Question:
i need a guys and girls point of view about this little situation.?
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2007-06-16 12:37:59 UTC
okay i have been going out with my bf for almost 2 1/2 months. and like he keeps asking if i want f.kisses. and i say i don't know. he says he is not going to pressure me; but he keeps asking me everyday on the phone. do you want to f.k, have you thought about f.k, and crap like that.

like a part of me wants to but the other part is scarred. the part of me that is scarred is that will he break up with me if i don't do it right or if i really want to do that.

what should i do? cause i get mad at him because he keeps saying he will not press or does not care when we or how we do that; but he does.

so can you guys help me from my point of view and why he keeps asking from likea guys point of view?
Nine answers:
Cambell
2007-06-16 12:49:17 UTC
You are saying "f kisses" not sure what that is. Either way, you are being pressured to do something you aren't ready to do. Don't be a "give-in" type girl and get a back bone. Tell this guy your not ready and to stop asking about it. If he's a cool guy - he'll totally back off and feel like a retard for continually asking. If he wants the "f kiss" and not you? Well, then you'll see him throwing a little tantrum, acting like a jerk and threatening to break it off. What to do if you've got the baby throwing a tantrum part? Go hang out with people for you and not your f kiss. Got it?
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2016-05-17 14:15:23 UTC
First of all You need to stop repeating yourself... Listen a guy needs a break. Yes he's have feeling for other woman and trust me all guys do.. There are no perfect guy out there and there are no such thing as a Good Man. What you've gotten is a Real Man a man who want to make sure that he's making the right decision not just for himself but for the woman he's going to be with for his life time. So stop and think about what your trying to do you can't convince him to stay with you one way or the other he's going to make a choice and if' it's not with you the only thing you can do is support his choice and not make yourself into a weak woman. Definition of a week woman: Someone who only thinks of herself, been loud and can't support a man's decision.. etc. So I say give the man time, you're thoughts of been along is clouding your ability to think clearly and therefor you need to let your man have his space and time. One more thing, if he's thinking of other women it means that he's exploring his options and One thing I know is that man are never going to stay 100% faithful to any woman and like I always say No man is off limit married or not.
~♥ Easily Amused Dijinn ♥~
2007-06-16 13:30:56 UTC
You should never do anything you don't want to do, and if he is respecting that, he doesn't sound like much of a boyfriend. Sit down, and explain what you want, and why you don't want to do it. If he understands, he's a keeper. If he keeps pressuring you, is he really worth your time??



I understand your fears and he should too. If not, dump him...



That's my advice.
2007-06-16 12:43:45 UTC
A guy's point of view: He's trying to pressure you, and you should not let him. You don't sound ready, and that's perfectly fine. Just tell him no, and tell him to quit asking you.
2007-06-16 12:49:43 UTC
dont do it if youre not ready. if he really respects and likes/loves you he will acknowledge that and not pressure you into anything.

ive had exactly the same situation before, just try to ignore him when he says that stuff and if it really bugs you get really pissed at him and say no. "ill tell you when im ready."
2007-06-16 16:41:27 UTC
im a guy and i just wanted to tell u that most guys out there only want one thing (SEX). and most of the time when guys do get it ,, they just break up eventually.... so if i were u i would just break up OR tell him to give u more time until your really really ready.......because losing ur virginity is the only thing u've got..
sydneysmusic
2007-06-16 12:44:02 UTC
I think he just really loves you. And to show that you love him too, just give him a little peck on the cheek. Totally a harmless and sweet kiss.
2007-06-16 12:43:42 UTC
im a guy and if i was him id want you to kiss me but if i was a girl i know id want to wait till im ready.so its a hard situation,do u want him so much that you want to kiss him, otherwise just sit down with him and say i wanna wait,if he ses no i wanna kiss no-tell him no-were over,but if he ses ok youll probably like h im so much that you do kiss lol.hope it helps
#10♥Eli Manning....my hero☺
2007-06-16 12:51:01 UTC
try it. if he gets mad cuz ur not good, then hes not worth it. he has to like you for who you are and your....ahem.....f.kissing abilities.


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