Question:
How to talk about sex?
2015-01-02 16:03:18 UTC
Hi guys, lately I've been thinking a lot about my life and future plas now that I'm in highschool. I've been thinking about future relationships, etc. I do want to be prepared, because I know a lot can happen in highschool relationships with tewn pregnancy and such. I live with my grandparents, for reasons i prefer not to mention. And basically I'm trying to figure out how to talk to my Grandmother about sex and possibly getting on birth control, for the safety of myself and future. My grandmother is the type of person that freaks out about everything, so I'm not really sure how to go about this. In a way I feel she would be proud of me for speaking up, because she was once a teen parent. But also disappointed at the sight of me having sex, since I'm only 15. I have had sex before, which was over a year ago. And I realized it was a big mistake, and haven't since then. So, how can I talk to her about it without her freaking out or being so suspicious? And sorry for quite the long paragraph.
Three answers:
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2015-01-02 16:12:59 UTC
Hello there. Let me be straight with you. You are 15 years old. Focus on finishing school & stop thinking about sex. A person your age has NO business engaging in any sexual activity. You are not old enough to support & take care of a baby....you are still SO young. Believe me... wait until you are older to think about boys. Boys and girls are very very different. I understand your curiosity. If you do not feel comfortable talking to grandma about sex then don't. Simply find someone you trust (perhaps your friends mom or older sister). Be sure to Google pictures of Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, Syphilis, & Herpes while you are at it. Everytime you mess around w/ a boy or have sex you have the possibility of getting a disease (some never go away). Just be friends with guys for now. Finish school & make good friends who encourage you to be a better person & make wise choices ;)
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2015-01-02 16:06:00 UTC
If you wanna get on birth control tell her that its for acne and your irregular periods. Im not really answering your question but thats a way that she will possibly let you get on birth control.
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2015-01-02 16:18:19 UTC
may be you need a good friend you could be trusted

dont bother your granny


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