Sugar Daddy dating question?

Question

Ok so I have started a profile on a sugar daddy dating site.
I had this guy messaging me and we ended up hitting it off really well, he is 34 I am 19.
We talked over texting, skype, and even the phone.
He said he was willing to give me money per month I was with him, around $5,000.
I dont have any money for college and I really liked that because It would help a ton. I also dont have a job.
So while we were talking the whole topic of sex got brought up, I told him he would have to wait a while before It happens and he said that was ok.
So one night I get a text from him saying that he would rather date me after he is don't having a sugarbaby.
So I tried to talk to him about it and he wouldn't respond, the next day I texted him and he acted like nothing changed and still wanted me.
So another night we were talking and he wanted me to send him naked pictures, i told him I didnt want to and he got mad and said I was a waist of time and told me not to contact him again.
I actually liked this guy a lot so instead of just forgetting about him the next day I sent him a naked picture of myself and we started talking again.
He told me he was going to get me all of these presents, and that I was so special and he was going to stop talking to other girls.
Well before I went to bed he asked if we could do stuff over skype, I told him no and ever since then he has been ignoring me.
So my question is what should I do?
Should I just try to forget about him?
Should I give in and do stuff with him over webcam?
Should I take revenge on him for wasting so much of my time and energy and if so how?

I dont really care to know your opinion on sd/sb relationships.
I just want advise.

Answer 1

Stop contact with him. Delete your profile. Pray that naked pic doesn't get put on the web. I understand that you liked him, but you have to understand that he just wants to abuse you. You deserve better than that. Don't send him anything anymore and stop all contact. Try meeting people for real. It's safer and it's better to meet someone face to face.

Answer 2

You signed up to a sugar daddy website. That means you have sex with a guy and get naked for him and he gives you money. That's the definition of sugar daddy.



You are not having sex with him and not sending him nude pics or getting naked on Skype. You are basically not doing what he wants and you're not doing your 'job' on the site.



1. You should forget about him. He wants sex and naked time with a young girl for money. You're not doing it so you are wasting his time.



2. You SHOULD do stuff over webcam with him because that's the point of that particular site. It's not a dating site, it's a sex-for-money site with older men and younger women.



3. He isn't wasting your time. You're wasting his. He expects somethign specific and you aren't understanding the point of the website.



Don't be on that site any more. End of story.



Good luck!

Answer 3

If you are still in the game, you should check out tumblrs of REAL SUGAR BABIES for advice.



1) You should NOT send men naked photos! EVER! Anyone who requests it is NOT looking for a sd/sb relationship, just a cheap hoe since they can't afford one.

2) If you do Skype, look nice, keep your clothes on, no sex, and ask him questions about what he expects from the relationship, prior experience, etc. Keep it professional. IF he starts talking too explicitly tell him once you receive your 1st allowance, things can progress naturally when you all start dating. REAL sugar daddies want to DATE YOU. Sex comes later. They want a relationship with no drama. Remember you are providing a luxury service. They need to pay for it first!

Answer 4

I don't have all that long left. I'd enjoy a young nubile, around to keep me company 'till the end. She could then have what ever I didn't get spent. The actuary tables give me less than 10 years, my ancestry gives me nearly 20. Any young ones like to be set for life? I'll bet there are a lot of 'em. We'd have fun too.

Answer 5

Doesn't the whole "I'll give you money and presents if you do stuff with me" thing sound bad to you? He effectively wanted you to be his personal hooker, which you refused.



Forget about him. Don't get revenge, he didn't technically do anything wrong.

Answer 6

so you expect him to give you $5k and WAIT for sex? you don't understand the concept. sugar daddy pays and you provide sex. not a future consideration of sex. quite frankly i would want to see if you were honest before i gave money. shouldn't be a problem with not "doing stuff" until funds have traded hands. after money has been exchanged you do what he wants. 1 naked picture has been traded for the intent to accept money for sex, this is not a "deal". once money has been exchanged, a deal is final. you had better negotiate what you will and won't do before, cause i would expect every orifice for that kind of money, and your enjoyment of it. with lots of "owws", "that hurts" and "i've never had one that big". be careful and good luck

Answer 7

FORGET HIM!! Haven't u seen he is getting back/forgiving you after you do/send him something sexual. He is just in it for your body, he doesn't love you and I think you shouldn't get played like this so end it

Answer 8

It's a sugar daddy site. figure it out.

Answer 9

1st off.. let me say that it is OBVIOUS he doesn't like you at all, he just wants sex and he wants to pay you for it! He straight said that you are WASTING his time b/c you don't wanna get down and dirty with him! DUH!!!



Oh and 2nd .... AAAhahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha!!!!! a SUGAR DADDY dating site!?!?! oh please get a job you very sad, poor, pathetic girl!

Answer 10

tell him to pay u something and then you will do some stuff on webcam