Question:
Girls please help!!! I need to know what going on with her and I?
Max
2009-11-06 14:33:34 UTC
So I have been dating this girl for 3 weeks. We have gone on alot of dates and they have been amazing. Our situation is a bit complicated. She has been single for 3 months and was with this screw up for a year and half. Ive been single for 11 months and was in a 5 year relationship and was engaged.
The other day she e mails me that I am an amazing man that she really wants to get to know better and be with for the long run, but that she need time so she can see me again. Then yesterday we where going to meet for lunch but it got a little complicated so she said ill see you after work. I assumed she was going to go out with me. She calls me when shes downstairs and I was like what do you want to do tonight. She said I just came to see you for a sec and give a hug and kiss. I was sad because i really wanted to see her more, but she had an event to go to. Later that night I txt her sweet dreams she never responded. Then in the morning I txt GM , she said her phone died and that to have a great day xoxoxo. I txt back thanks for coming to see me last night it made my day. she responded Mua :)

I dont know why she says she wants to take it easy and see me next week. She came for a sec to give me a kiss. I just dont know If she really likes me or not. I just dont want to get hurt I really have fallen for her. She also said yesterday that she is happy to have me in her life

Also today I sent her a txt saying if she wants to get together tonight. She then e mails me MUA !!!. why didnt she respond to my question?
Six answers:
Texas_state_girl
2009-11-06 14:46:44 UTC
get out of it while you have the chance!
?
2009-11-06 22:41:39 UTC
sounds like really weird behavior.. you're not doing anything wrong. Maybe she thinks you're going to be the type who never gives her her own space ? But you seem like a really nice guy.. so, I don't know. Maybe just wait a while before going out on too many dates.. you've only been dating for 3 weeks.
mamaw2305
2009-11-06 22:42:50 UTC
You have only been dating for 3 wks.You are trying to rush things much too fast.Slow down --------She did come by to see you ,even if it was not long.Sounds like she may be interested but you may be scarring her off somewhat.Take your time to get to know each other better.Calling too much makes her wonder why the rush.
Irish Lassey Sammi
2009-11-06 23:04:21 UTC
it sounds ta me lyk she is reli in 2 u lyk wat girl shows up n a guyz door step just ta give em a hug n a kiss dats lyk totally smitten... i think ur readin 2 much in 2 it 2 b honest



nd she gave an answer 4 nt sayn nite er fone died!

nd she said shes appy ur n er life lyk dats awesome n unless shes a total ***** she wudnt say sumit she doznt mean.....



mayb she dint respond cuz shes buzi n doesnt wana blow ya off r shes waitn ta surprise ya



either way u shud b lucky ur wit sum1 lyk er shes lyk spontaneous and sounds sweet



enjoy dont question r ul turn in2 sum1 she wont lyk



gud luk nd many appy ;tyms ta ***
?
2009-11-06 22:50:21 UTC
just relax and let things fall naturally
i know best :)
2009-11-06 22:40:13 UTC
WOW... idk for sure but it sounds like shes using u.

good luck!


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