/ gay ppl why dont u jsut try to be friend with girls in ur skool or somewhere and get urself a girlfriend ohhh another advice be friend with the girl first cuz their is a 75% a girl will say yes if u ask her out cuz girls mostly say yes to guys they know and doesnt want to go out w/ guys they dont even know!

Answer 7

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Answer 8

I think your confused necause you never been with a girl. If you dream about having sex with girls then that means you are atracted to them. 10

Answer 9

Your confused Not having a girl dosent make you bi neither does think a guy is attractive. Idk why You have never had a girl maybe your shy maybe girls dont like they way dress but dont go changing your sexual preference b/c ppl have stupid reasoning.

Answer 10

you might be a little confused, and since you're a guy, you're familiar with guys. but i think you tendencies are going toward girls since you want one really badly.

Answer 11

your in a phase...meaning you may think about boys but you definitely like girls...