men have been raping and kidnapping women since the beginning of time. in some tribal areas it is still the way to ahem, "pick" your bride.
there are men who are a holes, there are women who are a holes. some people are just selfish, it has nothing to do with genitals. and most, not all, but most men and women who treat others badly have been treated badly themselves.
and if you look at the negative names for women vs those for men, you will find far more derogatory names for women. feel lucky you were just called a pig. and there are many times men and/or women earn the name they are called.
most rape is conducted by men. period. men against women, men against men (mostly prison). so while there are women who rape men, statistically it is more like 1-3% of all total rapes. that is not an excuse or a pass, consent is to be respected by both sexes.
please remember too that women are sent mixed messages all the time, you are either a virgin or a whore - of course we like sex, just as much as men, but men are called studs and seen as supermen the more women they sleep with. not so for women. there are still many double standards that we just don't talk about in the US. how many army women have been raped and murdered in the past 2-3 years? by their supposed army comrades?
and don't you want a woman who likes sex? so the problem is not that women like sex, but that someone didn't want to have sex with you or cheated on you, huh?
either way, i'm sorry you have been so deeply hurt by women in the past, but please don't project that onto all women. i have been raped by a man, but realize all men are not rapists - see? process where these feelings are really coming from.
good luck, peace to you.
women in the past were repressed and considered property of their "men". they had to hide their true selves for fear of being judged by people like you.
men and women are equal, we are all humans. there is good and bad in both. pigs with breasts and pigs with dic*s - a little of both, yes. to make such sweeping generalizations is simply your reaction to your experiences, not the sum of woman.
good luck and i hope you find peace and a woman who can show you that not all women are abusive or users. just as many women are looking for the man who will not use them for sex or food.